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My pleasure, all.
I know the eyesight thing sounds really stupid, and I used to think it was, but it works. Dunno why, but it does.
And I know that many of you think that it seems like a lot of work, but honestly, it's not. Yes, some men are born with it, and some aren't, but even if you aren't born with it, you can still acquire it!
You don't do these things every day. If you do, she'll get used to it, expect it, and when you miss a day or two, she'll get bitchy.
My hubby does these things only about once a week, or once every two weeks. For example, we just had a major baking day today. Cookies, bridies, bread, etc. But, while that might have to be a lot of work, we managed to turn it into fun. And for the 30 minutes the bridies were in the oven, I abused him. 
Now, the baking is done, my belly is full, and as soon as I can drag him off his computer game, the sooner I can abuse him again.
But we hadn't done this (the baking day, I mean) in oh, say, maybe two months. We make breakfast together most every Sunday morning, but often our schedules don't permit spending a ton of time together.
All of our little love notes that we send using our cellphone's text mail are saved. All we have to do is hit a few buttons, call up a saved message and send it again. Just because it isn't original every time doesn't mean that it's any less appreciated.
The tips I can give you guys are really good for keeping a woman long-term. Long-term is usually better than short-term, we've found.
It's easy to go out and get laid whenever you want it, and both of us could get it for free most everywhere we went, but there's no point to it for us. Isn't it better when the two (or three, or four, etc.) of you can understand perfectly what turns the other on? Isn't it special to hear those familiar little squeaks that your SO makes when they're soooo close to getting off? Isn't it great to be able to be completely honest and share what turns you on, share your fantasies? And the best part is making your SO's fantasies come true. To know how happy you've made them, and to have learned something new yourself?
For example, my hubby and I tried fisting. Not something I would ever have done had I not been in a serious, loving relationship. It was his fantasy, so I complied and found out that it ain't half-bad!
I can help you to understand how best to coax your wives out of their shells, so that you can do the exciting things with her that I do with my husband. I've been coaxed, and I've done coaxing, and it's a good thing. Imagine taking your prim lady and turning her into a raging slut for your pleasure?!?! She can still be sweet and kind on the outside, but once you help her understand how exciting sex can be, you'll have a hellion on your hands.
Now, some women don't take to it all, but many do. It just takes time and practice...
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Posted on: 8:03 am on Sep. 20, 2002
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TNGW,
Good post!
"Imagine taking your prim lady and turning her into a raging slut for your pleasure?!?! She can still be sweet... but once you help her understand how exciting sex can be, you'll have a hellion on your hands."
Hear, hear! I've been blessed to have achieved this experience 3 times in my life and there is nothing finer.
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Posted on: 8:12 am on Sep. 20, 2002
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Oh and I agree. Variety is great, but there's nothing better than knowing your partner intimately to have the hottest sex.
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Posted on: 8:15 am on Sep. 20, 2002
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Thanks for the props, sweetie... ÝI appreciate it.
Like I said before, I know it sounds like a lot of work, but it really isn't and in the end, it's truly worth it.
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Posted on: 4:01 am on Sep. 21, 2002
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Just wrote a long reply, but a wrong password erased it... In brief:
Nice signature. FZ, RIP. Lao PDR barely passes, thanks to Bia Lao (fantastic! and available all over the country), and Lao Aviation (not so fantastic, but nine out of ten successful landings is not so bad, is it?!).
In Thailand, girls are after Visible Provision -- you need to make them and their familes comfortable, and do it in an explicit way. For rich girls, it's a little different, but the general drift is the same. Status, face, money: all related, but not the same. Jai dee and kwam raak don't count for sh*t.
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Posted on: 7:55 am on Sep. 22, 2002
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Well, of course many Thai girls are after money. ÝYou'll find this to be common in almost all 3rd world and developing countries. ÝHowever, the more developed a country is, the less likely a girl is to go after a foreigner, and consequently, money.
However, you'll find that women worldwide want security. ÝIf a man can't provide security and stability, we get *real* antsy. Ý
I myself have lived for long enough without it, and I'm about ready to claw out the eyes of anybody who even threatens to take away my chances for it.
Remember, many of us saw our mothers married young, and likely, unhappily. ÝWe don't want the same.
Now, I can't handle the idea of having children, I really dislike the little buggers, but to many women, they want security so they can raise a family. ÝI just want it so that I can be sure to have a place to go to when I need calm.
In any case, security is all that many of the TGs are after, and a foreign man is in a much better position to provide them and their families with that security than say, Thai men who have reputations for being quite useless.
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Posted on: 11:56 pm on Sep. 22, 2002
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NGW, thankyou for your reply to my question. Yes agree that fun and action is a good starting point, after all that's what this forum is all about.
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Posted on: 6:01 am on Sep. 25, 2002
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Well, my thanks to you, KTM... I hope that I answered your question sufficiently. If not, let me know, and I'll do my best!
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Posted on: 6:50 am on Sep. 28, 2002
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Hi TNGW, how very nice to meet you (well meet your font) and how brave of you to be so upfront & open about yourself! ÝIím impressed. ÝIím positively chicken in comparison. ÝI think you hit the nail on the head in your very first post with the ìwhat works for one wonít necessarily work for othersî comment. ÝWe women are such a varied breed (mind you, you men are too! Thank goodness). ÝMakes all that "button pressing" such an individual experience.
A few points I just HAD to comment onÖ just to kinda prove all we women are different and confuse you poor men even furtherÖ
The store bought flowers as opposed to the pinched out the garden varietyÖ Iíll take the store bought variety TVM. ÝAnything else here is likely to have been pissed on by the neighbourhood dogs umpteen times. ÝOh the joys of city life!!
ChocolatesÖ Iíve never found a box of chocolates trite. ÝTasty yummy and scrumptious yesÖ but not trite. Ý(all donations of Belgian bon-bons are very welcome and will be received graciously  )
I agree about no pets/animals as a giftÖ way too personalÖ but I do like a house-plant or a plant for in the garden as a gift. ÝThat comment made me wonder if that old bloke across the road who keeps giving me marigolds and begonias from his garden is going to propose marriage soon.. lol
I never really appreciate a guy calling me straight away the next morning after being given my numberÖ that always said ìdesperateî to me. ÝNot that Iíve ever been known to sit staring at the phone willing it to ringÖ butÖ I am likely to be more interested in a guy who left if for a few days than one who rings me up straight away. Ý'Cool' approach as opposed to 'over-eager' does more for me. ÝBut I know plenty of women for whom that is not the case.
The one where I think we differ the most though is the eye-contact bit. ÝIf a catch a guy staring at me then looking away when I catch his eye, onceÖ fineÖ If the same happens a second or third time I am liable to either think he is a creep and avoid him like the plague or confront him in a none too friendly fashion.
Iím a firm believer in the brain/mind being the biggest erogenous zone we haveÖ stimulate the mind and the body will follow suit. Ý Well mine will anyway. ÝA purely physical attraction with no mental ìclickî will fizzle out quite quickly IMO. ÝFine for a fun-filled weekend but long-term wonít work.
Ok so all I have said could have been summed in ìyep, weíre all differentî. Ý
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Posted on: 9:58 am on Oct. 7, 2002
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Certianly, with that special mental "spark" our interest is dead. Most of what I say about how to get to a woman is assuming you have that spark.
I'm a very forward kind of girl.
If I give a guy my number, I'm telling him that I'm interested. Either he is interested back, or he isn't, there's no "kinda" about it. So, if he calls the next day, great, he's interested, and I can pursue him from there. If he doesn't call by the next day, I chalk it up to a hopeless cause, feel like an idiot for about all of five minutes, and give it up... If he calls me after a day or two, he'll get nothing from me. I'm no longer interested in a man who wants to play games. I don't have the time for it.
Certainly, a guy should never stare a chick down, but if he's often looking at you, and soon makes a play, you're good to go. However, again, I tended to make the plays most my dating life. Guys are sooooo slow on the uptake, that if I want anything done, even for a good screw that evening, I need to wake his ass up!
As to the flowers and the chocloates, well that's pretty much to each his own. Most American girls don't like to get things like store-bought flowers or boxes of chocolate. Certainly, we won't turn them away, but you don't make many points by doing that as compared to fresh flowers and something like a basket of fruit. But again, as my disclaimer said, this is only me.
And, for what it's worth, I'm 22, pagan, polyamorous, bisexual and slightly strange! (Well, I am a Californian after all)...
What you might get from an older, hetero, monogamous woman from around the world will be completely different.
Example: To get a Korean girl's eye, all you have to do is exist. Simple. Being caucasian is *very* important. I had a beer with hubby last night and a couple of buds, and a young chickie serving drinks turned the color of a ripe tomato when Brian walked in, and practically purple when he smiled at her. He's not some perfect play-girl model, just a normal good-looking guy, but that's all it takes! Give a Korean girl some sort of gift, go meet her parents, and you can be married within a couple of months! But of course, she'll refuse to live anywhere outside of Korea. Typical. Usually the same town she grew up in, next door to her parents. If you don't want to get married to a Korean, don't even bother. They don't give it up for anything, and once you meet her parents, that night at dinner, Mom and Dad will bring up wedding date suggestions. No joke. Don't meet the parents unless you're planning on proposing to her that evening, or have already propsed!
Women across the world are soooo different!
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