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JR.
the PP situation was ok really.
when i first met,Nok,she and Na were good friends and Nok had no problem with me seeing other ladies(from other bars).
we spent a lot of time together and we grew close
i returned a couple of monthe later and she had fallen out with some of the girls,including Na.
i had returned to see Nok and wanted to be with her,but still wanted to butterfly a little.
we sat down on my first day and agreed to certain 'rules' we both wanted.
but we both broke them and it caused problems between us.
but she still spent 10 nights out of 15 with me.
i will soon start FR's of my trip when i first met her and things might become clearer.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:29 am on Nov. 11, 2002
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zzzZ
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I think as Nokna says, it is a matter of declaring yourself to be a butterfly from the beggining and you will have far fewer problems. Even though the girls are all working regardless, there are rules of the game that mimic real life. If you take a girl, she likes to think that you are hers, even though she goes with other customers too. So, it is easier if you butterfly with girls from other bars at the very least. Taking more than one from the same is dangerous business. Maybe only the highly skilled like Nokna can pull it off successfully 
Sometimes you can just make a joke out of the whole butterfly thing and the girls will love your honesty... afterall, they are mostly just big butterflies too!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:04 am on Nov. 11, 2002
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nokna
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whoa,steady on.
never said i was highly skilled.
there have been times when i've had to put my foot down with certain girls.
i've said to them 'i'm on holiday,i like many ladies,if i want to see you tonight but someone else tomorrow,i will'.
they then agree to accept the situation.
i like my regular girls,but sometimes just fancy a bit of a change.
if i was to really think about it,the % of regular girls staying overnight would be a lot higher then the occasional alnighter.
don't even think of calling the girls butterflies.
i've gone down this road,saying they are bigger butterflies then me.
but they cannot/will not grasp the concept.
'i go with man for money,i need man to get money to look after my family,you go with lady for boom boom,not same'.
which i suppose is strictly true.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:21 pm on Nov. 11, 2002
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zzzZ
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gotcha nokna. wasn't necessarily suggesting that you call THEM butterflies, but was just making the oblique reference that they are in effect doing something similar and if you are honest they will understand...
my point is that i just don't think it is worth playing more than one girl in the same bar or you are looking for trouble...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:09 pm on Nov. 11, 2002
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nokna
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i used to call them butterflies all the time,we had fun with it.
problem with seeing only one girl from each bar is a problem for me.
normally more then one girl i like and want,that's why i butterfly.
there have been girls who refused to talk to me again because of my ways and that's their right.
but no loss really,all 3 of them were not really my type and i would'nt have BF'd them again.
but as i said,i normally found they pushed their friends upon me,i did'nt need to seek them out.
makes life easier i found.
i try to treat them as ladies and get good vibes back.
my regulars know when i visit them,i might not BF them,but they always get a few drinks and a promise of the BF another day,which i keep.
i like to meet them during the day and just hang out with them,having lunch,going shopping etc.
that's why my birthday was such a great night out.
i BF'd 5 of my best friends and we had a ball drinking,eating and doing the koaroke.
took Nok home and the other 4 were fine with it.
they had had a night away from their bar,were fed and watered and had fun and not a word of any extra payment.
they all bought me presents and thanked for the good time they had.
sometimes it helps to be a butterfly.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:22 pm on Nov. 11, 2002
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zzzZ
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sounds like a good time Nokna. now that i've got a steady TG i'm yearning for those days again a little bit.. sniff sniff. but i have a good lady, and it is only when i'm not with her that i start thinking like that!!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:52 pm on Nov. 11, 2002
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nokna
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zzzZ.
i envy you having a steady TG.
are you in LOS with her 24/7?(how i hate that expression).
i have always said there are 3 TG's i would like to settle with given the chance.
well now it's down to 2 girls.
if i could i would love to join the likes of some members and live in LOS permantly and try my hardest not to butterfly.
but until the day comes when i can live there permantly,whenever i visit i will butterfly and damn the consquenses.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:14 pm on Nov. 11, 2002
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zzzZ
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Nokna.
it is a good thing if you find a good TG as a steady. not always easy, but hell, you read the board so what do i need to say to you? my girl's a real doll so i'm very happy...
i live in new york. i go to LOS about one week out of every 4-6. not enough by a longshot, but perhaps better than what most can do so i can't complain.
i used to live in asia (hong kong) and miss it a lot. it's a good bet i'll be heading back out permenantly in the near future...
when are you heading back out to LOS next?
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:20 pm on Nov. 11, 2002
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don't be surprise that most TGs have connections with many other bars... as most have them either move around or have friends working in various bars...
and believe me.... they will know that you have taken another lady from another bar the next day and lying to them will not do you good.....
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:28 am on Nov. 12, 2002
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nokna
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'lying to them'?,not me,always upfront with them.
they know i am butterfly.
as i've said so many times before and it's getting boring,i'm normally seen at night with a girl and the next day i'm asked about it by other girls.
i can honestly say only 2 women got jealous about it,but were fine later when i BF'd them.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:12 pm on Nov. 12, 2002
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