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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from seajohn on 4:17 pm on April 7, 2007
One day Mommy took away the lollipop too soon. But Babyman is big now and he will show her. He'll use some rough language and prove how smart he is about this self-interested lollipop service.
You pretty much nailed it, and there's quite a few of those guys around these parts.
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Posted on: 11:27 am on April 7, 2007
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Lofty
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Daffy, Seajohn... Thanks for the wise words and the rest of you for your input.
It is a matter of honour and respect.. for the both of us
I do know what the girls do.. I prefer the term working girl.. and if sometimes I am naive think that the majority do it out of necessity rather than greed which is more true in farangland.
That aside I do not want the girl to lose face or me also as it is my regular bar.
I have heard already from some of my friends who live there that she is excited about going.. she has never been on a plane before....
So my mind is made up.. I will take her and probably for about 4 or 5 nights...
I think I am probably scared because the last time I took a poo-ying to Phuket (about 5 years ago) I had a big problem after 1 day within 2 days she was back in BKK..
I suppose being a butterfly it is the fear of only having 1 girl with me for that long Ha Ha LOL.
As said by DD and SJ.. I never lie to the girls I may not tell the whole truth but I never lie..
When I tell a girl I want to come back to her bar and see her later I always say but maybe I get drunk and forget or I meet friends and I am too busy.. so I pay the bar fine, or at least give her the money to hold for me (because at the time I do mean to come back for her) and tell her If I am not back by 10.30 then the girl can keep the money and go with someone else. I have never had a girl ditch on me yet even when I have been 30 mins late.
I know I was pissed and love struck when I made the promise but it was made and I have to live with that..
but at least even in the girls eyes I have some respect or is that I am a sucker... which I am when a 18 year old poo ying is cuddling up next to me....
as we say Som nom f***ing Na
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Posted on: 2:39 pm on April 7, 2007
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koolbreez
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I'm serious about taking someone else with. Unless you speak real good Thai, you should take one of her friends with, so you don't both get bored, especially for that long. Thai girls do so much better in pairs.
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Posted on: 4:31 pm on April 7, 2007
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Lofty
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Thanks for the advise seajohn.. but that would cost me two sets of airfare tickets excluding my own and two seperate hotel rooms.. the girl I have promised is certain about not sharing me with any girl from her bar... and that tends to be her friends never seen her with any other girls inside or outside work.
Whilst not fluent by any means I can speak some thai..
I have a friend who own bars in Patong so hoping at least she can chat to his wife.
also I plan to do a lot more sightseeing whilst there especially as I can not go looking for young ladies if the girl is with me..
so it will probably be more the romantic meal a couple of beers and bed HMMMMM !!!! sounds ok to me.
although she is only 18 so it will probably be the bananna disco.. or tiger disco....
and maybe 4 days wil be enough for her if alone.
The only other problem I will have is?????
will she expect this to change our relationship...
she has always known I am a butterfly.. never in her bar though. But even though I drink in her bar I never take her all the time and dont get jealous when someone else takes her (well sometimes if I think he is not good enough for her.. or he is more 'Law' than me, which aint hard LOL) but I dont want anything serious. If she asks me I will often pay her bar so she can stop dancing and she never seems to go with guys after I have done this even though she has all the rights to still find a customer as I have made it clear I will not be taking her.
Will this make her think I am getting more serious about her?????
Oh!!!!! why do we farrangs heap so much trouble on ourselves all of our own making.....
Mind several beers in her bar and she is holding hands with me and cuddling me.. god I feel like a teenager (please no puns along the lines of.. sounds like you already have one)
Looking at her pics now and damn she is cute..
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Posted on: 9:46 am on April 8, 2007
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NicFrenchy
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Quote: from cheapcharlie on 4:50 pm on April 7, 2007
Its the three FFF s Find em, f***em, forget them.
unless you marry then hide your money.Whores are for men to play around with,Thai s understand this very well, they never take whores to Phuket, they think us Falang are very funny to do this.
I think Cheap Charlie Nailed it too.
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Posted on: 10:25 am on April 8, 2007
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from Lofty on 11:31 pm on April 8, 2007
although she is only 18 so it will probably be the bananna disco.. or tiger disco
*HOW LONG* have you known her (warning sirens going off). How long has she been working?
Quote: from Lofty on 11:31 pm on April 8, 2007
The only other problem I will have is?????
will she expect this to change our relationship...
(...) Will this make her think I am getting more serious about her?????
Unfortunately, there are no hard-set rules about the way a young girl feels about you, or how your actions wil affect that - what you have outlined is a definite risk, especially if the girl is only 18, and still has stars in her eyes.
Look at it this way - you will have 4-5 days to discuss that very issue with her, just know that her way of seeing things is NOT your way of seeing things (i.e not only are you a man, and she's a girl, but you're farang, and she's Thai 
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Posted on: 1:42 pm on April 8, 2007
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Lofty
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she is nearly 19 in fact her birthday is during my next trip and she has been working for at least 2 years to my knowledge.
I have been seeing her for my last 4 trips so about a year. as said she is just one of many girls I see I am a butterfly and she knows this.. but as said it is kind of unsaid that I never take another girl from her bar.. and generally I seem to have a kind of first call on her (of course that is unless I get in her bar late and she has gone or has already been fined).
Whilst not an expat I am a regular around every 8 to 10 weeks I return usually for about 3 weeks but depends on work so some times can be just a 10 day visit but have also done 6 weeks, as said depends on the work.
and having just returned to the UK from Pakistan well I am ready for a los vacation.. 3 weeks in Karachi without beer or women.
I also am not a newbie.. I have about 10 years of experience behind me (good and bad) but hence I also know that a guys head can be turned by a cute face and great body.. no matter how experienced... thats why the request for advise.
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Posted on: 2:52 pm on April 8, 2007
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LocalYokul
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funny, the advice you ignore
up to you, but don't be surprised if you wish you'd left the gal in BKK on the 2nd day
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Posted on: 4:45 pm on April 8, 2007
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Quote: from Lofty on 4:24 am on April 8, 2007
I know I was pissed and love struck when I made the promise but it was made and I have to live with that..
Yes, you have to live with what you said but that does not mean that you cannot make an excuse to not go to Phuket with her. To say "sorry, I have to work in ___ and cannot go on holiday with you but in two months month I will take you to ___ for 2 days. We leave on ___, I promise" is probably better than saying "sorry, cannot take you because I want to f*** a bunch of other girls instead of you."
What you say and what you do are two different things. This is the motto that every BG lives by, you can too.
Quote: from Lofty on 11:31 pm on April 8, 2007
I have a friend who own bars in Patong so hoping at least she can chat to his wife.
also I plan to do a lot more sightseeing whilst there especially as I can not go looking for young ladies if the girl is with me..
so it will probably be more the romantic meal a couple of beers and bed HMMMMM !!!! sounds ok to me.
although she is only 18 so it will probably be the bananna disco.. or tiger disco....
Personally, I think you are picking the wrong place to go for a holiday with a girl. If you are staying in Patong, it is not romantic. And there is a bunch of girls there you will want to f***, but you'll have a girl with you!
A long time ago, I took Dew to Patong for 2 days, I saw a bunch of girls in bars that I wanted to f***, and it was slightly frustrating not to be able to screw them. But I went back alone a few weeks later so all was good. :kiss: Then about 2 years ago, I flew to Phuket with Mist and we spent 2 days tooling around on a motorbike and then I flew her back to BKK alone and spent a few more days in Patong. Easy peasy!
4-5 days! To me, that is an eternity with an 18yo Thai girl. What are you going to do for 4-5 days? After getting ripped off on accomodation, food, drink and transportation in Phuket for a few days, and also having a girl with you so you won't have the freedom to f*** a bunch of chicks that you work in Phuket, I think you'll be sorry you chose Phuket and sorry you chose 4-5 days. Whatever you do, have an out! It is your holiday, she is working.
Banana Disco and Tiger Disco for your holiday when you can't f*** other chicks?? Not good. You sure you want to spend your holiday this way?
To me, 2 days on Koh Samed is a better choice. I took Mist there last Songkran and we both had great fun. And after 2 days, we were both ready to come back to Bangkok.
Or another recommended plan is to take this girl to Phuket for 2 days and you stay for 5 days. Make some excuse in advance, tell her you have to fly so Singapore for work or something. Go to Phuket together and then after 2 wonderful, fun-filled, romantic days and nights  take her to the Phuket airport and she can fly back to BKK. Then, you'll be able to stay and f*** a bunch of the hot chicks you have been seeing for the last two days!
If you want to stick to a plan of 4-5 days with her (seriously, not recommended) then if you're not having the time of your life  and you want to get rid of her nicely after 2 days, just tell her that something came up with your work and you have to fly alone to Singapore to take care of a problem. Then bring her to Phuket airport and put her on a plane, get back in the taxi and continue your holiday in Phuket. Your girl will be happy with the money and you'll be happy screwing a bunch of chicks, which is really what people do in Phuket for 4-5 days. It's a win-win.
Starting with 2 days with her is a better plan in my opinion. Best of both worlds.
And yes, it is up to you. If you want women to tell you what to do, you can stay in the UK for that. When TGs start telling you what to do or where to go, they lose their appeal. 
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Posted on: 6:48 pm on April 8, 2007
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LocalYokul
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agree on the Samet idea, as there's not much temptation to f*** other gals there, and it would all be cheaper too, no flight, just a bus or taxi and a boat
and a weekend is enough time to spend there with one gal
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Posted on: 8:03 pm on April 8, 2007
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