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I always have free sex. it's only the 1'000 baht for the taxi back home.....
anyway how FREE is free sex?? If I added up the expenses with a freebie, I always ended up more expensive.
be honest, man.
rtb.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:38 am on June 11, 2003
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Arcadius
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rtb has it about right.
When you're dealing with BGs, the basic underlying trade is always sex (or the GFE, or whatever) for money.
Some of the girls have such a subtle modus operandi, that the 'payment' they extract is almost invisible. When dealing with long term or regular clients they trust, they may well not require payment on the nail, but over time they will expect (and quite rightly) to be properly compensated in money or kind. Other girls will latch onto a guy posing as a 'regular' TG in the hope that this will pay big dividends in due course. It's not at all unusual to find guys who shell out a small fortune buying things for their "no, she's definitely not a bargirl" GFs - far more than they would pay for a self-confessed pro.
The basic rule is that 'respectable' Thai women do not jump into bed with farang tourists. Period.
Below the 'respectable' level, the variations are so wide and the subtleties so fine, that it's easy to get fooled into thinking you're getting it for free. Of course, if you play the game as a single-minded taker, sometimes you will be - but that's just to crassly exploit what is probably the most civilised and sophisticated system of P4P on the planet. "You scratch my back & I'll scratch yours" - it doesn't need to be (and often isn't) any more explicit than that, but beyond this I think the male ego is just playing silly buggers.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:45 am on June 11, 2003
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BlackHarT
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There is no male Ego here =] ..i was just asking a question
and thanx for all the reply
1 of them was, 100% free tho, no drinks no food no Bf and did not pay her.. he offered to pay but she said "No i'll pay " and she got him his drink's.. It was the first time he had met her aswell. 1 of her friends was with 1 of my friends...And my m8 was no cheap charlie he was offering her the money for 3 days after but she still would not take it
you can't get any more free than her paying for you
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:37 pm on June 11, 2003
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chilli
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funny how some guys get all excited about the rare exception of truly free sex & how others like to brag about sex with a TG who they did not explicitly paid for sex!
peace 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:23 pm on June 11, 2003
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bangkropolis2020
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I've had 2 "freebies". The first was kind of a bummer though. I met a girl outside nana disco after closing time. We were joking a bit and she was a really nice girl. she asked if she could go with me to my room and study(she was carrying a school book) we went to my room. and we were just joking with eachother for about an hour(she did no studying). finally I told her I was tired and was trying to sleep when she initiated foreplay. the next morning I slipped 1500 bht into her purse while she was in the shower..I made up some lie about what I had to do that day to get her to leave. she looked in her purse said, "what this?" then proceeded to say something like, I don't want your money I only want you. she began to cry a little. It took 2 hours from that point until she left and I then felt like a huge asshole. so it wasn't free. I paid the price by feeling like crap all day
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:06 pm on June 11, 2003
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dirty guru
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just to solve the mystery of free sex...i married a thai who cried about payment( as i said ...and someone wiser a few posts ago (arcadius) it is ego driven if you believe you scored) why she cried is she wanted to not be a paid girl.....just yet anyhow.....anyhow off to western union (and i am not kidding) ps my is a lovely girl so sometimes it is worth a chance...but make no mistake though theses girls might like you end up loving you...even..the play is on a better oppurtunity than life in thailand.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:34 pm on June 11, 2003
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3cazzi
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Sorry brothers,
but I must be a little dumb, but I don't understand what most of you mean for free sex.
May be it is because I find it normal to have a relation with a BG and un-normal to sleep with someone without having any kind of relation...
So what free sex is ?
1. when you bonk your home girlfriend in your car and you let her pay for half of the gas?
2. when you bonk your wife while she equally contributes for rent ?
3. when you bonk a professional without paying for it ?
4. when you bonk a girl without commitments ?
IMHO the only way to sleep with a girl without commitments is to pay for it, otherwise there is always a give & get relation... which doesn't necessarily means money matters.
That is how comes that even a professional might not always require cash from who is rich enough to have something else to give.
But who is not sensitive enough to care of what they give to a professional TG while sex is not given for cash, IMHO, is too selfish for not having some ego problems.
And I feel sorry for those kids that cannot "force" their free f_ck to take cash: would you ask your mum if she do "really" wants a flower for the mother day ? And even she say no to the flower, wouldn't you bring something for her anyway ?
BTW, as bkkz, me too, not even one year ago, I met a TG who was just arrived with a friend in Phuket for a short holyday (she works in HK & Singapore but not in LOS, so I wonder if we are talking of the same stunning one... ha ha).
While her job abroad was not a secret, we spent one week hanging around always together almost forgetting it and, in the end, when I asked her how could I refund her for the good time she said that my attentions and such carefree holyday were already enough for her.
To be more convincing about her wellness, she proudly mentioned the video clip of her nice & large apt in Bkk (family, friends, dog & honda car included) that I saw on her brand new digital cam when she moved in my hotel room.
Because I wanted to show how special that week has been for me also, I had not better chance left than to make an envelope (with a big note, a little jewel and a key) that I secretly put in her luggage before she left our room to pick up her friend and go airport.
Did I force her too hard ?
For those who measure everything with money I might say that time I could probably get a better bargain in a bar, but also got other cheaper (in term of money) experiences to report.
Because, apart money, there are a lot of other things in girls wishes, any girl in the world!
So bangkopolis, as I said to my old friend who had the art of hurting his home girlfriend treating her as a slut and, only one month later, being yelled by a BG that he gently misunderstood as a free of charge girlfriend: <use your sensitivity to be clever instead of being just sensitive.>
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:25 pm on June 12, 2003
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nokna
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"And I feel sorry for those kids that cannot "force" their free f_ck to take cash"
thanks 3cazzi.
nice to called a 'kid' after all these years.....
but on the other hand,why 'force' the girls to take the money?.
they have minds of their own and if they do not want the money,it is their choice.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:33 pm on June 12, 2003
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bangkropolis2020
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3cazzi, I'm sorry your last sentence of advice to me went over my head. I'm being honest when I say I don't understand.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:16 pm on June 12, 2003
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