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bandit
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Yvan,
Thanks a lot to share your experience with the BG from Patong with us. First I would like to tell you, that I think you should not lose your head and do something rash because of her. It is the job of the BGs to give you a good time and this is what she did. You are married and have certainly a stable life back home.
You have only met the BG you were mentioning for six days on your holidays in a beautyful enviroment. You were her customer and paid her for having fun. As you say she could only speak very little English. You were already having doubts that she can be trusted while you were together with her. This are not precisely the facts on which one should set up plans for the future.
As for her showing her emotions, you calling her and she not replying your emails, it is like the other bros say.
Girls in LOS can cry without reason, their thoughts while they are doing so do not necessarily be combined to you. As her English is poor, she will have to pay to translate your and her emails. This costs her probably Baht 200 to 300 per email, which is a lot of money. I think calling her is a waste of money, as due to her lacking skills of English and yours in Thai, you cannot speak much.
Therefore I would like to recommend you to drop her, stop thinking about her in a too serious way, focus on your marriage and the things back home. Let her be your good memory of a wonderful time you had while on holidays!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:56 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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michi
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Yvan, you have some kind of a major problem. But I gues the problem is not that TG in PAtong, but your wife. The same happened to me before, but I had to find out that the TG was quite exchangable. There is many of those girls that canot talk to you ( what means will not argue), but make you feel that great, that you fall for them. I would not argue that the girl is cheating on you or anything like this. There is also some honest romantic girls around (I know quite a few from talking outside of business as a friend). But you have to be aware of it, that they really do this whole thing to take care of the family in poor Isaan. Some of the got the heck and do it for business, but the less hardened ones (I hope you got one of those) are OK. If you do not provide enough money that her family can get through life, she will go and work, but do not blame her for that, it is NO CHOICE!! I do not want to say you should spend all your money on a girl that you know 6 days, that is up to you. But if you do that keep in mind: there is million of such poor families and you simply cannot change the world by supporting one - and the question also is whether you want to do it for almost ever?!?
... maybe my thoughts are a little confused here in the reply, but I think the FFF answers do not fit for yvan, he did not reach that stage yet - maybe he is not the character to do it (what is probably good)
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:27 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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hello all
My advice is to leave your wife sell everything you own in your home country and go move to be with this girl you known for 6 days. No wonder your haveing problems with your wife ( If you are in fact haveing them) Chasing Thai girls around and banging them without any comittment to your marrage. Guess VOWS don;t mean anything to you . I also advise that you should live in constant agony and stress over this Thai girl. I advise that you stay up at night worrying about her have it effect your work and heath to the point that you go into a state of depression that drains you of all your will to live Hey shes with another guys right now perhaps Hows that make you feel LOL LOL LOL. Rock on guys
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:14 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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Kaymanx
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ABC sums it up very well. You need to be clear in your head about what is it that you are looking for when you go sanooking in LOS. That means when you go looking for fun. It will be a mistake to mix up sanook with love. The two are totally different. You can be married, love your wife and kids dearly, yet go to LOS for sanook. In my opinion it does not mean you love your family any the less. On the other hand, your sex escapades might actually help you get a better view on life and give more love and care to your family.
It is also a mistake to imagine you are in love with a woman after meeting her several times on one trip. Maybe if you go a second time and a third time and succeed in meeting her again you will get a better understanding of your emotions.
Yvan, I would suggest you read Arramsey's thread on a similar topic to understand what it takes.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:31 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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bangkropolis2020
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Infatuation is what you may be developing for this girl, NOT love..and it's all in your head. I think infatuation stems from desperation. I don't know, maybe your not happy with your current situation in life, suck it up and forget about this shit because it's never going to work(IMHO).
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:55 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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bangkropolis2020
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I apologize if that seemed harsh, but I've read in this forum about many guys who are all bleary eyed over some thai bargirl who doesn't even speak the same langauge. I feel sorry for these guys, and I think what might do them some good is to cease contact with thier thaigirl and then get slapped across the snout for being silly/I am partially joking
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:05 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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Packripper
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hehe. *rimshot*... Maybe a new classmate for ya, Atypical?
Quote: from atypical on 10:14 am on Feb. 2, 2003
Now I phone her every day but I do not speak in Thai and she speak very little English.
err umm... talk about a waste of money on phone bills.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:23 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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nokna
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don't be so harsh on the poor fella.
i have experienced some of the things he wrote about and i know how he feels.
and a good friend of mine is going through hell with the situation with a girl he likes.
if i had the chance i would settle down with a woman i met and grew fond off,problem is i would have to choose between 3 of them.
bk2020
infatuated i may be with my main girl,but i spent time with her on 3 separate trips and i've met the family and all that.
if i could i think i would.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:01 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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bangkropolis2020
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yeah, we've all experienced similar feelings. but it usually happens at around age 14-18
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:12 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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Yurune
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quite possibly, I'd say the theory is correct...but I don't think mocking him is particularly constructive......
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:17 am on Feb. 2, 2003
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