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NaughtiusMaximus
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So what if divorce is not final, that would not stop it.
Also, why did the wealthy Thai need to take her meagre small earnings ??
Also, how many kids did she have and or still have and by who ??
Also, where in the world can she earn 1 million baht a month, I dodnt believe this for a minute ??
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:17 pm on July 24, 2004
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LocalYokul
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If she's working as a dancer or even a call-girl in SanFran, NewYork, or LA, good to go for 25,000 USD/month (1milTHB) easy...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:40 pm on July 24, 2004
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manowar
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A very good looking girl in SF will command US$300-500/hr and US$ 1,500-2,500/day. So, US$25,000/month is not totally out of the question but she has to be very very popular and has great reviews. I also believe the top earners here (SF) are Caucasian girls with great figures. ( and probably blonde hair and blue eyes.) The French Canadians are very popular here and command that sort of price. I have not known a Thai girls ( especially someone from LOS who probably does not speak good enough English ) can command that kind of price. It sounds a little exaggerated but not totally impossible if she looks like Ms. Universe.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:24 pm on July 24, 2004
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LocalYokul
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not too sure about SanFran, but the guys who call up call-girl services in NY and LA are hip to ask for Asian fems, and if asked to specify further, usually say Thai.
Some even get a little upset when the gal shows up and is Malay with Thai looks...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 11:30 pm on July 24, 2004
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LocalYokul
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ok, I helped thread-fvck this one, so I'll put us back on track...
Flik, get your own head straight before you do anything.
maybe in the meantime, tell her that you are "Tum Jai Yoo" (getting your head around it)
If you can't control those jealous feelings, she WILL know. Some women revel in jealousy, they are most likely NOT your soul mate.
It's just a big ugly green-eyed beast, that especially has NO place in a former P4P gal's life.
Of course she feels disrespected by you for sending a bro to check her out. If she were a man, she'd kick your arse for you...
'nuff said, back on track.
I do hope you get her back, but you gotta commit to controlling that jealousy, or just lose those instincts altogether like some of us have.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:29 am on July 25, 2004
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flik
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Thanks for the replys
NM - Quite a few thai escort girls pulling 1 million baht (and more) a month in the UK, check out the prices of asian escort girls on some the web sights there. they don't go to live in London just so they can make the same money they would make in a bangkok MP. Her friend had to pay back 2 million baht for the visa to get there - she cleared it in 2 months. Even in the country she is in now the good ones can clear 500,000 baht - the going rate is 20,000 baht LT
kids - from her ex-husband
the wealthy husband ended up not so wealthy as he was blowing so much cash on gambling and womanising, hence why he started taking her cash to. I believe her earnings were not that meagre.
manowar - her english was almost none existant when we met, but as I said she is a smart cookie and learns quick - now almost as good as mine!
koolbreez - the divorce is almost final now, she knows this to be true as she has sat in the lawyers office with me in my country. has taken a lot longer than expected. I basically gave my ex wvwry asset I have in return for a quick divorce - but due to the lawyers still didn't turn out that way. Also women cannot enter the country I work in unless they have legitimate employment here or are married to someone who works here. If I give out much more I may as well post my name and address on the thread!!
Yes I know I had to get over the jealousy (which I didn't have until she went back to work abroad - all be it as a mammasson). I'm over it now - but like I said I had to loose her to come to my senses. Cut me some slack, her going back to working abroad came as a total shock, I didn't even know she was going until she was already there. She had said originally that she didn't want to go abroad again and wanted to forget about it. Also when she worked originally I actually managed to get her a job as a mammasson - but she wouldn't take it - saying that she didn't want to take money from girls for working sex (found it immoral!)
Have recently started to sponsor her a bit - just to show some commitment (wasn't in a position to before). She has recently been back to thailand to look at a business opportunity (a franchise). But we need a fair amount of capital to get it up and running - which is why we were both prepared to spend a couple of years outside LOS.
LocalYokul - the jealousy is now gone for good - but maybe to late.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:21 am on July 25, 2004
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LocalYokul
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It's most likely not too late, just tell her that you "Tum Jai Laaw" (gotten over it)... and then prove it..!!
but not thru a single act, such as buying her something or what have you, but thru time and just being sensible in a relationship, and being respectful of her, even if she is P4P (former) she's your lover and deserves respect, the best you can give...
edit : jeezus, I must have been f-in drunk when I wrote the above...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:32 am on July 25, 2004
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jack attack
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Flik,
I feel for you bro but this response may be as popular as a fart in an elevator:
What if your 'jealousy' is an early warning system trying to tell you something isn't right? All the talk about girls earning BT 1 million a month is a bit hard to believe as who ever the middle man is, would be taking their cut.
Also, the idea that you have done something wrong... what? I know most guys when they decide on divorce want it done within seconds and often the soon 2 B ex drags it out indefinitely. If she is that smart, she will see clearly you are not stalling or delaying.
You are letting her into your life and is she really doing the same other than giving ultimatums? What if that is a sign of how she really deals with problems... YOU sort it out now or I am leaving! YOU Get the divorce now or its over! YOU Stop being jealous or I will break it off!
You have to consider you are also involved with this lady while you are/were on the rebound. I know your marriage was over and maybe for a long time. But you need to get it out of your head and heart completely or you are subject to missing many of the things or signals that went wrong for you the first time.
As I started this note by saying it may not be a response you want to hear but maybe it would be worth cooling off for a while. See if she comes to you and tells you without reservation that she is out of the P4P biz for good. Or maybe consider hiring a PI. I know you checked on her before and that pissed her off. But so what? It sounds like the previous investigation was valid after all.
Maybe you should be firm with your 2 year plan to get your life, career, etc in line before you make the move to LOS. IMO women find men much more attractive when they have this part of their life under control and by then you surely should have the divorce finalized (I hope) and plans well formulated.
Good luck and give yourself some time... you deserve it.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:46 am on July 26, 2004
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flik
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had a couple more days to think about my situation, and feel like everythings a lot clearer in my mind now.
jack attack:
good post - a lot of what you say makes good sense. She certainly likes giving ultimatums and she knows exactly how to hurt me. She is also capable of being the most loving affectionate girl on the planet if I haven't pissed her off.
Certainly I was wrong to send someone to check her out. However the second time I was just following up a text message on her mobile (ok maybe I shouldn't have been looking at her texts). She had already explained the message away - but not very convincingly. Also there were to many other signals for me to ignore.
I feel I now have a clearer picture of her actions and hope I understand her more. From all she has done for me it is obvious she loves me. Initially I believe she was sincere in giving up p4p, but because it has taken us so long to be in a position to be together she decided to go back to it. Maybe as a mammasson initially, but temptation has got the better of her. Unlike myself she is capable of truly loving someone and doing p4p at the same time. I also think she's become a lot more hardened to p4p since we first met. She knows she can make an awful lot of money (believe me she would have men drooling over her anywhere in the world) which is hard to resist.
yeah she's certainly pissed that I would check up on her as she wants someone who trusts her (even if I am right not to trust her). But also I think it's a bit of face saving on her part - she would rather break it off than admit she's gone back to work.
As for my feelings - initially I was hurt and angry at the same time, as I felt that I had also given up an awful lot for her (by giving away everything in my divorce just so we could be together), and also had helped her with her house specifically so she could stop p4p. What a waste of time and money that was! I was also hurt that she would lie to me - sincerity is even more important to me than her working or not.
When I started this thread I was gutted at loosing her and regretted ever checking up (and also telling her I had done so). I aso wanted to believe her excuses even if they are pretty unbelievable. I resisted the idea of hiring a PI for a long time as it I didn't want to go behind her back. I was also reasonably secure that I didn't have anything to worry about once she went back to thailand. Once she went back to old pastures though the unanswered questions in my head became to much to take.
Where are we now, well at the moment she is still saying it is all over. But reading between the lines I feel she is just trying to teach me a long hard lesson, and making sure that I will not check up again before coming back. I won't because I don't need to anymore. I know where I stand now. At the moment she is laying down all the rules, and I know if I want her back I have to go along with this for now, and also have to take time to show her that I am once again the same guy she fell in love with and not the one I became.
Do I want her back under these conditions? Well I'm just going to have to suck it and see. I've decided to make the most of our time together (presuming we get back together) ignore what ever is happening behind my back, and see if I still want to be with her a few months down the road. If not I'll just enjoy the moment.
Will keep you posted...flik
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:14 am on July 27, 2004
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jack attack
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Flik,
I feel your pain - honestly. But still think you are not looking at all the signals:
a) you are hurt from a failed marriage - you need time to heal first before being your best at a new relationship
b) she isn't teaching you a lesson - this is how she acts/works. Is that what you want?
c) You were not wrong to check her out. And even if the results came back negative, your doubt and suspicions were not being adequately answered.
In summary, Just give yourself time - to heal and think things more clearly.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:07 am on July 27, 2004
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