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ive been chating with a thai girl for months on Yahoo chat web cams an all that, she said be friends, I said ok.
she works in an office but seemed lonely.
anyway I met up with her in bangkok a couple of weeks
ago for the crack.
i met her in the Landmark hotel with a friend over from philly, after he left and we talked.
it took me a lot of persuasion to get her to sit on the same sofa as I was and thats as far as I got that night.
she would not kiss me outside as it was improper for a thai lady to do in public and just got a few tongueless kissed in the bar. They were playing romantic music
and we cuddled like teenagers,it was an enjoyable night.
The whole night I had a boner that wouldnt go down, she never went near it when she touched me.
Of course I met her again, even went to her house but thats another story.
And I just gave her taxi money because I asked her to come all the way from ekemai.....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:02 pm on May 3, 2005
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a "normal" thai girl will never ever let some one PAY for her school an less you known her for ages and you are not her BF. I guess you booking her so that makes you kind of BF she is not a real thai girl trust me.
Well, I have known her for almost a year now and the paying for school was my idea. Her family wasn't going to pay and she was still in the process of saving money to go. I just speeded the process up, since it suited my purposes too.
As for saying she isn't a "normal" Thai girl, I won't completely disagree with that. I think there are a lot of Thai girls like her out there though. These are not girls from the country, but rather girls that grew up in Bangkok or another major city. They tend to speak excellent English even before they meet farangs. They come from what would be the Thai equivalent of a lower middle income family - exposed to Western culture and material things, but not really having money like the high society Thais.
These girls have discovered the internet and are actively looking for farangs to meet. We do tend to offer more than your average Thai guy. And yes, they are looking to score big time, but then that is no different then the type of Western women that you find on many Western internet dating sites.
I have over the last few years run across more than a few Thai girls like my gf. While they will take the offer of help and quickly get addicted to the money just like a P4P girl, they would be incensed if you ever tried to compare them to a "working" girl. There are times I would rather deal with a working girl, since the proposition is straight forward. But on the other hand, this type of non-working Thai girl who has decided she wants a farang bf, is hard to beat in a lot of categories. It is true gfe in every sense of the word, but it only happens if you are able and/or willing to show them you are genuinely involved.
The risk is that many of these girls end up drifting in and out of long term relationships with farangs who never deliver on the promise. Remember in the end these girls are looking for a long term committment if not a husband. And inbetween bf's is when you are most likely to find them on the internet.
So they really aren't "normal", but then again, they really aren't "working" girls. Maybe we need a new classification for this type of internet girl. I also think there is a real risk that we can inadvertently convert them into genuine "working" girls by getting them addicted to the money. And since guys like me have been heavy into the P4P side previously, we tend to take them to places like Spasso's, Hard Rock, CM2, etc. and educate them on "working" girls through exposure to that side of Thai life. The tempation for them after being abandoned is to cross the line and start freelancing.
A key attribute here is that this type of girl will not ever ask for or accept money until she feels that a significant relationship has been established. And since in Thai culture love and money go hand in hand, you will end up paying. Just remember it is out of love when she starts to get bitchy like all good girlfriends do.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:00 pm on May 3, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Moxnix
You described the whole scene of non P4P girls on the internet dating scene extremely well. People in the West use internet dating and nobody bats an eyelid. If a Farang girl goes on a dating site, nobody accuses her of being a hooker or a gold digger. Find a TG to marry on the internet and she's a mail order bride.
For myself, I use much the same arguments in defence of finding a partner on the internet as you do.
I've just set my wedding date for 16th June and when we're back in England, everybody can think what they like about us. Quite frankly, I couldn't give a damn.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:59 pm on May 3, 2005
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Abrak
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I am hardly looking for a wife but the internet is a great resource for meeting decent and interesting non-p4p TGs for dating and fun.
Not so ideal for the visitor because you often end up with losers but, for residents, who dont care too much about bumping into the odd dud - it is fantastic.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:32 pm on May 3, 2005
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LocalYokul
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if you can read Thai, check out
http://www.kik2u.com
http://www.googig.com
http://club.narak.com
I started out with a narrow search in my neighborhood, but now I'm learning the city more and more.
was out to Kaset (Lahd Prao 71) last night, lots of restaurants
also made my second trip to Thong Lor from an invite from a prospective GIK
don't be surprised if they start to ask for money
I usually block their ID at that point
unless they are superfine, or have really big tits 
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:13 pm on May 3, 2005
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Abrak, Do you think age would be a factor in your ebullience? I get the impression even the internet dating sights aren't going to be of much help if you're mid-30's or over.
Seems to me like all the Thai dating sites are full of twenty-somethings looking for other twenty-somethings. Thirty-something-elses seems like the max.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:26 am on May 4, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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Normal Thai girl sure I can agree what is a normal Thai girl. Once they been infected with western culture they are gone for life. Easy money easy life style. It is a lost generation that f*** for a Prada bag or take a BF farang or Thai to pay for her school or other stuff. But trully this not the real thai people most of them I know would never take money like that ever, it should be a shame.
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Most of them are looking for a ticket out of the shit hole they are living in or they want a money goat but do you really want to be the goat?
What do you mean she will never ask for money? Did she pay for everything? You never gave her any money or paid for anything?
I spend some time of my internet browsing on Thailanfriends and once you get to know most of this girls what do they want.
SOME ONE TO TAKE CARE OF THEM
Thats all they want they do not care how old you are or how you look like as loong as you take care of them so they do not need to work.
I agree maybe they are not hookers but girls looking for a sponsor I call them Sponsor girl.
You will find alot of them in Qbar and Bed and the best way to get them in bed for free is to ask them straight up.
Do you have a sponsor already? If they have they most of the time do it for free.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:25 am on May 4, 2005
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Quote: from Bangkoksexydotcom on 4:19 pm on May 4, 2005
It is a lost generation that f*** for a Prada bag or take a BF farang or Thai to pay for her school or other stuff.
Well at least they give as good as they get. You on the other hand steal and post images you have no right to, and pester your Paypal way into the pocketbooks of the unsuspecting. That equates to a helluva a lot more integrity in the Prada-4-Play crowd than does your Paypal-4-play con game.
But then, surely, you must know already what sort a leech you are.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:13 am on May 4, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Skip,
the impression you have that 20 something TGs on dating sites are looking only for 20 something Farangs is not true. Some of the dating sites give an age range that the girl is seeking and you'll see that often they are looking for guys up to mid 50's. I was writing to a gorgeous 26 year old for 6 months and I'm 55. She was at least a 9 if not a 10, single, no children.
What the girls are looking for, are the same things that Farang women want. Any or all of the following things from a guy:-
Love and sex, somebody to look after them, security, reliability, trustworthiness, honesty, loyalty.
I don't think that it's necessarily the case that they'll want to give up working. I told my future missus that she won't have to work, but she wants to.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:18 pm on May 4, 2005
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Hugh, Thanks for commenting. As much as I can relate to what you say I know I believed in that 'angle' when I was single, looking and living stateside. But, now that I'm single, looking and living on the Thailand side it all seems *very* different.
From what I can see now, there's two curves on a graph of socio-economics that intersect somewhere. They correlate to age vs. poverty- the less $ she has the > age she'll tolerate.
And just maybe it was my few forays into Isaan that made me 'see' the starck contrast between socio-economics classes for what they are.
But I just can't correlate your position any longer to what I'm seeing here nowadays.
It's like, sure, I like my ant larva soup Isaan style as much as the next guy- but, for me it was a taste acquired through luxury and theirs' through neccessity. Big, big difference.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:56 pm on May 4, 2005
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