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UK Shaga
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I do not know if this is the right thread to put this on but I think it is. I have a Thai long time girl as well, but I read about your experiences first, then I tried it a different way to see if it works and I think it dose to a certain degree. I made it plain up front that there will be no long-term financial support off me. I will send money to her if she needs it on a add hock basis. If she takes the pis% out of me I will stop talking to her. When I go to Thailand I will spend allot of time with her. We have regular phone calls while I am travelling around the world on my sex tour, (that she dose not know about). This means that I do not get all the normal Thai girl lines for money and this is the gist of this post have you guys heard this one before,
start with the normal “you no like me”, little cry, “me Love you”, little cry,
UK Shaga “what’s wrong”
HER, “Thailand have weather bad, hot, then cold then rain then hot, give me fever, I need money for Doctor, I can not work when me sick, if I come England with you I no have Thailand weather fever again, you love me”,
UK Shaga “Silence….., well I have to go in a meeting”.
Part of the deal which is why I think this works for me and her is I tell her she can go have other one night Falang and get in money, I don’t care as long as when I am there she don’t talk about it. I know she is going to do it, If I was her I would. She is great fun and I think she sees me as a friend and a walking ATM and a quick shag. The funniest thing is when she complains about me not lasting along time in the sack HA HA. She rings me about 2 times a day. She is very good looking, one of the few Thai women I know that is young with a big rack and a nice middle size butt and slim same time, good for me. I accepted what she was going to be doing and I think that she finds me interesting as I am not like the other falang that I am sure she gets allot of money off, as she dose not get allot of money off me. I think for over a year now of knowing her and stopping in her place when in Pattaya (no many hotels for me in Pattaya) I have given her about 20000bt. Cheap for me. I must be like her over draft facility. Back in Thailand in 2 weeks I think. I would really like to meet up with some of the old school on this site when in BKK next. Get some real long servers info from the horses mouth.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:33 am on Mar. 16, 2004
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Hermanolobo
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dose?
dose of what ? nasty !
I'll say it again ! :-
La donna è mobile
qual piuma al vento
muta d'accento
e di pensiero
Woman is fickle
As a feather in the wind,
She changes her tune
And her thoughts
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 2:49 am on Mar. 16, 2004
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RetributionAwaits
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Thai Girls - The Reality: The Good and the Bad from Initial Observations made by RetributionAwaits, Chapter 4, page 18.
If you like getting your Bad News first, skip the Good News below, scroll down to read the Bad News and then scroll up to the Good News.
The Good News
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LOS is a great place to build ST relations with BGs or TGs. It's great fun and cheap too. Who said you can't buy happiness for a few BTHs. You can buy the WHOLE package...Love, Sex, Emotions, Fun, Happiness and JOY. <Quote>It's real maan, it's awesome, it's a high roller coster ride to 'Sanuk'. Driving thru Sukhumvit with the wind blowing my hair, neon ligths on both sides of the road...holding my True Love's hand (and a beer in the other hand)...oh baby....I LOVE YOU FOREVER<Unquote>. ST. Period.
The Bad News
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LOS is not really a place for building LT relations with BGs or TGs. Many many (aahh Joy, how you used to say and rhyme 'many many') problem. Cultural, communication skills, long distance phone bills, waiting and hoping. Now why did she do that? Now what did she mean by that. Did you really understand what I was saying? Khao jai mai? Aaahhh...the phone bill! What is she doing now? Does she think of my everyday?
Conclusion: Love and respect your BG/TG in sickness and good health, in good times and bad times till your flight back home do you apart. Once home, 'fogged about it' till you return back to LOS to be united with 'her' or who knows...another BG/TG?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:00 am on Mar. 16, 2004
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Hermanolobo
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Alternatives?
Women in your own land ?
Talk about caught between the devil and the deep blue sea?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 5:17 am on Mar. 16, 2004
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RetributionAwaits
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Quote: from DSBones on 7:48 pm on Mar. 15, 2004
This forum (& this topic, in particular) continues to impress me with it's depth.
"From Shagging to Spiritual in 27 Easy Steps."
Marvellous!
Man, don't you just love us or what! From Shagging to Spiritual and to Political too!
I have heard stories of WWII where German women used to hide Swastika's under their mattress when they made love, and scream "Hail Hitler" as they orgasmed.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:20 am on Mar. 16, 2004
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Hermanolobo
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Fantastic!
Actually the Swastika is an ancient symbol ripped off by the Nazis. Some allege they reversed its direction and therefore the meaning?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:21 am on Mar. 16, 2004
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Arcadius
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Part of the deal which is why I think this works for me and her is I tell her she can go have other one night Falang and get in money, I don't care as long as when I am there she don't talk about it. I know she is going to do it, If I was her I would.
UK Shaga
I'm sure you're right - this is exactly what I meant about getting a grip on your ego and coming to terms with reality. So long as you don't make stupid and impossible demands on them, long-term relationships with these girls can be very satisfying and enjoyable. OK, they don't begin to fit conventional ideas about M/F relationships back home, but so what?
They certainly won't rub your nose in what else they get up to, and it's not really a matter of calculating deceit - it's just not the Thai way to discomfit others by telling them things they don't really need to know. Nor should you rub their noses in what else you get up to. These things can be tacitly understood, dismissed as of no importance and then forgotten about.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:26 pm on Mar. 16, 2004
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The Machine
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Arcadius
I like this approach.
I think this works even in long term relationships like marriage and even peversely it can strenghten a relationship.
Monogamy and exclusitivity are not natural states IMHO.
With men ego is one of the biggest problems.
Many men just cannot handle the fact that their women would want to or would screw out.
Most of the women that I have known really well seem to be able to rationalise away any of their indiscretions yet at the same time try to insist on their partner being absolutely faithful.
Do not fall for it guys.
Be discreet and don't rub it in their faces but do not deny your natural instincts for it will poison your long term relationship as you will feel claustrophobic and fustrated if you do not go out and get some side action from time to time.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:06 am on Mar. 17, 2004
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sps
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Just enjoying the banter here and have a few questions. I have come from the states to Thailand a few times over the last year. I have been a "timeshare" (I'm assumming) with one girl. She is from Issan, I have met the family, thinking about a life in Thailand. #1 Am I crazy? #2 Is there continuing great prejudice over a couple consisting of a Farang and a BG from Issan? In the mean time I will start working on my Thai speaking skills.
Trying to tap into the reality. thx
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:26 am on Mar. 19, 2004
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Ballsburstin
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sps,
Some answers to your questions:
#0) Yes, you are timesharing her until you can be around each other all the time. Thai's are social people, BG or not. And the BG has the added bonus of being able to make money by being social with farangs.
#1) Yes, but then we all are
#2) Somewhat, but that depends on how you dress and act in public. She will never be accepted in certain social circles in Thailand. Also, in the States (assuming you're American from you accent), the age disparity, if there is one, will be a source of bias -- you will be considered a "dirty old man" or the owner of a "war bride."
My take though, having been with an Isaan lady now for nearly two and one half years, is who cares what others think, Thai or farang. I behave in a manner I consider reasonable in all cultures. Those who don't like me can get stuffed.  I have to admit that dagger-like stares I occassionally get from farang women in BKK is a guilty pleasure for me, lol.
It's a very bumpy road to travel, so be sure you really want to do it. I'd take it slow with measured steps. Learn the language as soon as you can, it is essential to really getting closer to her and understanding what she is thinking and feeling -- likewise lets you communicate your thoughts and feelings too.
- Balls
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:33 pm on Mar. 19, 2004
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