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ringthebells
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...maybe just a rejected dancer??
rtb
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:37 am on July 4, 2003
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Monk
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Why are people overseaing the most obvious answer? Scorned lesbian lover.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:01 am on July 4, 2003
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Minder
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Okay, my two cents worth. I go with the idea that it was a relative turning up to sponge some more off the girl who had earlier said enough was enough and that this has happened before. Why? The behaviour of the bar staff. Getting her a cup of tea and just trying to calm her down. That indicates to me that they have had her there before and other methods, i.e trying to get her to leave, allowing her to talk to her "daughter" have ended badly. Secondly it was not obvious to Explorer who the crying woman was calling to - if this was the first time then the reaction of the other girls on stage or staff would have indicated it was Ning or Nong who was the object of the old girl's attention. Instead everyone on stage just went about their business since this was Mrs Cryingpoors 100th appearance.
Anyway that's how I read it - just my best guess.
Last trip met a lovely girl, new to the scene, eldest daughter, from Buriram area, ex-Robinson's girl, trying to make more money to help look after popa who had fallen off a motorcycle two years ago and had developed some sort of head problem and could not work - so there she is "doing her duty" out of love for the family - what good would it do me to try and explain that Dad is a "jai-dam" bullshitter happy to prostitute his daughter?
I say good luck to any bar girl who tells the blood sucking relatives to go take a flying f-ck - but of course not many do.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:18 am on July 4, 2003
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ringthebells
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....or the landlady?? (thats why they gave her tea).
rtb.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:23 am on July 4, 2003
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Yes, I think MrJoe and Hermanolobo got it right. Girls from the poor regions of Thailand have been going to the city for generations (at least since the Vietnam War) to make money for the family in the naughty trade. Where else could a under educated farmers daughter with no skills make such amounts of money. This is a dirty little secret that nobody in the family or village achknowledges because almost all benefit from it, or have a relative in the trade.
Yes, perhaps the girl is spending to much money on herself (Yaba (drugs), gold, jewelry, gambling, boyfriends) and not sending enough home.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:35 am on July 4, 2003
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Offtopic:
You know what, the idea of parents mooching off of these daughters just makes my stomach turn. Maybe I am a chauvanist pig, but if anyone should take care of the parents, it should be the sons. And if daughters do take care, the parents should be more than grateful. I've heard and read so many stories about the girls working to support their parents that I feel disgusted.
I'd rather the girls spend their cash on Yaba, cell-phones and gambling than give a single cent to their parents (unless ofcourse it is some sort of real illness etc.) But hearing and reading stories of guys just sitting on there asses all day while the daughters work(in any job) is disgusting.
On the other hand, I met this nice doctor in Chonburi (he runs a private clinic) and is super rich. His wife and he are of Chinese ethnicity and boy oh boy, does he ever work hard. His wife told me that he even takes care of her parents. Now that is what I call a gentleman,
Sorry, I needed to vent. I wish I had a bullet for all the dads and moms who are more than willing to "sell" off there daughters just so they can have an easy life. Even worse are the brothers and boyfriends.
Again, sorry.
Rant Over.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:02 am on July 4, 2003
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cmore
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Quote: from Aryan6 on 9:02 am on July 5, 2003
I'd rather the girls spend their cash on Yaba, cell-phones and gambling than give a single cent to their parents (unless ofcourse it is some sort of real illness etc.)
So you would rather see even more beautiful Thai ladies hooked on mind altering drugs or being gambling addicts and being in debt to loan sharks rather then being more productive, paying their bills or ( And I know this is a big reach ) putting some money away in the hope of one day being able to finally leave that life behind for good.
Am I truly the only castaway left on the island? Peace
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:17 am on July 4, 2003
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Quote: from Aryan6 on 6:02 pm on July 4, 2003
I'd rather the girls spend their cash on Yaba, cell-phones and gambling than give a single cent to their parents (unless ofcourse it is some sort of real illness etc.)
Are you kidding me? Yaba better? Girl I know (oldest sister) long time as a go-go dancer, living in Pattaya, now sponsored. Had set up apartment, paying school fees, plus living allowance, to her younger sister to go to nursing school in Bangkok.
Then heard rumors, came up to Nana, and found her younger sister, Yaba-head, shacking up with Thai "boyfriend", working in go-go bar at NEP.
My guess, the "boyfriend" is drug dealer/pimp, more than happy to have another girl supporting him for awhile, till he gets tired of her (or she can't bring in enough money). Another life flushed down the toilet due to Yaba. I think KSA has it right - drug pushers, no problem, public square Friday morning.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:57 am on July 4, 2003
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Turkish
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Aryan6,
What you have got to understand is that there is no welfare state in LOS and so the sense of duty to the family is far greater than in the west. ( No putting granny in a care home for the rest of her days visiting once a week).
In fact IMHumbleO I think it can be a very virtuous trait of a younger family member looking after their parents.This is one of the foundations of family life in LOS and other countries who may be percieved to be less well off that western countries(in monetary terms).
I believe that children in these countries are viewed as a type of welfare state (their safety net) that when the parents are to old or infirm to be capable of earning a living then the oneness is on them to provide, male or female.
As far as parents pushing them into the p4p business, well that's another story, depends where your morals lie, and seen as the debate has gone on for centuries about what is or isn't moral without any conclusion then we can go round in circles forever on that one.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:59 am on July 4, 2003
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Tsonoqua
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I don't know, Gilligan, call out and see if anyone answers you.
In every society, people make choices. Thai society puts different strictures on the choices its members make, but there are still choices. While I am prepared to proffer sincere sympathy when another person has made a choice they are later unhappy with, I am not prepared to place the blame for those choices on other individuals.
If you go far enough down that road, you end up like the U.S., where McDonalds is sued because people choose to eat there and then get fat. Ultimately, whether people like it or not, they are responsible for their own destiny.
Peace, love and happiness, cmore.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:02 am on July 4, 2003
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