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You're applying a far too western perspective on the way you look at the world.
You are correct in pointing out the impossibility of objectivity.
But, believe it or not, I know a thing or two about cultural anthropology and morality. While there are obviously unbridgeable cultural differences, there is also a common human morality (a categorical imperative). Quite a few people agree with me on this point; Immanuel Kant and Plato are the first two that come to mind.
To put it in layman’s terms. Thou shall not kill is one example. Or, more related to the subject at hand: if you love somebody, you will not tolerate she sleeps with other persons.
If the BF is okay with it, nd if the girl is okay with it, what is your possible problem about it?
See above and reread my original post. I quote:” This upset me as a human being.” I was thinking beyond this particular case and feeling disgust how another man could allow this to happen with a woman he considers his girlfriend.
Most of all, I am baffled how she can stay with him.
I find it oddly more disturbing that you appear to consider it 'okay' were you to pay her for sexual favors, yet if she decides to sleep with you of her own volition, that's somehow wrong because her boyfriend is okay with it as well? Kind of an odd perspective, if you ask me.
You are misreading me. That is not what I am saying.
Lastly, you're the gik, the no-strings attached one-night stand (so to speak), which is not only convenient, but f***-buddies aren't that much of an oddity in the west either.
I am aware of that, but if you would find out about your wife/girlfriend that she had a f*** budddy would you be OK with it? And even go a step further and tell the f*** buddy that it is OK with you?
So, what exactly disturbs you about all of this?
I hope that is clear by now.
You shouldn’t get to upset about the things that disturb me. Quite a few things do.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:44 am on Jan. 27, 2005
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Minder
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The word "gik" was new to me yesterday so I asked a Thai friend to explain. This is her response.
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Yes you are right it means a casual sex partner and also maybe this person you can talk with him/her in many things, and maybe him/her is the one who understand you much more some one at home, but they say that the one who is 'gik' can not be jealous, they have freedom to have more than 1 'gik'.
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Abrak - Thanks. I am certain my friend would never have mentioned "gik" to me first. Now she is wondering how I am so damn "ruu maak" all the time. Enjoy
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:10 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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I am in agreement with the bros who are scratching their heads about a Thai boy who has no problem with his girlfriend sleeping with a falang for money.
Like Park in Private Dancer (a fictional character) it keeps him in chrome bits for his motorcycle.
They have a way of detaching sex from romantic love, at least their Thai male concept of love.
To us it is repulsive. It is parasitic.
Thanks to Minder for a glimpse into a part of TG psyche which remains hidden to the casual observer. Makes a hell of an interesting topic of discussion.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:28 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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The longer I live here, the more I come to accept that, for the average Thai, sex is merely a function similar to eating, drinking and defecating.
Once you accept that, life becomes clearer. Especially the manner in which the girls are prepared to haev multiple partners.
They seem no more fussed about who they sleep with than they are about who they eat with.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:00 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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Quote: from Bangkok Chang on 3:54 pm on Jan. 28, 2005
The longer I live here, the more I come to accept that, for the average Thai, sex is merely a function similar to eating, drinking and defecating.
Once you accept that, life becomes clearer. Especially the manner in which the girls are prepared to haev multiple partners.
They seem no more fussed about who they sleep with than they are about who they eat with.
Couldn't agree more. They don't give a flying f***. Neither should you or you will get burned.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:04 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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hypershade
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The longer I live here, the more I come to accept that, for the average Thai, sex is merely a function similar to eating, drinking and defecating.
Although, I don’t like generalizations, that seems indeed to be the case. For girls in every part of society, oddly enough.
Personally, I find it a bit shallow and emotionally underdeveloped. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind sex for the pleasure of sex, but pure mystical passion is still my objective. I couldn’t do with” just” sex.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:16 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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Bangkok Chang
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.. ah but there is love in the LoS too.
I've just been speaking with Tiam, number 29 in Thigh bar. She got married yesterday so she wasn't in the bar.
She's working tonight, however, in case anyone fancies kissing the bride. Or something more personal.....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:42 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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hypershade
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She's working tonight, however, in case anyone fancies kissing the bride. Or something more personal.....
That is just totally f***ed up.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:46 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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ftumch
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Quote: from Bangkok Chang on 4:36 pm on Jan. 28, 2005
.. ah but there is love in the LoS too.
I've just been speaking with Tiam, number 29 in Thigh bar. She got married yesterday so she wasn't in the bar.
She's working tonight, however, in case anyone fancies kissing the bride. Or something more personal.....
Unbelievable! To a farang I assume. Perhaps you guys could organise some sort of bridal shower as a send off, if you know what I mean.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:53 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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Quote: from Abrak on 5:10 pm on Jan. 27, 2005
Quote: from Bangkok Chang on 1:50 pm on Jan. 27, 2005
I was agreeing with DG rather than disagreeing with you Abrak.
Ok. Fair point. I never understand a word Dirty Guru says. He uses no paragraphs, not much punctuation and gabbles about stuff incoherently. I do honestly try to understand what he is talking about sometimes but it is just so difficult to wade through a paragraph that is six inches deep. My feeling is that somewhere beneath all that stuff he has something interesting to say but for the life of me I cant work out what. I understand that english is not his first language so that of course makes it very difficult. I am crap at languages so I should hardly be one to complain. Anyway good to know that someone understands it all. I see lots of posts saying he is offensive to people but as I dont understand what he is saying it is difficult to guage. Sometimes when he makes posts like 'f*** off you pervert... I know you like 14 year old thai boys' I get the message but when he rambles on about loads of different things in one post I find it difficult to follow and usually give up after a few sentences.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:07 am on Jan. 28, 2005
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