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Arramsey
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BigDUSA , HS , Smegma ,
It is precisely because I wanted to "listen" to the girls that I invited X & LadyAnne for the discussion .
It appears that your definition of "listening" is whatever is your perception of the signals they give out .
Whereas my definition of "listening" is to actually discuss with them and find out their perception of what makes them tick .
Anyway , I wonder why the 3 of you are so eager to try and kill the discussion without giving the 2 resident ladies a chance to respond .
Who knows - if we actually do "listen" to them we all might learn a thing or two .
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:35 am on May 26, 2003
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haam sup
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Arramsey,
I think you're taking this 'Mr. Sensitive' posture a bit too far. ÝAnd no one is trying to kill any threads. ÝNor do you have the right idea about what 'listening' means to me.
My chief problem with all this is the assumption that 'women' can be generalized about. ÝIf you listen to 'X', you MAY figure out what SHE likes, i.e., how to get in HER pants, and the same for Lady Anne. ÝThese may be laudable goals in and of themselves (something tells me 'X' would be a lot of fun  ), but I doubt either of them speak for Thai girls in general, especially since 'X' is a Dutch girl.
The assumption that (aside from the most basic stuff), all women like or will respond to the same things, is central to the narcissictic male 'world's greatest lover' mentality. ÝIt is dehumanizing, and surprisingly ineffective.
If ONE thing can be said about ALL people, it is that they like to be listened to, and taken at face value. ÝThis is true for men, and women.
Someone said that love is not about how you feel about the other person, but how they make you feel about yourself. ÝI find some truth in this.
Love, (and sex) exist more in the head than in the body; you will get farther with an interest in your partner, than with the most refined double tongue-swirl you can muster...
Know what I mean?
haam sup
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:22 pm on May 26, 2003
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X
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I swear I'll be late for my own funeral!
OK, I searched and found the "time of the month" thread and just replied to that one... Ýre the "art of f_cking" thread... well I can't really add anything to that, that hasn't already been said. ÝWomen are all different, as are men. ÝThere isn't ONE single way to give a BJ that every man would consider "the perfect bj"... Ýprobably the difference between the "mediocre bj" and the "perfect bj" is tiny... but it's that tiny difference that makes it perfect. Ý
Take the same women and get her to perform in the exact same manner a bj on two men.... want to bet that manA's perfect bj was another manB's mediocre bj. ÝThe bj was identical only the way the receiver experienced it was different. ÝSame for women and sex I suppose. Ý
When you cook a certain dish for someone who likes hot food then you add more chillis... for someone who doesn't like spicey food you leave the chiilis out. ÝThe basic dish is the same... but 2 tiny chillis can make a massive difference. ÝWhat I am trying to say in a long roundabout way is... you adjust your cooking technique in accordance with the tastes of the person whose going to be eating it... I think it's the same with sex. Ý You adjust your techniques to the tastes of the person on the receiving end.
The only thing I can think off to add is COMMUNICATE COMMUNICATE and when you've done that then COMMUNICATE some more. Ý ÝAnd I don't mean just listening.
Listening, in and of it's self, is fine and dandy.... but only if your women is gonna come right out and tell you "nahhhhh one a scale of 1 to 10 that was only a 5" or "you know I really don't like that at all". ÝEncourage her communication by asking her things. ÝOr comparing things.. like... is it better this way, or do you prefer it that way. ÝThat kinda thing. Ý
I noticed BigD mentioned on that other thread ("the art of f_cking" thread) that NewGuys wife had adressed the issue previously. ÝWhich is correct, I remember reading her post and commenting on parts of it... and from what I recall that only kinda proves the point I am making now. ÝI remember reading her words on pick-up techniques, and to call the girl whose number you just acquired very promptly or she'll lose interest in you... and basically I am so different to her. Ý I always associated the guy who called straight away the very next day as kinda desperate. ÝI preferred the more layed back guy who called casually a few days later. ÝThe way in which NewGuysWife found a the ultimate pick-up-routine, would have had me thinking the guy was a weirdo/moron to be cold-shouldered at all costs. ÝNGW's ideas for the "perfect gift" were worlds apart from my own. Ý
p.s. to HamSuup.... women don't wear pants... they wear knickers 
oh yeah and men perspire, horses sweat and women glow.
Ok LadyAnne... you're shot.
(btw where is LadyA???? Ýhope that flu she had hasn't floored her)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:56 pm on May 26, 2003
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haam sup
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OK! Knickers, then.
Still suspect, now even more, that he who is admitted, will be a lucky boy! Or MAN!
haam sup
shameless flatterer
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:01 pm on May 26, 2003
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Arramsey
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Haam sup ,
I hope you have carefully read X's latest post on this thread . As Trink would say "Nuff said".
X ,
I am really glad that I have pestered you to give your viewpoints on these topics . As I said in the thread "That time of month" - your post should be very enlightening to any Forum member ( including me ) who is really interested in giving pleasure while getting it .
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:53 am on May 27, 2003
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haam sup
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Arramsey,
Yep, I read it, and she basically said what the rest of us have been saying: no two are alike, so communicate (listen) and adjust to your partner's needs.
What part of that are you at odds with?
So, if you needed to hear that from the woman's point of view, 'nuff said indeed.
Making a big show out of your 'sensitivity' isn't really all that becoming...and maybe a bit disingenuous. ÝI get the impression that you are a major control freak, happy if you're doling it out to your wards in the jungwat, and able to call yourself magnanimous...but in awe of women who MIGHT be a tad independent.
In some more of Trink's words, "But I don't give a hoot", so cut the condescending crap.
haam sup
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:52 am on May 28, 2003
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Arramsey
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HS ,
You must be missing Chompoo very much - but I am not interested in playing that game .
You have the right to your opinions - BUT I have got my answer from X which is all I wanted in the first place .
You will read her answer in your way - and I will read it in mine .
From your history on this Forum - you will want to have the last word . Please go ahead .
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:28 am on May 28, 2003
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Smegma
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Quote: from Arramsey on 2:28 pm on May 28, 2003
From your history on this Forum - you will want to have the last word . Please go ahead .
Why Ýis it that the guy who wants to have the last word always says this to challenge the other guy, so that he then doesn't say anything and the first one is the one ending having the last word -but then looks foolish. This always ends up being a no win situation for both parties. Then why say it in the first place?
BTW, Arramsey, I agree with you on many of the things you said. But where H-S seems to be right is in pointing you appearing to be a bit too sensitive. We all know you are a good guy. So, do not let the no-better-than-Zmegma smart-azz of haam sup work you up. (btw, all hypocrisy aside, I also like haam sup)
Anyway, guys, take it easy. Remember that the forum now is a gentler kinder one.  ÝLets move on.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:38 am on May 28, 2003
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Arramsey
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Back to the Topic ,
From the very informative posts by X on the 2 threads ( The Art of f_cking & That time of the Month ) and also from the replies from many members it is evident that many of us ( definitely me included ) have learned a lot on the finer points of what makes a woman tick .
Many thanks X - and I don't care if I am accused of showing off my sensitivity - BUT I would love to hear from you ( and other ladies on the board ) on all matters that relate to males interacting with females .
I just hope that LadyAnne and any other lady members will follow X's lead and share their opinions with us .
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:05 am on May 28, 2003
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