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Quote: from Skip on 6:20 pm on May 4, 2005
Abrak, Do you think age would be a factor in your ebullience? I get the impression even the internet dating sights aren't going to be of much help if you're mid-30's or over.
Seems to me like all the Thai dating sites are full of twenty-somethings looking for other twenty-somethings. Thirty-something-elses seems like the max.
Interesting points by you n' HJ. Take a look at the profles of those chaps who are on line in a dating forum (e.g. Thailovelinks) and you will see that a lot of 'em are well over 30, in fact out of over 50 men I noticed on line last night there were none less than a declared age (supported by the picture!!) of 40, includin' me!
The women on line were a mixed bunch (age wise at least!) and there were a few goodlookers who I chatted to and have since exchange emails with.
Great fun and a good way to while-away the hours, days, weeks n' months 'till yer next trip to LOS.
Cheers
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Posted on: 12:33 am on May 5, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Skip
I'm sure that you're right about the girls from the poorer regions like Isaan and that there is a correlation between the age of the guy and the lack of wealth of the girl.
However, as we are talking about internet dating for non P4P girls, that also is a factor in the type of girl that we are discussing. The girl has to either own, or have access to a computer and be literate in its use. She needs to speak at least enough of a Farang language to even post her profile, unless she has somebody helping her. This tends to diminish the number of girls on these sites from those poorer backgrounds. You only need to look at the educational qualifications or job descriptions that they list on their profiles to know that by and large these are often not your poor uneducated Isaan girls working in the rice fields all day.
Ultimately, does it matter what the reason is that the girl is happy to take an older guy? Lucky older guy is what I'd say! Once the relationship has commenced and grown serious, there's no reason that they shouldn't love each other and be happy together. My fiancee isn't bothered at all by our 24 year age gap and it certainly doesn't bother me. I saved her from marrying an American Doctor 30 years older than her! They're still friends and she introduced him to a friend of hers younger than herself. She says that her friend prefers older men. She isn't a poor Isaan girl, but a middle class, University educated girl like mine. They seem very happy together.
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Posted on: 2:32 am on May 5, 2005
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Moxnix48
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A key point with many of these internet girls is that they were born and raised in Bangkok or another city. They are not some poor country girl just off the farm. While they are not well off by Western standards, they grew up with the basics. And do remember the price of admission is a computer and the ability to effectively use it, not something your average poor farm girl is likely to have.
The age difference really doesn't seem to bother many of these girls as long as you look decent. And more than a few specify they want an older guy. When asked why, they will tell you that an older guy is more likely to stick with them and less likely to be a butterfly.
I met one girl from the internet who would be classified as being rich. She had her own car, credit cards, took overseas vacations, and definitely was not hurting for money, but was still trolling the internet looking for an older farang. She told me she was disappointed in younger guys and preferred a more mature guy.
When I was 50, I got dumped by my first real Thai gf who was 23 at the time for a 68 year old guy. And that girl was solid middle class, born and raised in Bkk complete with a university degree. I am still friends with her and we still laugh about it, although at the time it was hard on the ego.
The point is you really can't make generalizations. There are non-working Thai girls who are willing to have serious relationships with older guys. And a good place to find those girls is on the internet, but you have to find the right site and sift through the offerings. It is time consuming and can be frustrating. Just remember though that a really good non-working girl is going to expect a whole lot more than her working counterpart. It is a relationship after all based on more than just money.
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Posted on: 6:47 am on May 5, 2005
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jmac06
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I can give some insight from a different point of view. I now live with my GF in suburban BKK. We met thru a web site dating service. I'm older, she's younger. I am now putting a number of her friends on that same dating site. I take their pictures, write them a nice profile after an interview, and make them seem very attractive to a western guy. I set up an email account and answer their emails. I have even chatted with some of the guys on line. Not for free by the way. Most of these girls speak little if any english. The first one is getting married next month. What these girls are all looking for is a guy much older than themselves who can provide some security, but most of all they want someone who will not have a mia noi. The mia noi issue seems to be the consistant issue. The girls range in age from 20 to 38. A few good lookers and 1 or 2 real dogs. They do expect the guy to pay sin sot (even though most of them are divorced or widowed and have kids). The first guy already agreed to this. My GF expects a cut of this. They are mainly looking for guys who do not know much about Thai culture (or scams). I do believe most of them are sincere, but they are looking for the money.
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Posted on: 2:39 am on May 7, 2005
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Skip
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^ Just the post I was looking for. I really didn't want to get into another "my perspective" is better than "your perspective" arguements.
It's simply a market fraught with untruths, deceptions and 'tell-him-what-he-wants-to-hears' But sure, you bet, there's a few gems in their- women that do want to marry out of their race, culture, religion, socio-econ background- for love and such.
Its' true, I live far too damned idealistic in this world. But, all I meant when I jumped in was that I think the search is more diffcult and we face greater, more skilled deceptors and fewer women of merit as we get older.
Ah, what the f***! We're all a mongering hoard of whorish punters here anyway, right? We don't deserve a woman of merit!!! 
I am not swayed: Internet dating as an option in Thailand sucks IMHO. Maybe another day, I'll post my three hilariously diverse encounters that via a few dating sites here and what came of them..... another day...
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Posted on: 3:20 am on May 7, 2005
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Khundavid
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Quote: from Hugh Jardon on 12:01 am on April 4, 2005
ThaiLoveLinks does have sites for both Thailand and the Phippines. Good hunting. Eminently possible to find a girl in that age range
SWEETSINGLES.COM
LEGIT. SITE u pay for intro, it's by don muarang a p...
goog luck
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Posted on: 10:35 pm on May 7, 2005
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Khundavid
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Quote: from jmac06 on 2:33 pm on May 7, 2005
I can give some insight from a different point of view. I now live with my GF in suburban BKK. We met thru a web site dating service. I'm older, she's younger. I am now putting a number of her friends on that same dating site. I take their pictures, write them a nice profile after an interview, and make them seem very attractive to a western guy. I set up an email account and answer their emails. I have even chatted with some of the guys on line. Not for free by the way. Most of these girls speak little if any english. The first one is getting married next month. What these girls are all looking for is a guy much older than themselves who can provide some security, but most of all they want someone who will not have a mia noi. The mia noi issue seems to be the consistant issue. The girls range in age from 20 to 38. A few good lookers and 1 or 2 real dogs. They do expect the guy to pay sin sot (even though most of them are divorced or widowed and have kids). The first guy already agreed to this. My GF expects a cut of this. They are mainly looking for guys who do not know much about Thai culture (or scams). I do believe most of them are sincere, but they are looking for the money.
_________________________________________________What is the url of the web site. Many nice guys on this forum our looking for nice girls.
u can always go to sweetsingles.com (legit intro service), but expensive..........
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Posted on: 10:57 pm on May 7, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from Moxnix48 on 6:41 pm on May 5, 2005
And do remember the price of admission is a computer and the ability to effectively use it, not something your average poor farm girl is likely to have.
Do remeber that Internet Cafés are a dime a dozen over there, and thus admission is just as possible to the poor Issaan girls...
Dr. von Quack!
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Posted on: 5:58 am on May 8, 2005
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cheapcharlie
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As with many things in life when your desperately seeking
something it never happens.
As im married I look at the internet chat as a little fun.
Still ive met and bedded a normal women I met on there.
What shocked me was the total different way she acted to everything compared to my wife....
I also have a chick in the phillipines whom I have cyber sex with. she just told me shes a 28 year old virgin
and I was the first man to teach her about sex -
i know probably bull, but so far fetched it could be true.
anyway im in no hurry maybe next trip ill viist there.
I had a few nice encounters last trip in los, basically its
wam bam thank you maammmm and on my way.
One thing I learnt im very choosy now if I was was looking for a wife now id be a dammed sight more
critical - he we can afford to in bkk
just all these things happen now, they werent like this when I was single, some gals like married men some dont. I know when I walk in a bar back home I can pull em cause I dnt give a f***.
Desperation can be read a mile away, a sucker as well
stamped on the forehead - sucker please please please ask me to buy you a bar......................... and take care family............
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Posted on: 7:08 am on May 8, 2005
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Quote: from jmac06 on 10:33 am on May 7, 2005
I can give some insight from a different point of view. I now live with my GF in suburban BKK. We met thru a web site dating service. I'm older, she's younger. I am now putting a number of her friends on that same dating site. I take their pictures, write them a nice profile after an interview, and make them seem very attractive to a western guy. I set up an email account and answer their emails. I have even chatted with some of the guys on line. Not for free by the way. Most of these girls speak little if any english. The first one is getting married next month. What these girls are all looking for is a guy much older than themselves who can provide some security, but most of all they want someone who will not have a mia noi. The mia noi issue seems to be the consistant issue. The girls range in age from 20 to 38. A few good lookers and 1 or 2 real dogs. They do expect the guy to pay sin sot (even though most of them are divorced or widowed and have kids). The first guy already agreed to this. My GF expects a cut of this. They are mainly looking for guys who do not know much about Thai culture (or scams). I do believe most of them are sincere, but they are looking for the money.
You are doing a very big fraud here, my friend. By getting good-believing wealthy farangs at a situation where they might lose their heart, sense and fortunes to marry a girl.
You are pretending to be the girl of the photo, trying to get him married to a girl, a guy who you say cannot have ANY KNOWLEDGE OF THAI SCAMS. Very nice going mate.
I don't know how you can live with yourself.
Again a farang is made to look very stupid, and the best side is another farang is doing it FOR them! The girls must die laughing!
I hope the message was just a poor attempt of a troll.
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Posted on: 12:57 pm on May 8, 2005
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