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PolePolisher
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First off I'd like to say that I find Stickman's site entertaining but totally useless for advice on P4P in LOS, I suspect that old Stick could not cut it financially in this area which is why there is this huge holier than thou attitude running through all his posts referencing non-working 'Mrs. Stick' as the paragon of Thai womenhood.
Emotionally insecure people don't stay at home! Come here and immerse yourself in all that is on offer, but steel yourself for some heartbreak and dissapointment. Then come back and try again and again, eventually if your not a totally hopeless case and you have any money left you will learn where to enjoy yourself and even how to find that special person in LOS.
I think the secret is to know what you want and don't accept anything less. The biggest mistake I used to make is trying to justify or rationalise bad or suspicious behavior on my chosen one's part but never really wholeheartedly buying the bullshit I'm selling myself. Now I always trust my instincts and am a lot happier for it.
So I say go forth and fall in love but temper it with a little common sense and self respect.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:34 am on Mar. 9, 2006
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NINGNING
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The following articel is taken from “Men’s Health” magazine:
Women Want It All
- Women become more and more independent, but they are still in search for the
reliable provider
The reliable provider is still in demand - at the latest when the child question lines up. There is one thing that changed significantly: The stage of female independence today lasts longer for about ten to fifteen
years, than it did before. It is assumed that this is, however, still only a temporary phase.
A nice car, the big wallet and a good job - is this still the key to a woman’s heart? At least they do not harm. But it’s not done by material things only. What do you have to offer on top? Women are always on the search for quality, not quantity. The partner is supposed to be the partner for a lifetime - even if the relationship lasts then perhaps only two weeks. Therefore the dream man has to offer the perfect mixture of reliability, loyalty, ambition, diligence, intelligence and social status as well. Pretty demanding!!
The more a woman has to offer these days - good looks plus risen social status plus own income and independence - the higher are the requirements
she places upon her possible partners. Additionally men always have to deliver the perfect appearance (athletic figure etc.). The type of man that is strongly in demand changes from season to season - depending on which actor or movie-star is famous at the time being. So its not a surprise that many men cannot cope with the ever increasing female demands any longer.
The requirements of many young women grow faster and faster. But only a few men have already adjusted themselves to please these changed requirements.
Especially those women with an own successful career have trouble in finding an adequate partner, as they are looking for a men who necessarily needs to have an even higher social status – dream body included (unlike men its completely out of the question to look for a partner with a lower social status). But those guys are not available at each street corner.
Consequence: Either these women drive their unrealistic requirements back... or they dedicate themselves completely to their career and stay single.
And at a quick pace the time is gone, in which a woman’s attractions affects the other sex. Men will still always go for a juvenile, nice look. If that is gone, even the high social status of a woman does not attract.
Perhaps the whole thing will turn - and in the near future men will look for a strong woman who can support and provide. No way, because the status of a
man results from what he is. Those who are materially dependent on a woman cannot show anything. Consequence: Within his mates this man’s reputation
sinks enormously. And for other women he loses the most important part of his attractiveness – he cannot act as a provider.
Quite interesting read.
This in mind and in the face of my boring and ugly female co-workers during a dull office day I thought about what actually makes up the difference between TG and western females. Or: Why do I appreciate TGs so much?
There are hundreds and hundreds of reasons which cannot be all named or even measured.
Still there are drivers of my personal value perception what makes them soo attractive.
Well, here is my approach to understand why TG are far more attractive than western females: I jotted down 9 attributes / drivers which I consider to be most important (feel free to extend), that drive my esteem:
1. Appearance (symmetry of face, shiny hair, smooth skin, shapely hips and body, nice legs, even nice body and face when 45 years)
2. Skills (in terms of intelligence; as in brain like a goldfish)
3. Wits (as in cunning like a fox)
4. Money (well …no have)
5. Charm, gracile
6. Modesty, decent behaviour
7. Funloving personality
8. Sex
9. Wake up factor (you wake up and she smiles, jumps in the shower...) That is one ultimate factor: I don't wanna wake up and talk about the latest business case or whatever bullshit. I wanna get that lovely smile from tilac and not a grumpy face.)
Just provide every attribute / driver with a grading-factor (1-10) and multiply this with a value-factor (1-10) that reflects the importance of this driver in your opinion.
Then sum it up.
Example Money (for TG) :
Grading-factor: Can she provide money? No. Grade 2 out of 10.
Value-factor: Is money important to me? No, cause I ve got enough myself. Grade 2 out of 10.
Score: 2 times 2 = 4
Example Funloving personality (for TG) :
Grading-factor: Can she provide? Sure. 8 out of 10.
Value-factor: Is it important to me? Sure. 7 out of 10.
Score: 8 times 7 = 56
Example Funloving personality (for western female) :
Grading-factor: Can she provide? Nope. 4 out of 10.
Value-factor: Is it important to me? Sure. 7 out of 10.
Score: 4 times 7 = 28
Do it for all attributes for the TG and for the western female. The TG will clearly score higher.
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Now go ahead with the second part: What do ladies ask for / demand?
Next step is to do it again, this time assessing the attributes they expect from you:
How important is e.g. appearance and how much do they evaluate it?
Is it really that important to be Brad Pitt for the TG? And how about your
funloving attitude, does you western female really appreciates it? In terms of
loyalty who will rather accept a mia noi? Well, I know this is based on individuals perception and highly
subjective but still everyone has got a clue of how to position these
attributes. Maybe I am even wrong on some ideas (mia noi would not
be accepted by a good TG, but then we are not talking about the good TGs anyway)
1. Appearance
2. Skill
3. Money
4. Time
5. Attention
6. Loyalty
7. Humour
8. Behaviour / Modesty
9. Charm / Politeness / Gentleman
10. Sex
Example Appearance (for TG) :
Grading-factor: Can you provide the beautiful body? A bit. Grade 5 out of 10.
Value-factor: Is it important to her? A bit. Grade 6 out of 10.
Score: 5 times 6 = 30
Example Appearance (for western female) :
Grading-factor: Can you provide the beautiful body? A bit. Grade 5 out of 10.
Value-factor: Is it important to her? A bit. Grade 8 out of 10.
Score: 5 times 8 = 40
Now compare what the TG and the western female GIVE and ASK FOR.
You will inevitably find out that the ratio is grossly distorted – twofold:
Western females do not only give less than the average TG, but they even want a lot more.
Or they give things that are not in demand. Thats my point of view.
So what is the consequence? What does it tell me for my future in LOS?
Not much. I am myself clearer about the daily contact with the western females over here:
No trouble, just someone completely beyond my interest. Not an object of affection, not desirable. Same like male colleagues.
Your opinion is appreciated.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:15 pm on April 3, 2006
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snpark
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i make the answer 47 hahahaha (apologies to douglas adams)
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:49 pm on April 3, 2006
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thailife
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i fell in love because mine will do ANYTHING I ask in the sack with me. That alone was enough to close the door on Western women.
Now I am a slave to sex. Clothes pins all over my body, strap on in my ass, everyhting on demand. to each their own.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:25 pm on April 3, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from snpark on 2:41 am on April 4, 2006
47
That would be '42' if you are invoking Douglas Adams
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:47 pm on April 3, 2006
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Oz
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Not if your talking about the the quintessential random number 47!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:22 am on April 4, 2006
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snpark
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yeh maybe that was it too
so 44.5 split the difference
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:33 am on April 4, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from Oz on 2:15 pm on April 4, 2006
Not if your talking about the the quintessential random number 47!!
He wouldn't be if he is invoking Douglas Adams - 47 has no relation.
http://www.47.net/
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:52 am on April 4, 2006
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snpark
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well I was trying to invoke mr adams but the number 47 came to mind, probably cos it was here on another post about the ultimate random number
i know hitchhikers was 40 something
anyway back to topic
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:41 am on April 4, 2006
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