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ABC
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derman53:
I agree with Fastmover about "Don't waste your energy fightng about it. "
I would suggest you don't try to f_ck her over and just "cut" bait and move on.
This goes beyond saving or losing "face" and more along the lines of obstenace!! ha ha ha!!
You've made your point and she's made hers. Let things end as harmoneous as possible.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:05 pm on July 1, 2004
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derman53
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A friend of mine has been sending her email (unkown to me because he does not trust her). She has agreed to see him and told him she is working at the bar again Wwhich I also received news of from a 2nd source. She denies she is working or ever told anyone she was working at the bar or that she wanted to see my friend. She needs to be honest and open if she wants me to continue to sponsor her.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:59 pm on July 1, 2004
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ABC
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Quote: from derman53 on 12:59 pm on July 2, 2004
A friend of mine has been sending her email (unkown to me because he does not trust her). She has agreed to see him and told him she is working at the bar again Wwhich I also received news of from a 2nd source. She denies she is working or ever told anyone she was working at the bar or that she wanted to see my friend. She needs to be honest and open if she wants me to continue to sponsor her.
You've got the answers. It should be obvious she's lying. So, just let her go and don't see her or sponsor her any more. Simple!!
There are plenty of willing and able females that would love to be sponsored. ha ha!!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:19 pm on July 1, 2004
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Ripmaster
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sh!t. sounds like the girls working for me. But im the one telling them how to make money.....
sorry guys had to say it 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:26 pm on July 1, 2004
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ABC
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Quote: from Ripmaster on 1:26 pm on July 2, 2004
sh!t. sounds like the girls working for me. But im the one telling them how to make money.....
sorry guys had to say it
Sorry about what??
Some people are players whlie others are just gettin' played.
Question is, can a person recognize sooner then later which one they are!! h ha ha!!
The saying there's a sucker born every minute does not apply to Thailand and the tg's/bg's. Once you step foot in Thailand, a sucker falls for a bg/tg's lines every couple of seconds. And if he's lucky, it won't take long to figure out it and not get to deep into things.
Of course that's a generalized statement and there are plenty of honest tg's/bg's.
IMO:
Many that think they are the players with the tg's or b'gs are usually the ones that are getting played!! ha ha ha!! Just keepin' it real!!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:38 pm on July 1, 2004
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Arcadius
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She needs to be honest and open if she wants me to continue to sponsor her
Dream on. These girls deal in illusions.
If you're not in the market for illusions, I suggest you give up sponsorship altogether. It's one thing to be a BG's willing dupe; another to delude yourself.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:03 pm on July 1, 2004
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from derman53 on 1:22 am on July 2, 2004
At the same time she expects me to continue to sponsor her. I refuse until she comes clean. Have I painted her into a corner and should give her up as a lost cause?
yes, give up and move on.
Shouldn't be sponsoring her lying arse anyway
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:10 pm on July 1, 2004
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DSBones
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ABC said
"You've got the answers. It should be obvious she's lying. So, just let her go and don't see her or sponsor her any more. Simple!!"
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I am not sure if it is always that simple. There are a surprisingly large number of men who choose to believe otherwise when faced with the facts.
It is sometimes not easy to let go, despite what your head is telling you. How many of us have cut relationships only when we have an alternative lined up?
In Thailand it should be easier because there are a multitude of similar women available. In our heads though we choose to believe that the one we are with is the 'only one' and that we will never find another like her. We know that this is really not true but we choose to believe it.
If you have strong feelings for anyone it is always painful to break it off. If you live in Thailand the loneliness that you may feel can be quickly assuaged. It may not be so easy if you are thousands of miles away in a small souless town where good companionship is harder to find. Some individuals can fill their time effectively after a break up, others have more difficulty.
However, if you have doubts now then it is better to make that break sooner rather than later because the emotional upheaval that you may suffer later will only be much worse.
If you are not sure then you can choose to continue the relationship but it will take a long time for the uncertainty to go away (if it ever will).
This is not an easy dilemma if you have strong feelings for the girl & I can sympathise with your situation.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:01 pm on July 1, 2004
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Kryptonite
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Why is this such a hard decision to make?
She lied to you. Stop sending money. Forget her. Come back and get a new one.
Sheeeesh! There must be something about male children born to "blondes"? HHHHEEEEELLLLLOOOOO!
At the first inclination that I thought that a girl was lying to me, I would cut that biatch off faster than she can say "where you go, I go with you."
HOLY sh_t HERE GUY! Get a clue!
I am not trying to bag on you personally. It is just pathetic to see this same old story over and over and over again.
If I have said it once, I have said it a million times. "Women are like postage stamps. lick 'em, stick 'em, then send them on their way!"
Kryptonite
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:26 pm on July 1, 2004
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Abrak
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One thing I guarantee...
If you continue sponsoring this girl you will certainly get to know the meaning of 'losing face'
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:51 pm on July 1, 2004
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