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griffin
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okay, guys put it that way. i know there are a lot of very young of our brothers out there who cannot or do not want to spend any money for screwing.
i myself certainly can hang in this game as well but i have a job and two companies to run. so simply just do not have the time for those mickey mouse games, even if they are for free!
the opportunity costs are just to high considering all the problems involved with a freebie. when you are in bangers on a vacation or just hanging around that might be different case, but as charlie sheen is quoted before: i rather pay them to leave and not cause problems thereafter, as the opportunity costs (material and social) are much higher for me by not paying.
another thing is quality. i know it is been discussed so many times before that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. but i rather pay for a real hot girl in my eyes, before i hang around with a girl just because it is a freebie to me! i just feel my time for that kind of attitude is just to precious here!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:00 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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Packripper
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yeah, ditto for Pack. Time is money. And the money we throw down buys freedom. I owe the girl nothing because my books are clear. No financing and no interest to pay in this life.
I've come across the cut arms thing. Cut arms in person and cut arms on the phone. Also a suprising knife stab to her stomach (surprising because she wasn't bluffing... or knows very little about the real risk of such a wound). Annoying in any case. Also the "please take care of my mom after I kill myself." Let's see..... ah yes, and the various slamming her fists into the wall and hitting herself in the face with whatever objects were handy in her room.
In the end... it's HER problem (if you can detach yourself enough). But many men cannot, and end up entangled. I rarely sleep with a girl more than 20 times. Slipping her 2k each time is nothing. It's the cost of a nice Callaway driver or 2 and putter. It's a small price to pay for peace of mind.
Of course, every fellow has to live his life his own way and learn his own lessons.
But really... this is these girls' crack rock. You wouldn't go up to Harlem or South Central LA and be stealin' a brotha's crack rock wouldja?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:33 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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BigDUSA
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There's another angle to this story. For the most part, to get frrebie's a guy has to lie to the girls and promise them in one way or another A future with them. Generally speaking these girls are dirt poor and usally supporting a family back home. That's why I always payand I don't have to lie. I get back on the plane with no regrets. 8 days till showtime. 
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:52 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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zzzZ
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I think you guys are reading way too much into this. Yes, many times there is more baggage associated with freebies than PFP. However, you aren't free from hassles with that either, and there are hundreds of messages on this board that attest to that!
I had a freebie out of Grace that was 100% free and without hassle. The girl just wanted a shag before leaving to go to Germany to work. No money exchanged. No promises. No anything. Just fun and on with our lives. Maybe an exception to the rule, but that was a recent freebie experience for me...
Now, if the girl thinks you are going to be her boyfriend, that is a different story, and more in line with what you guys have been saying. But last I checked you very often had the same problem with many BGs...
If you are LOOKING for sex I don't think a freebie in BKK is the way to go. Sometimes shit just happens, and that's best... if you are just out having a good time and a freebie presents itself, why not? Just be honest with the girl about what you want. Mindgames always end up causing someone pain in the end..
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:29 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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Kenny
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Well, let me rephrase my last entry, it was not completely free. I had to pay for our dinner and the theaters
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:39 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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griffin
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dinner and theatre is still a freebie to me, as long no money has changed sides it is a freebie!
do not get me wrong i am not that hardened yet that i do not enjoy a freebie once in a while, thus breaking this iron rule. that is only human and i still have my gf i also do not have to p4p (but have the dining and wining and support for her studies).
sure there are freebies who do not cause trouble esp. when they are on the leave to their bf, sponsor or to another country. but in the long run they will cause more problems than money saved! that is the point!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:47 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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zzzZ
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i hear you Griffin, i hear you...
i think the same applies to thai GFs as well. if things go off the track it can get pretty rocky...so sometimes it just makes more sense for us "busy guys" to pay and play and be done with it..
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:57 am on Nov. 21, 2002
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ABC
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Greetings:
A long the lines of the topic at hand, I wanted to point out that not all the females in Thailand can be bought or gotten for free.
Seems that some can get caught up in all the allure of Thailand, and I am guilty as well as times to feel that any females can be hand for a price or if worked on enough will give it up. Just because the female works in Thailand does not mean that she "works" if you get my drift.
Just remember that they are still females and not a food that can be ordered at any time to any requirements!!
With that said, I agree with all the comments about "nothing is for free". Free meaning that either before or afterwards there will either be no monetary, emotional attachment or exchange between the two people. Everything in my mind has a cost, which can be either time or money.
Anyways ... just my two cents.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:07 pm on Nov. 21, 2002
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Chompoo
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Paraphrasing Rodney, I wouldn't want to sleep with any woman who would want to give me a freebie.
I can get a beautiful girl if I want to invest the time, make a commitment, or use lies and deceit. But I'm not good looking enough (and my standards are too high) to get a hot freebie with no strings attached. I would always choose to kick in the cash to upgrade (for a one-night stand, not for a relationship).
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:14 pm on Nov. 21, 2002
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aurum
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I dont really think the looks of a guy is very important for that freebie, even if she is a TG photo model, the freebies that I know go for attitude, social skills, polite treatment and a nice life, and theres again the money. Avoiding all this "kill myself, take care my mother" (it is somehow sad how familiar this qoute sounds to me) is to keep the books clean, unless someone really wants to dedicate himself to this freebie, for more then just a night.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:38 pm on Nov. 21, 2002
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