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caronte
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The more I go ahead with my new course on sponsorship, the more I'm convinced I found a great way to deal with this subject....
I'm currently partially sponsoring a candy, I say partially because I'm paying her a fix amount time to time, when we both feel the performances have reached a reasonable amount...kinda prepaid f_ck card! 
Say it 5k every 10 days, she's free to do whatever she wants and the only thing we agreed is that sometimes we have lunch together followed by a nice shag.....then, if she wants to keep working, up to her....no hard feeling on this as I was looking only for a gik, not a GF...
I like her, she likes me, we both enojoy our time together but the best part is that we don't suffer all the consequences of a real full term sponsorship....
What a beatiful world!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:31 am on Sep. 6, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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If the boss finds out, you gunna be serving sushi in a japanese restaurant for the rest of your life. Have you developed a nervous twitch at all with all that over the shoulder action 
hey, remind me to tell you about the MP deal tomorrow.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:35 am on Sep. 6, 2004
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jack attack
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Phlaa Laa,
IMO, the train has left the station. It isn't about the money now. You don't state how much she gets today but I promise BT 60,000 soon will not be enough.
I know you care for her but SHE IS USING YOU!!
Forget english classes... that is too much like real work. I should open a language school for the number of girls I have enrolled there! They go and because there is little opportunity to really use the language, it is usually forgotten soon after.
What does she say she wants to do? Housewife? Beauty school? I have heard those answers too. Has she asked for the car yet? If not, it won't be long... of course only to drive home to see mom & dad. I DON"T THINK SO!
I am sad to say I think she has the local Thai BF now. You will soon see that she can't meet you all the time and it won't be because she is meeting those damn trouble makers at the soapy.
Grit your teeth and jump off her gravy train at the next station. If she really cares, she will come runnin' back and money won't ever be an issue. Unfortuantely, if you dump her, she will also come running back... it'll be great for a bit and then it will return to "I need more money, honey".
Good luck! You will get past this one and find an even better one with honest intentions in the future.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:36 am on Sep. 6, 2004
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Jojje
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Neither can I understand sponsorship. Anyone doing it is of course "had" in the sense that he has accepted to be an ATM for the girl. On the other hand one would presume that guys doing this are grownup men and can take a sober decision what to do with their own money. Even if it is a bad decision.... in the end one has to add it all up and see if it was worth it or not. If happy with it, so be it - then the lucky girl has taken part of a generous and hopefully happy guy. If not - well a bad decision can always be followed by a new and better one, such as ending the charity!
If anyone not familiar with the scene would ask me for an honest advice about the topic - I would most certainly say: "Hell NO - donīt sponsor!" On the other hand I also realise what spoiled bastards we are in the west and if a person living in a situation we could not even imagine doing for 10 minutes, actually manages to get some extra out of big fat rich falang - well I donīt feel a bit sorry for him and congratulate her!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:02 am on Sep. 6, 2004
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Abrak
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2 cents...
(1) Whoever said you are paying her too much cos the average wage in Kalasin is Bt5000/m doesnt understand a thing. Anyone is clearly going to compare her new life (what you are offering) with their old. Depending how much she 'loves' you and how much she thinks she hates her old job (shagging 3/4 guys a day) will probably determine if she is prepared to take ANY pay cut or not.
(2) Next the transition from shagging 3/4 guys a day (and probably getting drugged up at night) to 'housewife' must be nigh impossible.
All this points to MP girls being probably the worse possible TG to sponsor.
In your case, it appears you gave a good opportunity of an alternative life and she simply cant handle it.
I still think you are left with a BIG PROBLEM. I suspect that your chick would - in the long run - like to settle down with a guy like you (and the income you are offering) BUT simply cant tear herself away from the - short term - opportunities to party (and maybe shag others)....
So when you wake up and dump her... what is going to happen.... she is going to cry and beg forgiveness... tell you aint going to happen again... BUT of course it is... and you know it...
So will you be strong enough and kick her out? or are you going to have to suffer a fewmore months of agony?
Let us know
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:58 am on Sep. 6, 2004
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Phla Laa
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An interesting question just pops up to my mind thinking about all this. If what motivates them is money, how much money do you think will make the "relationship" (in that sense anyway) work?
Obviously it cuts both ways. If the guy has so much money like $1 Mil or even $100K to spare, then he'd "buy" a better relationship, will he not? So where's the balance? I just do the math, and if say, these girl make 100K baht a month f_cking different guys every night... with what shelve life? 5 years? Then it's 6 mil baht for that "productive" period.
So if I follow Abrak's logic that they compare their life with and without f_cking around in monetary terms, then it will take approximately what... 10 mil baht? That's around $ 250K and that's a lot of money. This shouldn't work without the girl black-magic-ing the guy coz with that much money to spare, he should be a millionaire and what the heck, unless he's really a stupid millionaire he'd get other kind of girl for himself.
Look at it from the girl's point of view, comparing things like that is also stupid, coz... come on, what's the chance she meets this millionaire in thi ab-nam? Damn near to zero.
So the sad truth, there's very small possibility only this will work for real (as opposed to contract for sex only like what is drafted by Thaid up).
The chance of it to work doesn't depend on money, but depends on how much they really like each other. And that's a very long shot......
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:34 am on Sep. 7, 2004
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Dieter
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Phlaa Laa..
Money makes not a relationship....think all Thais so?
be honest!!!
But money could help and make the live more comfortable!!!!!
Truly
Dieter
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:59 am on Sep. 7, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Phla Laa what is the new avatar, your girl?
Actually, my current TGF was very unique in that she was dying to get out of the business. Univeristy 6 days a week up at 6:00 AM school 8>9 then off at 5:00 PM then homework. Now how do you fit work in a bar, drinking, and getting customers in that schedule, not easily.
But and this is a big BUT the most important factor is intelligence. My girl realises she is hot, but she also knows about her used by date hence wants to get a degree to be able to get a real job later. So everything is done on a schedule, yeah she likes to party, but just one a week.
So far so good on the "contract" really it is just like a menu and she picks and chooses what she wants to do and she knows how much it is worth to me which is matched to my entertainment budget.
A better bet for you would probably try to find a uni girl who is looking for a little extra money.
Abrak makes some good points that I agree with and I am also a firm believer that Thai Girls do not travel well especially long term. There are exceptions to this, but not many.
Keep us posted it is intertesting reading.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:02 am on Sep. 7, 2004
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Phla Laa
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That's a yes, ThaidUp.
And Dieter, I don't believe money makes relationship but definitely a factor in this kind of case. I just try to follow the logic and see how it could help it work in the *nut*case where the girl thinks that way......
I just read my post again and I must apologize if I sound offensive to anybody - no offence meant, to Abrak, to ThaidUp, or otherwise. It's just a pondering as I tried to sort out this situation.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:45 am on Sep. 7, 2004
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silentbob1234
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Quote: from Phla Laa on 12:41 pm on Sep. 5, 2004
 Now I'm lonely and my hand's my only release. Is there a possibility she actually 'black magicking" me?? Darn.
Sounds like you got a black magic woman that needs to change her evil ways lest you become her next soul sacrifice.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:44 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
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