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Hey guys, sorry for my being missing in action lately. I've been working on getting my trip plans in order and I'm still working on a few details, but it looks like things are shaping up nicely. I'm taking my lady and some of my extended family to the beach resort of Cha Am for 2 days but we aren't leaving until Wednesday so if any of my fellow Jedi's are available, the tentative date for our get together dinner is Tuesday Sept. 24. That date is not 100% carved in stone but I would say to go ahead and mark your calendars. Now when I first brought up the idea I thought about going on one of those dinner on the river boat tours, but those things last for 3 hours and can be a little pricey so if brothers Z, Vinny and yes this includes you to brother Mr. Joe (And no I have no reason to be pissed at you) can make some suggestions for nice restaurants in Bangkok that accommodate small groups then maybe we can make this happen. Let me know what you think guys. Now to get back on topic Mr. Joe, what you did or didn't do with someone elses lady is between you and her. Only you can decide whether or not you made the right choice and the only person on earth who may or may not have the right to be pissed at you because of it would be Mrs. Joe, even though what you did before you met her is none of her business. She is the only one that has any say about past relationships because something from your past may one day come back to haunt you and that would affect her as well. So it is because of Mrs. Joe and all of the other Ms. or Mrs. in our lives that I again bring up the name of this particular thread, Falling in Love. Hearing about all the different TG's and BG's that the brothers have met over the years is very informative, but unless you've been in love with every Thai lady you've ever known then it's time to tell a different story. The best story of them all. I don't want to hear about the one that got away, I want to hear about the one that is still here. I want to hear about Mrs. Joe. Any woman who can put up with a man, any man (come on guys, you know we aren't the easiest creatures on earth to get along with. That putting down the toilet seat thing can be a deal breaker  ) for ten years deserves to be inducted into the Jedi hall of fame. And if I remember right you once used the word cohabitate which leads me to believe that there have yet to be any knots tied in this relationship. Suddenly I have this picture in my mind (which normally takes the form of a Picasso) of a very strong, independent lady who knows what she wants out of life. I now have a new hero in my life. This is someone I hope to have the chance to meet next month because I'm positive I would take a great deal of wisdom away with me, but should that not be in the cards then I would at least like to hear all about her. We don't need to hear details or specifics. We don't even need to know her name on this forum (If you want to know my ladies name you'll have to hear it from her in person at the restaurant). I don't want to hear about them or they on a thread called Falling in Love. I want to hear about her and I mean all of the her's. I've told you about mine, now tell me about yours, and if you choose to tell about the one that got away then tell about the one that mattered (or hurt) the most. Things for brother Cmore couldn't be better at this time, but time is always moving forward and if I were to open a door and step into a world ten years into the future what would I see? Would I see a man all alone in the world or would I see my Mrs. Joe stealing the blanket from me at four in the morning? Tell us about Mrs. Joe and Ms. Z and Ms. Balls B and all the other Ms. and Mrs. who are in LOS right now with or waiting for their Mr. Show me whether it's better to open that door or leave it locked. Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:44 pm on Aug. 22, 2002
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MrJoe
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Wow cmore,
You've done it again: I'm rather blown away by your post. It was a bold demand you made and it was so eloquently stated that I have hard time saying no to it. I will consider it and respond later.
BTW- We were married in a religious ceremony but not legally (fairlly common for Thais). The reasons for this are complicated but it is at least partly related to the fact that I was previously married legally but without the ceremony and I guess I somehow want to distinguish the two marriages as I was sure I would only get married once in my life. My first wife died shortly after our marriage.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:25 pm on Aug. 22, 2002
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cmore
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Hey Mr. Joe, thanks for the reply. Don't forget to let me know about dinner and your suggestions for a restaurant. I'm still waiting to hear from brother Vinny and Z also, and it's a shame brother Balls B won't be able to make it. I was so sorry to hear about the first Mrs. Joe. She's in a better place and watching over you. As for the present Mrs. Joe I've heard about that ceremony that the families have performed sometimes when the lady brings her guy home to meet the family. WOW! and I was worried that they might not like me . I guess I won't have to think about that next month because there won't be time this trip to go to Udon Thani. That trip won't be made until next summer (if hopefully we're still together by then). To be perfectly honest I'm sitting here writing about it to you and I can honestly say that I'm not feeling any negativity about the possibility of that happening to me. I guess I'll know better in about 10 months. Anyway I hope you'll honor the brothers with the story of Mrs. Joe. She sounds like a remarkable person. You don't need to include any specifics, just tell us about her and what it is that has kept you two together all these years. You two are our role models (NO PRESURE THERE HUH?). Give the rest of us a reason to believe that there's life exist beyond Sukhumvit. Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:39 am on Aug. 23, 2002
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slojo
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cmore,
Read your post, interesting to say the least. I also see we have a common interest in Udon Thani.If you get a chance send me a private e-mail it is listed under my profile.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:16 am on Aug. 23, 2002
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zzzZ
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hey cmore. I might actually be in BKK on the 24th.. so maybe we can hook up. i will be there the week before and passing through again on my way home.. so we'll see..
not sure about best places to eat...it's always been kinda random for me so i'd be interested to hear what others suggest too...
ah, falling in love with a TG. mine is really a sweetie, and so far so good. i think she's playing it pretty straight which is cool given all the stuff i've been reading here! but i'm only 2 months into it so we'll have to see what happens in the longterm!
cmore, where you from, btw?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:47 am on Aug. 23, 2002
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cmore
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Hey brother Z, glad to hear I might get to meet a fellow Jedi next month. I'm still waiting to hear from brother Mr. Joe and of course brother Vinny the originator of this fine thread. Let's do our best to make this happen guys. Brother Z two months may not be a long time (for me it's been 3 months) but in matters of the heart time has no meaning. I know things are moving forward very quickly for me and my lady, but at this time it just feels right. Who can say what's going to happen for the two of us. To be perfectly honest if there was a door that could lead me into the future I'm not so sure that I would want to open it (well maybe just to check tomorrow's winning lottery number ). I think there's a lot more joy involved in not knowing. Kind of takes all the fun out of it if you already know whats going to happen next. Yes knowing in advance can save you a lot of heartache and no one deserves to go through that kind of pain, but at the same time getting through that pain and moving forward is what makes us stronger. I know this is a crazy thing to say guys (Yeah right, look who it is that's saying it), but feeling pain is what lets us know that we're still alive (I went to the dentist yesterday for a root canal and if I had any doubts before that I'm alive HE TOOK CARE OF THOSE DOUBTS ONCE AND FOR ALL!). Only in extreme cases can too much pain lead to tragedy (I read a couple weeks ago in Stickmans weekly about a young Thai girl that was so in love with a foreign guy that when she asked him to marry her and he said no she commited suicide. Such a waste of a precious life). We all go through pain at one time or other in our lives, it's how we deal with it that counts the most. I've had my heart broken on more than one occasion, but I refuse to let that keep me from taking another chance on love. Yes it hurts but the heart is one tough muscle and I'm still alive. I'm alive and once again enjoying this wonderful feeling (for as long as it last) and hoping with all my heart that 3 months ago I met my Mrs. Joe. Keep the faith brother Z. Mrs. Joe's are rare jems in this world but they do exist and they are out there if you're willing to take a chance and look for them. Sounds to me like you already did. I hope I'll have a chance next month to meet you and your Mrs. Joe. Peace
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:44 pm on Aug. 23, 2002
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MrJoe
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cmore,
Just a quick one to thank you, on Mrs.Joe's behalf for all the praise and I feel obligated to tell you that she is deserving of it and then some. Not a one of my friends have failed to be impressed by her, including the most hard heartedand cynical ones who almost never have a kind word to say about TGs (sadly I did used to hang out with some of those).
And let's not forget the estimable Mrs. Chateau-apparently another precious find.
BTW we will almost certainly meet up, and I look forward to it.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:36 pm on Aug. 23, 2002
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cmore
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Hey Mr. Joe, you know you're right. I can't believe I completely neglected to mention Mrs. CJ. My apologies to brother Chateaujade for the late induction of Mrs. CJ into the Jedi hall of fame. We can use all the strong, independent, and loving Thai ladies on our side that we can get (especially if they look as good in leather as I'm sure Mrs. CJ probably does ). That's one more for our side guys. The truth is out there (so are you Cmore). Who's the next Mrs. Joe or CJ to step up to the plate? Peace. BTW brother Z, I'm from Michigan. Just check my profile and you'll get my email address and web site. If you need to talk to me in private then feel free to send me an email anytime. Brother Mr. Joe if anyone knows of great places to eat in Bangkok then you're it. What do you recommend? Let us know. Peace out
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:43 pm on Aug. 23, 2002
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zzzZ
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Cool cmore. Hope we all get a chance to meet up. This thread has gone a little quiet lately....
Things continue to go well with my TG as we talk on the phone every day, email, and instant message and things are real cool.
I'm 100% sure at this point (still only less than 3 months into it) that she's for real and not playing games (cheating, working multiple sponsers, etc). In fact, maybe she's fallin too much and things are going too fast...
So, a question for you guys. I've heard all the stories of the manipulation, and having multiple sponsers at the same time, and that nasty stuff. And I have no doubt that if you play the odds, most will be like that, especially if they are BG's (for lot's of reasons already discussed). Now, my question is, what about the other extreme, where the lady is REALLY sincere, and falls in love (maybe too fast) and gets real emotional, and all that? Have any of you had that experience and how did you deal with that?
I mean, for my part, I'm crazy about my TG and she treats me real well. I couldn't complain about a thing. But things are...moving pretty fast. Makes me wonder if there is an "i want to marry a farang" agenda going on...? I don't feel anything from her but sincerity, but when I read these threads I always get cautious!!!
Cheers..
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:58 am on Aug. 27, 2002
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MrJoe
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zzzZ,
From your posts, I know you're a decent guy who is being sensible - so I for one think you deserve a good answer. What is it you fear exactly - that she wants more commitment than you? If so, you have some cause for concern. I will elaborate later ("Oh no!" cry all the brothers) but let me simply ask: Have you seen "Fatal Attraction"?
Almost every guy I know who has spent time here has at least one of those storys to tell. To paraphrase the old saying; Talk about fury - wait until you see a Thai woman scorned.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:03 pm on Aug. 27, 2002
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