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zipper
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Hermanolobo:
Does it REALLY matter whether they love /like you, or not?
I look on such relationships as purely Transitory . Just good time "friends'.
Re most such reationships one is just a 'number'. There have been a multitude of such numbers before you, or me. No doubt, there will be many, many, such numbers after you and me.
Likewise for you & me : There have been many before
& with God's blessing- there will be many after.
Where does love come into the picture?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:12 am on May 24, 2003
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Smegma
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It comes into the picture for most, when we fall in love with the girl. Then, it starts to mattert. Until then, it doesn't really matter to most as they are, as you say, having fun and a good time among friends.
In some cases, it also matters to some even when they are not in love themselves. Some guys are "too" good and withdraw early from a girl they think may love them -if the guy himself doesn't love the girl- to avoid hurting her down the road. Some guys just do not like to take advantage of unreciprocated puppy love.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:58 am on May 24, 2003
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Hermanolobo
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There are many forms of intelligence but I am not 'street-wise'. Thailand is probably the worst place for me to visit being 'street-wise hopeless' ? I wear my heart on my sleave, and fall very easily. I love to visit LOS - drink, dance have knock-about fun with the girls. Go over the top like some latter-day Gene Kelly or John Travolta. Then I whisper sweet-nothings in their ears. And hey-presto? The joke is on me as I am the one who gets bitten in more ways than one. I am just a giving person with affections and emotions and I have a heart of glass. Thailand is the last place I should be but I can't give it up? - Some of these ladies must see this romantic fool coming a mile off? But at least I does make me feel alive and not like my colleagues worrying about their pensions and going home alone to count their money!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:17 am on May 24, 2003
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BigDUSA
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Hermanolobo,
If your looking for love in LOS. I can steer you in the right direction with a couple of BG with warm heart and nice to spend time with. When your getting close to your next trip IM me and I will give you the details.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:28 am on May 24, 2003
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Hermanolobo
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Cheers my Top man!
I don't generally look for love but it has a habit of finding me !
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:43 am on May 24, 2003
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Arcadius
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No doubt, there will be many, many, such numbers after you and me
Doesn't matter. All my girls have loads of other men - it's their job. Sex aside, they're bound to have other emotional relationships of various kinds going on as well.
Same applies to me - God knows, I'm not exactly 'faithful' to them. Doesn't stop me loving them to bits. I certainly don't think they love me the same way, but there IS some genuine affection there I think. At least that is my judgment based on observation and experience of a great many BGs. You shouldn't assume we sentimental types were all born yesterday.
I completely repudiate the idea that love needs to be an exclusive thing. Ý
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:21 am on May 24, 2003
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Maxxy
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Fair dinkum guys, she told me she loves me...;)
Do you mean to tell me she doesn't love me? 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:49 pm on May 24, 2003
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Oldtimer
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My impression after three and a half decades of visiting and living in LOS is that bar girls are always hopeful that they will eventually meet "Khun Right"who will release them from the bar grind by wisking them away to Norway or where ever -- or alternatively by meeting a jai dee farang chap to settle down into married bliss with Ýin Thai. So every new customer is a potential Price Charming.
The outcome of this is the girl friend experience that we are value so much. Besides the bar girl's primer reads that it is far easier to put up with a punter many years older (and often much larger) Ýthan oneself, if you do your best to enjoy and love him (or at least give him that impression).
As far as orgasms are concerned, unless the couple have been together for a while, these are often Ýfaked -- except for certain TGs, who Ýthanks to drink or drugs, are able to divorce their body from their mind to get off and thereby, make their customer even happier.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:30 pm on May 24, 2003
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Lefty
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I have no doubt that some TBGs do fall in love with their clients but that does not mean they will then behave in the same way that western girls would. Due to the transitory nature of their relationships and the financial imperatives that govern their lives, most seem to adopt the "love the one you are with" attitude (isn't that what we do too?).
Perhaps some of you have experienced the mood swings that occur near your departure date, from loving girlfriend the night before you leave to someone focused on extracting as much cash as possible when she gets to the airport. Then once you leave it is time to catch up on all those phone calls and emails to the other guys in her life. In a week or two she will start remembering you and get back in contact (money is probably getting low again I guess...). An illustration of the "out of sight, out of mind" approach of TBGs. In all fairness though how many of us could handle a series of back-to-back emotional entanglements without some sort of coping techniques like these.
Perhaps it is better to think of falang - TBG relationships more like a variant of an arranged marriage in that financial security is the prime motivating factor (not just for the TBG but for her family as well). If love is part of it then it is a bonus not a pre-requisite. Consider what happens when a TBG is unlucky enough to have Ýtwo "boyfriends" arrive in town at the same time. Who does she stay with - the one she loves the most or the one that could be a better long-term investment? Will love win out? I doubt it!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:25 am on May 25, 2003
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Lofty
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Wow lefty thats a good one. I wonder if we could do an experiment here do we have two board members who are seeing the same girl? Trouble is how do we know which one she may love the most...
I would suggest if it was two members with one in his 20s and the other in his 50's that love from the TG would be centered around the younger man with the finacial interest on the older man. We just need to get them to arrive the same time.
I suppose I had something similar (maybe ) happen to me. Thought I would surprise the TG I had been seeinf for a while and who I was very fond of. I thought I would turn up on her Birthday. but not totally unannounced reng her about five days before said surprise I come fof your birthday have present.
What did she say Oh why you not tell me? I am going to Singapore with man he give me lots of money (at least she didn't lie... I go see mama). I said oh ok you not want to see me up to you and put the phone down. Got to be honest was pretty pissed off. She tried to ring me back but I refused to answer. When I arrived Bangkok she had not gone to Singapore she told me she liked me too much and told other man she could not go.
Trouble was mistrust had set in and I just thought yeh the guy had been stringing her along. Still seen her though but that was the start of the breakdown in our relationship. God but I still like her now when I see her, and I hate seeing her sat in the bar with another man even though I have another girl with me.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:36 am on May 25, 2003
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