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John NM
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CompExe et al
My wife and I did the engagement ceremony thing, and the dance with the INS and State Dept for her fiancee visa. If ya need any advise, just drop a note.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:56 am on May 15, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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Quote: from BigDUSA on 7:50 am on Jan. 16, 2005
This is how I would handle the Thai family. I would give my wife a small monthly budget to dispense to her family as she saw fit. Figure $75USD. Loans to the 3rd cousin twice removed. I would make serial loans. When the "cus" paid me back, I would be willing to make the next loan. If he doesn't pay the family would put pressure on him to repay as the money spigot would be turned off until he paid up. I would only make loans up to $500USD.
It says very clear in any good book about thai GF and wifes always think a loan as a GIFT not a loan you will never get the money back. Maybe you should read the book it does not work trust me.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:09 pm on May 15, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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Quote: from compexec1 on 8:44 pm on May 15, 2005
Quote: from Minder on 8:06 am on May 15, 2005
Compexec1. Good luck with it all. How hard was it to get a visa for her? Got a horror story to share or did it all go okay?
Still in progress, flying out to Laos in two weeks for an Engagement ceremony her parents want before she comes here. I’m hoping we have her Visa by the end of August and I can fly out to pick her up over Labor Day weekend.
I hope you are not paying one cent for the girl and a normal fee for a wedding a rice ying is around 10 000 thb if its more then that she must be something extra and no I do not mean the xxx thing
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:10 pm on May 15, 2005
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compexec1
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Quote: from Bangkoksexydotcom on 1:04 pm on May 15, 2005
I hope you are not paying one cent for the girl and a normal fee for a wedding a rice ying is around 10 000 thb if its more then that she must be something extra and no I do not mean the xxx thing
What is a "rice ying", I'm sorry but I don't understand your post.
Compy
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:32 pm on May 15, 2005
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dirty guru
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just make sure you are the boss of big money, but be prepared to loose alot of small money......in the Usa god help you!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:49 am on May 16, 2005
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Hermanolobo
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I know you know I am bitter about this issue but I still do not believe it is possible to have a relationship that we understand with a Thai girl ?
I really hope I am proved wrong - as many times as possible. Unfortunately the statistics are against this
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:11 am on May 16, 2005
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dirty guru
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yea your wrong...but in most cases..you hold sway
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:30 am on May 17, 2005
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LRanger
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Bought two copies of Thai Fever one for me and one for my TGF. We read it together whilst on holiday number three in Krabi in Feb. I think the book is good value, mostly the cultural differences part.
A good read, and helps to build understanding.
Thanks to BKKTonight for recommending it - very worthwhile.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:42 pm on May 28, 2005
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Frank La Rue
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LRanger,
you may also want to read "Travels With Frank" and "Travels With Frank - The Sequel". Both on BTF.
The later is running now, on a PC near you. The former was written last year.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:08 am on May 29, 2005
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Hermes
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I dont agree fully with the chapters regarding family support in Thailand Fever. I tend to wonder, that in thailand it cant only be the ladies who should support the family, but also the man should support his.
That is often forgotten when Farang are involved. I have read some stories from men who found a little lady far out in the countryside. Volounteer help workers who brought the ladies home. And then they discover later on that the lady actually sends 1 or a couple thousand bath to the mans family. Since the man dont do it.
So for things to be correct, then the man should support the family too. And not the amounts it so often is expected as soon as a Farang is involved. I havent been in a situation where this have been an issue, but I have discussed it a couple times with ladies. And there is a significative difference between ladies in lower Sukumvit and ladies I met elsewhere.
And the difference shouldnt be so hard to figure out. For the nonsuk ladies its not even a consideration that money should also be given to the mans family. Now with most of us, our family dont need it. However I think its still a point that should be adressed.
But on the other hand, im from sweden. And im kinda brought up in the most man-lady equal country in the world. For good and for bad.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:40 pm on July 2, 2005
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