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michi
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macaler,
welcome to the club! I guess a lot of all the guys here had some experience like you before. But if we are honest: how many one night stands at home end with a life long happy relationship???
do not worry, it happened to me once as well.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:42 pm on Feb. 5, 2003
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BoomARang
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Macaler - Just so as to not disappoint you, you're a friggin psycho! There, feel better? ;)
The second address was a BIG tip off. Got two boyfriends? Get two addresses. Her mistake was in not keeping them straight. Or is it like cars, as soon as the ashtrays are full you need to get a new one? ;)
But, to be honest with you, that's not what would have blown it for me. What would have made me realize it wasn't going to work was the way she acted when she was with you outside of LOS and then the way she was inside.
As you said, "high maintenance". She just needed way too much attention and that is a sign of immaturity more so than anything else. Sometimes getting an "import model" situated in a local Thai community where you live helps but if it is a problem of MAX attention, that usually doesn't do much good.
When you think about it, they are young, good looking and are used to being the center of attention. If they are less mature and need to feed on that attention, there is not much you can do.
However, her having two addresses, and obviously another on the stringer would have actually made me feel better about cutting her loose knowing she would have had someone to fall back on and ALSO taking pressure off from her to bug the hell out of me because she didn't have anyone else. What's the best thing a guy can give to a wife he wants to divorce? A boyfriend! ;)
Sorry, but I guess you're not a friggin psycho. 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:18 pm on Feb. 5, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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Hello all
I think that this forum should be required reading for any 1st timer to SEA. It would save a lot of guys from makeing the mistake of falling for these girls. Like the Tubes song goes
You can step outside your little world
You can talk to a Pretty girl
Shes everything you dream about
BUT DON:T FALL IN LOVE
Shes a beauty 1 in a million girls
WHY DO THEY LIE why do they lie
Ok I revised it a bit but you get the point
3 Fs guys
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:44 pm on Feb. 5, 2003
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Simon WS
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Sorry to say this but you guys are being pretty childish about this. Seen the film 'Payback'? Didn't the same thing happen there? If you go to New York or Amsterdam and pick up a prostitute and tell her you love her, what are the chances that she will be honest with you? FAR LOWER THAN LOS. Stupid moveis like "Pretty Woman' apart, you have an almost 100% chance that she will collude with her boyfriend, pimp and God knows who else and rip you for every cent you've got. Further, when you try to wriggle out, she'll get some bitch-lawyer and slap a paternity law-suit or breach-of-promise lawsuit and soak you for all you've got.
So let's be fair. In the good old days, it was common in Europe for such a lady to have many admirers, who would shower her with gifts etc and she would play up to all of them. (Like Satine in Moulin Rouge) Isn't it the same thing here? Or is it that the color of your skin gives you some divine right to demand instant obedience and devotion from them the moment you flash a $100 bill?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:17 am on Feb. 6, 2003
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BoomARang
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Simon - I have to agree with you, although I don't even think it is limited to prostitutes. I've said in another thread that even "non-working" women in guys' own country can do the same thing yet it is the Thai women that get tarred as lying cheating whores that can't be trusted.
I think Macaler's story is one of the first I've heard on any board about a failed relationship that ended more so out of compatability issues as opposed to the guy simply being a jerk and blaming everything on self-fulfilling proficies.
There is a line between women and men and I've seen too many cases where the line between them is the surface of a mirror.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:43 am on Feb. 6, 2003
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MacTheHappy
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Macaler,
Sounds as though she gave you up after the 4 weeks and found an alternative. She should not have started with you again, that was her (and your) mistake.
When she made up with you she would have been reluctant to give up whatever else was going on, seeing as how the relationship with you was so shaky, so she had to lie.
Sounds as though she wasnt very good at it.
As Simon says, this is not about thailand, this is how women are and how relationships go, it is never simple.
Dont let it get you down or make you cynical. This is not the worse thing that can happen. Worse would be if you met somebody that could make you happy for the rest of your life and you dumped them 'cos you said 'never again'.
Mac
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:16 am on Feb. 6, 2003
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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present...
bound4bangkok ...it is 5 f's , actually.
JackRabbit
Story behind the F's. Original version was in the comic "Dirty private Beetle".
There was a poster in general's office and the ladies complained that it was harassing them.
Text was:
Find them
Feed them
f_ck them
Forget them
and I add the fifth one "Fine them".
JR
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:46 am on Feb. 6, 2003
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Arcadius
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Macaler
I think MacTheH has got this one pretty well taped. She couldn't hack life outside LOS (not uncommon for a TG), and it was you who later broke with her.
She's now in her later 20s, and you've become a most unreliable prospect. Of COURSE she's going to find alternatives while she still can. You then get repositioned as a back-up. It's certainly not just BGs or ex-BGs who play the game like this, and from their own pov it's entirely justified. After all, you're not operating on a level playing field. SHE's running out of time. You and your unknown rivals aren't.
"But the one time I did get involved I was on the swords edge waiting for a lie to come"
I think that where TGs are concerned, you needn't worry about dying of old age while on the sword's edge. Imho, Western notions of honesty are not nearly flexible enough for LOS, and if you can't adapt you'd do better to avoid. Suppose you had settled down with her in LOS. Is it inconceivable that once she was past the age of fancy (if not before), you'd have started to roam? Would you have been entirely honest with her about this? Would she have wanted you to be? нн
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:54 am on Feb. 6, 2003
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