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---------------------------------------------------------------------------I might offer on the other hand, a cynical piece of observation. That the scar, were it old, could be a scar long done in a ride home from a farang 5 years past, (example of how long she has worked) she saw you as fresh meat, and an easy mark, for sponsership.
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Dirty guru,
I must admit her scars got me to thinking about the circumstances under which she got them and if there was a lot more to it than she told me...... err, I do think too much, don't I?
I did receive my first e-mail from her today (not written by her but by a friend because her written English isn't nearly good enough to write an e-mail). Seems that the next stage of experience of mine has started.
Before anyone asks, she didn't ask me for money or anything. Just told me that she is doing well, misses me, and can't wait till June when I go back to Bangkok.
Truthfully, I can't wait for June to come myself.
Cheers, guys.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:37 am on Jan. 28, 2004
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>I heard it said that no one should die saying, "I'm really glad I always flew economy."
Au contraire.
The less money I spend on an air flight, the more money I can spend on the girls, a nice serviced apartment, etc.
When the price of a coach seat is US$800 and Business Class is US$3,800, I think about all the fun things I could do with US$3,000. A few hours of discomfort can be worth it.
Besides. All the more reason to get an in-call massage when you get to your hotel room. (MMmm... I miss Mon.  A pity all she said was "I work on Sukhumvit 18." That's a bloody street, not an address.)
>I'm gonna sit beneath the bridge eating Lil Friskies out of the can and dream about those sweet little pussies I loved.
Second that one. Money is a tool to be used to derive enjoyment from life. Suffer for short periods to derive pleasure later on. But die penniless.
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Posted on: 11:19 am on Jan. 28, 2004
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Quote: from sirtitus on 11:37 pm on Jan. 28, 2004[br
Dirty guru,
I must admit her scars got me to thinking about the circumstances under which she got them and if there was a lot more to it than she told me...... err, I do think too much, don't I?
Scars are not always obtained from a motorcycle accident.
When relationship goes wrong (Thai or falang) they will slash their wrists.
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Posted on: 11:20 am on Jan. 28, 2004
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Quote: from TJ on 12:19 am on Jan. 29, 2004
>I heard it said that no one should die saying, "I'm really glad I always flew economy."
Au contraire.
Agreed - stupid attitude, even if you have the money, to spend $4,000 on the same flight that you can get for $700. You get there at the same time, you inhale the same air, you use the same bathrooms, and all for what - a few (okay, well, 14+) hours of illusionary comfort?
Unless you spend the 14 hours awake, and working on your laptop, it's a waste of money - particularly for me, as I'm programmed to sit down in a plane, and fall asleep for the duration of the flight the moment we hit altitude. Works every time, and I certainly ain't paying $3,100 extra to sleep them away.
I'd rather use the $3,100 on some excellent after-flight entertainment and shopping.
Harry
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Posted on: 2:34 pm on Jan. 28, 2004
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Quote: from hzink on 3:34 am on Jan. 29, 2004
Unless you spend the 14 hours awake, and working on your laptop, it's a waste of money - particularly for me, as I'm programmed to sit down in a plane, and fall asleep for the duration of the flight the moment we hit altitude. Works every time, and I certainly ain't paying $3,100 extra to sleep them away.
Me too, particularly during take off and landing I can barely stay awake. No matter how awake and alert I am otherwise during those times my eyes droop, my head nods, and I doze off.
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Posted on: 2:41 pm on Jan. 28, 2004
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sirtitus
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Hey guys,
Sorry to be introducing a new topic here but you guys reading this thread are already familiar with myself and my recent experiences in Bangkok. So you'll know where I'm coming from when I ask this question.
From recent e-mails, it seems that I will be in constant touch with my lady from Midnite Bar until I return to Bangkok in June.
It's entirely likely that the idea of sponsorship will come up in that time and I'm new to all this so I'm not 100% sure on what sponsorship entails, how much money is standard, etc, etc.
Can someone enlighten me or direct me to a thread where the nature of sponsorship is discussed?
Cheers
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:32 am on Jan. 29, 2004
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levels of sponsership depend on you. Forinstance, you should do, a brief check that infact she isnt up for many sponsers. I am able to help in that were I to pretend that I was very keen on her, but said it was my last night in town. And she e-mailed me too...and wanted a similar support. Than zero to 1000 a week. That is baht, this will keep only communication open. You know it aint real. Were she not to respond and not email me. That might constitute her real affection towards you. Maybe 2000 a week to have alot of communication, and be her boyfriend. Were she to ask you to send her home, that is about (15,000 to 20,000 a month) unless she is very very keen. If she is very attractive add 5000 baht. Otherwise its a case of her weighing you in. Be honest tell her what you can afford, she might go for 3000 a week!...pm me if you need me to test her out.
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Posted on: 12:47 am on Jan. 29, 2004
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sirtitus,
There have been a few sponsorship threads created that have some (though perhaps not all) of the info you seek. If you use the search engine with the word "sponsorship" in the thread title search, you should find 'em. As I recall, I have a few entries in those threads, as I talked about what I am doing with my TGF.
BTW, DG's response is a good rule of thumb. Depends too on does she have a kid (s) upcountry, are mom and dad still alive, etc. And if you don't know her well, it would be wise to have TPE or someone else check out her story and real needs.
- Balls
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Posted on: 12:52 am on Jan. 29, 2004
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ask her to make a list what she needs; she might have to pay off:
motorcycle (young brother in Isarn)
tv/dvd/fridge (often purchased on credit)
and then:
allowance for parents (if any is needed)
rent of her apartment
personal needs per month
but of course don't give her such list, just ask her to list her expenses.
if you have that list from her, add a bonus, if she manages her money well.
now here comes the tricky part. since you are not living in LOS, you can't really control, if she pays what she is supposed to, or if she has unpaid bills and to much month at the end of money.
I would advise anybody to split the payments.
dues at the beginning of the month, allowance weekly, bonus at the end of the month if she managed well.
sounds over cautious, I know. but until you know she can handle her money, I wouldn't do it different. remember, many have the minds of teenagers or even younger kids.
do you know if she doesn't spend all the money the first couple of days and then goes back to play4pay for the remainder of the month??
find somebody you can trust, maybe the TPE ventures are offering such services for a fee. if not, it would be a good idea for them to do it.
hope this helps.
rtb
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:25 am on Jan. 29, 2004
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Can you really as a Westerner have a relationship based on money? Are 'Western' relationships based soley on money ?
Remove the money from the TG equation and what do you have? No more e-mails = "I lub you velly velly much!" ? No more contact, full stop?
Not that I have the answer to these questions.
Think of the Anglo-Saxon marriage vows (I doubt whether Western women take o lot of notice these days- it 'appears' like that) For Richer for Poorer in sickness and in health. Those words were written for a reason not just to decorate the church service. I would imagine and there again I don't know the Thai ladies would not have a problem with In sickness and in health because they are good at 'take-care'. It's the money thing - 'For richer or poorer'.
Money comes and and money goes and wealth can be transitory.
But I have another question!
How do you know if the girl really likes you when the money issue is so strong?
Time will tell? The longer one knows someone the more you 'in theory' will realise if she is there for the money or for you. Or in the end the money has the final say.
I ask these questions because I have absolutely no answer after a marriage and thirteen trips to Thailand. Maybe I'm just thick?
Hermanolito
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Posted on: 2:03 am on Jan. 29, 2004
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