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Quim
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CalEden, you may very well be right about the porn industry's "evolution". I find fascinating the Japanese bukakke vids featuring female news anchors who continue to report the news as countless men cum on their face. (The Japanese in general are the most creative, perverted pornographers around, but that's a topic for another thread.)
In the real wold, however, cuming on a girl's face, as with so many sexual acts, is, IMHO, about the pleasures of power and domination more than anything else. For some (many?) men, there is distinct and delicious (psychological) thrill to having a girl subjugate herself to your dirtiest wishes, whether it be by allowing you to f*** her in the ass, cum in her mouth, cum on her face, make her swallow your cum, spank her, tie her up, play dead, expose her in public, choke on your cock, and so on (to just mention some of my favorites -- golden showers and scat are not on the list because they don't excite me).
Note that I introduced this list with the comment that she "allows" you to do these things to her. That's an important part of the thrill, for me at least. When a girl willingly lets you have your way with her, when she willingly gives into your perversions, to make you happy, that is what makes it so exciting.
This dynamic is more complicated (and usually less exciting) in the P$P context, where we pay for their "willingness" to have us dominate them, but even here there are evident degrees of willingness if you pay attention to the signals. I have had a great time with girls along the lines that BK describes who clearly get a kick out of inviting you to spill your spunk on them, even if they just see it as doing their job well. Whenever I sense a reluctance on their part, that usually kills my thrill in it.
As for cuming on their face, I usually tend to avoid it only because the stuff is such a bitch for them clean up, especially if it gets in their hair. I also don't insist much on swallowing as it can often upset their stomach. The same goes for cuming in a girls ass, it can give them the runs. It's all good kinky fun, but the consequences can be disruptive to any LT enjoyment.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:02 pm on April 18, 2010
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Vikingblood
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Why do you f*** tham at all?
It might upset their mum.
This might be the strangest thread of all in BTNF.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:34 pm on April 18, 2010
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Mr Alan
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Quote: from Quim on 2:02 pm on April 18, 2010
As for cuming on their face, I usually tend to avoid it only because the stuff is such a bitch for them clean up, especially if it gets in their hair. I also don't insist much on swallowing as it can often upset their stomach. The same goes for cuming in a girls ass, it can give them the runs. It's all good kinky fun, but the consequences can be disruptive to any LT enjoyment.
Why is it when reading the above, that I get the distinct impression that this a 1st party account account of what happens?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:39 pm on April 18, 2010
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seajohn
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Quote: from Quim on 2:02 am on April 19, 2010
For some (many?) men, there is distinct and delicious (psychological) thrill to having a girl subjugate herself to your dirtiest wishes...
I suppose there would be. However, one of the major points of my previous two posts was that these wishes not necessarily be dirty. They are made dirty through a repressive tradition.
Yes, I agree that ideally it should all take place in a fun communicative atmosphere. That's easier in LOS than some other environs, I find. And it is true that you need to make your wishes known, assert your desire... Does that make them wrong?
It is moot as to whether we would still have the wishes for certain activities without the repressive background. But it is necessary, I believe, to cease thinking of our sexual urges as dirty. That just perpetuates the sickness that leads to "power and domination" and everything that does subjugate and harm, physically and psychologically. One hates oneself, so one hates others. One despises one's sexuality; one wishes to crush another's.
Is it really impossible to think of cumming on a girl's face as anything other than dirty and subjugating? I think it's fascinating instead. But I don't know. I'm not an expert on everything. Orangutans have a very rape like sex. Bonobos have it more fun. So we have different sides to our nature, and maybe they're all true to certain degree...
I do know that I do not appreciate being made a dirty despicable person in regard to sex, which is why I do not involve myself in S&M to any real degree. On the other hand, perhaps there is an innate pleasure in breaking rules of every kind. Humans make them as fast as they break them. Maybe women even get turned on a little by a man breaking rules. Not primarily--there are other more significant turn-ons for them--but I'm just suggesting that there are many factors involved and I don't want to reduce a human sexual act to the realm of sickies.
Vikingblood, I think your post was amusing, thanks.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:27 pm on April 18, 2010
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Quim
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Seajohn, I meant "dirty" only in the very best sense of the word....
As in breaking the rules with pleasure, defying the stultifying conventional norms that pass for "normal," when the truth is that human sexuality is far more complex and varied than ever imagined by a bunch of sunday school teachers.
But my point, made somewhat tongue in cheek, is that sometimes our "dirty" sexual habits can lead to some very messy after effects. Cuming on a girl's face is just one of them.
Norman Mailer in his novel American Dream describes a memorable scene where a man kills his wife and then proceeds to f*** (or rape, depending on your interpretation) the maid anally and vaginally, moving back and forth from one to the other hole with his cock. I have since learned to respect that, while this happens in porn flicks, in real life it tends all too often to lead to urinary tract infections for the girl, and so I generally tend to avoid it, unless we are uniquely carried away by the moment. 
Sticking with the theme of this thread, I do not think there is anything particularly "dirty" about cuming on a girl's face (as opposed to taking a dump on it, which I will not do), but my point is simply that it may lead to complications, as she tries to wash your cum out of her hair. Girls tend to be particular about their hair. No big deal, but that's how it is.
I don't understand Vikingblood's post, but perhaps that is because he is Scandinavian. The vikings after dinner would thrust swords into each other for pleasure and as a test of their manhood. Go figure.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:48 pm on April 18, 2010
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seajohn
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Quim: Thanks for the clarification and example.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:57 pm on April 18, 2010
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S M E G M A
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Quote: from Mr Alan on 3:39 am on April 19, 2010
Quote: from Quim on 2:02 pm on April 18, 2010
As for cuming on their face, I usually tend to avoid it only because the stuff is such a bitch for them clean up, especially if it gets in their hair. I also don't insist much on swallowing as it can often upset their stomach. The same goes for cuming in a girls ass, it can give them the runs. It's all good kinky fun, but the consequences can be disruptive to any LT enjoyment.
Why is it when reading the above, that I get the distinct impression that this a 1st party account account of what happens?
 5555 I think this is the first time Alan makes me laugh.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:08 pm on April 18, 2010
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Mr Alan
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Quote: from S M E G M A on 11:08 pm on April 18, 2010
5555 I think this is the first time Alan makes me laugh.
I have been counting over the last nine years or so, and it is at least the third time (maybe more, but the third time you admitted it).
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:17 am on April 19, 2010
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S M E G M A
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I didn't know that besides USA law, you also knew how to count. Good for you!
Now, the other two times you mention, I smiled. This time I laughed. But in any case, that is why I said 'I think'.... just in case... you see, I am always doubting
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:08 am on April 19, 2010
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nugronskardet
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I just wish someone will do his or her PhD on these pages. They are great reading - often fun - and with a candor about how the male brain (mine too) really works. Thanks guys (and gals)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:04 pm on July 1, 2010
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