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ABC
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X:
No worries about using me as an example!! I'm honored. And I know we are very compatible, and that's why we are very close friends!! Besides, ÝI don't want to get my sunglasses broken or taken!! ha ha ha!! *wink*
And ÝI should've titled this "qualities you look for in a mate and not female!!" Oops .... SORRY!! I did not mean to preclude any females opinions on the subject.
silentbob1234:
I'm hoping this thread does not break down into a bashing of either culture.
But I do hope that members ideas on what they think on what they consider "western" female, as well as what they look for in a female will give the other members insight into what they are thinking. At least that is my goal!! ha ha ha!!
Arcadius:
It wasn't a frivolous point I was raising. Being married already, what I am currently looking for in women is the qualities which will make them good mistresses. Sex, charm, enchantment and all that sort of stuff. I do not need to care about their child-rearing abilities, common interests, steadfastness in a crisis and all that.
Thanks for again for sharing Ýwhat you are looking for as well as your definiton. And you description fits what you want in a female and that's great. To each his own.
At least now when we are discussing issues about females, I as well as other members can now understand more about why you posted something. Good luck in your quest for that female!!
Anyone else care to step up to the plate and share their thoughts and ideas???
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:00 am on July 25, 2003
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Arcadius
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X
God, you're so smug it's sickening! Maybe your affair with ABC will stir things up a bit.
While I certainly think it's true that in most marriages &c the 'passion' eventually cools or even dies, I don't think this needs to rupture the relationship. I think that's what happens when this tide goes out and reveals that there's nothing else there. But in many cases, other bonds may well have developed or grown stronger.
Just about anyone with kids will tell you that the nature of their marriage changed dramatically. The relationship may have become better, or worse, but it will certainly have been transformed. Unfortunately, much of this is utterly unpredictable. How can two young 20-somethings infatuated with each other possibly know how they're going to relate to each other as middle-aged parents?
ABC
The point I'm making is that too many questions get asked in such general terms as to be useless. You know - stuff like "If I fall in love with a BG, will it do my head in?", "Are Western women crap compared with Thai women?" & so on. Unless or until terms are more tightly defined, much of the ensuing discussion is at cross purposes as members address what are often separate issues. What I look for in a temporary mistress may be entirely different to what you look for in a potential wife, and it is easy to give an impression of total disagreement about what we look for in a 'woman'. In reality, we may not disagree in the slightest. Ý Ý Ý
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 8:44 am on July 25, 2003
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Thai Traveler
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Well, I might throw in my $0.02 as well. 
What I'm looking for in a woman is one that is easy going, funny, caring, still has feminine charm and reasonable attractive. Like mentioned here before, I do prefer an equal, someone I can talk to. I've dated in the past, but so far one (or more) of the qualities I look for have been missing. That does not mean I haven't made some good friends along the way, but that special someone has so far eluded me. And I'll honestly admit that I find asian women more attractive.
The one thing I can't stand though is how it was it put recently by a female radio announcer during an interview. Her take on a good relationship was "Let him know quickly who's the boss"... Her in other words.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:00 pm on July 26, 2003
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invaderzim
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hmm all orange red hair including eyebrows and down there.. flat stomach about 5'6" freckles glowing ultra pale skin straight teeth. open minded, cool, likes video games..likes making fun of everything doesnt have any stupid liberal hangups is not a feminazi likes movies with exlposions car chases and three stooges type comedy can laugh at herself, light hearted, helpful, dependant but yet independant and reliable.. sexually care free..doesnt let religious or social hangups stop her from experimenting.. likes girls too, nipples pierced, smart able to hold deep intelectual conversations but not a know it all with the matter of fact attitude.. an ability to theorize and come up with her own ideas not just qoute known facts likes keeping in good shape.. not conceited or selfish
well if I were to build a perfect woman that would be it.. but it doesnt exist..and even if it did I sure as hell couldnt get it
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:13 am on July 28, 2003
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China Sailor
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Simple..
Best Friend, hot lover, and trustworthy business partner.
Nothing in the contract about you support me whilst I shop..
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:38 am on July 28, 2003
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If I might butt in at the risk of being an eastern trespasser into a "western woman" discussion.... I feel the thread about "have Thai women made you less tolerant of western women" really means to ask "have Thai women made you less tolerant of the women back home?" And my resounding answer is YES!
I think this is a very interesting thread (how many times have we said that on different threads?). I don't think western women alone can be "targetted" for resentment. If a man has at all fallen in love with LOS and TGs, then sure as f_ck he is unhappy with his home territory with all its conditions and sexual mores and customs. He sees LOS as Heaven. I do. (There is this story building up about Roger in another thread, The Bangkok Shuffle). How many of us do not see ourselves in Roger ?
I am sure if there were go-go bars for women customers, MPs exclusively for women with male masseurs, BarBoys(!), an Adam Club, all catering exclusively to women, and if women were as uninhibited as men in making a beeline for whichewver country that offered such RR to women, then a similar boot could be worn on the other foot: "have Thai men made you less tolerant of the men back home?" or maybe "have British men made you less tolerant of the men back home?" or maybe "have Brazilian men made you less tolerant of the men back home?" It doesn't matter which country has the hottest men, what matters is which country offers women sheer Heaven!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:29 pm on July 28, 2003
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Smegma
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ABC, sorry for coming to this thread so late. I sense you would have liked me to comment earlier. But i have been a bit lazy lately regarding my reading of the forum.
Re. your opening post, I agree.
I quote something below from your second one on the thread.
Quote: from ABC on 5:48 pm on July 25, 2003
Smegma:
I agree about the family value part, but not the "wife needs to take care of the bread winner."
hmmm.. by the use of 2but" in the same sentence it seems that what follows is part of something I had defended. I never said that.
Anyway, when it comes to family values, I was not thinking of discussing specific ones. I was saying -as you correctly quoted me that Asians were more in line with people of Mediterranean descent who all saw Anglosaxons and Slavics as cold. By this I was referring the the warmth and strenght of the bonds in a family; not to specific values and justifying them. Any such discussion would also have to take into account the overall culture. My point is that Anglosaxons are more selfish and colder when it comes to dealing with family members. In the USA children move out early on and almost never see their parents or call them; bonds between family members are not that strong -as perceived by outsiders.
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Aside: Damn! I am coming too late to the thread ... and too many things have been said already that I agree with and on which I would like to comment. But time does not allow me to do so now.
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Quote: from ABC on 6:12 pm on July 25, 2003
To me, gf means a possibly of something in the future. A possiblity, where I don't go in saying she's the only one, but if she isn't someone that I could possibly see a future with, then she will remain a just a friend.
I think that I act in way that is consistent with what you say above. However, thinking about it, we may be wrong. By from the outset excluding anyone that we think may not make as a candidate for life companionship, we may jumping ahead of ourselves. We may be deciding based on inperfect information. Afterall, the gf-bf is to explore and get to know each other. Who knows? Maybe you discover later on she may be the one. The problem is that as we get older we do not want to be compromising on small things with people we do not really like. We want the whole thing from the beginning. When we were younger it was easier to get a new gf and also to break up with her. Now, the older we are, the more difficult it is to break up if we are not 100% happy.
On the matter of the qualities I want on a female ... well they are the same, regardless of she being westerner or easterner. I have found women that fulfilled my criteria on both sides of the world.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:46 am on July 30, 2003
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Hermanolobo
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Thai Traveller-
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-"Her take on a good relationship was "Let him know quickly who's the boss"... Her in other words. "-
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That's awful !
But in the end this 'female' will be the loser. She will never be happy and NEVER be satisfied. Can't imagine anyone wanting to be with a in-yer-face slapper like that?
In the end it is about two people regardless of backgrounds. Some get it right ? These days most
get it wrong? It's the contradictionary society we live in.
What their cake and eat it ?
"Why did you not hold that door open for me/help me with my bag?"
"I - want to be independent!"
The World is full of shit these days? A lot comes from the modern commercial media ?
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:56 am on July 30, 2003
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Smegma
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Quote: from Hermanolobo
The World is full of shit these days. A lot comes from the modern commercial media.
A Thai man told me recently that Thai women were now full of shit and into wanting the kind of man they saw in western movies. The guy was actually upset when telling me this and he was bitching about how western media is spoling Thai women by changing their expectations 555.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:02 am on July 30, 2003
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