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LiamOZ
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I guess a lot of the smart ones will give P4P a go at some time if they are down on their baht and need money. The equation I think is just too tempting and they are very pragmatic when it comes to sex for money.
I've had at both ends of the spectrum, absolute P4P hard nosed professionals through to one or two you would call a lady by our farang standards, being extremely discreet and decent women.
They are all good girls in my book! Caveat emptor.
Liam
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:28 pm on Jan. 1, 2008
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from NicFrenchy on 5:53 pm on Jan. 1, 2008
Not really when you're your own boss
being ousted from your building for molesting people in the passageway wouldn't do much for your reputation mr. boss man, LOL
I've done things as daring though, she must have really been turning on the green light
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:45 pm on Jan. 1, 2008
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don5252
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just for the sake of trying to hear stories about non p4p, it's a given there are good & bad w/all girls, I was hoping to hear more stories like NF's beginning post, good girls here is just a loose term for non p4p, ice cream server, office worker, maybe the girl who gave you a haircut
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:04 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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atl
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NF wrote:
I hate these HiSo people, they are the most self centered people I have ever met. It's all about who has more....
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I am with you man.....mrs atl is not down with high so people either.....
atl
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:13 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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addams
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this dislike of hi-so's im hearing. has that go anything to do with fact that most of them dont give a toss about farangs...
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:59 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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Packripper
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No need to be annoyed by them, it's not like they even notice you.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:00 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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China Sailor
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Many of the HiSo's are descendent's of Thai Nobility. If you look at the (historical) record of the Thai Nobility they are about as 'stuck-up' (and corrupt) as the European Nobility.
It does not matter where you are, the 'blue-bloods' will always look down on the 'merchants and commoners'.
Let's see, that will pretty much rule out the Kiwis, Americans, and Aussies...
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:34 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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Packripper
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Most hiso's that most people see out and about are what the locals refer to as 'hisaw' which is a play on words to mean that they aren't really traditional hiso but just that they have an appearance of wealth. Sometimes real wealth, sometimes not.
Not saying this is true of our fellow board members, but you'll often hear of tourists and long stay expats verbally expressing personal issues with these folks, because it throws out of wack the tourist experience of having significant buying power -which is actually minute compared to wealthy locals.- That's of course true in any country, but when we're talking about Disneyland, no one wants to see Mickey and Minnie out back getting into their Rolls and heading home to Nichada Thani.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:22 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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Packripper
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On topic though, I think anyone living here, has a decent income, car, home, and better yet a second home or condo -especially if married, like myself- will have endless good or at least non p4p gals to choose from. It's inevitable, like anywhere else in the world where you can create a significant income, confidence, exotic/attractiveness, and so forth disparity between yourself and the competition. Same game, different fields.
Myself I find that I can attract folks simply by speaking fairly fluent Thai with a naturally unclear accent. All I have to do is find a reason to say more than a few sentences and eventually the gals will ask if I'm Thai or not, like why do I look Thai but sound foreign. Okay, ice broken, minor level of interest established. Most guys in my opinion can take it from there once that small spark is established. The hard part is really the first 5-10 minutes. The rest, once they see how nice a life you have, they want to taste it. Well, more often than not, she's going to get to taste something else too!
It's nice from time to time, but I still prefer the soapies, mostly because 'normal' girls generally require phone time. Kinda hard to do with the wife, kid, and employees around.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:35 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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Joe Wood
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Good to hear that guys, like Nic frenchy have the sense and wisom to avoid the land-mine possibilities to being set-up and not to run the risk of having their visa ripped from under them.
My impression is that there are some girls in all walks of life, from the village girl, through the factory worker 7/11 employee to the company girl and female owners of businesses who would not contemplate a relationship with a falang.
And their reasons are many and varied ranging from traditonal ideas of respect for family and culture to ideas about social position in Thai society and personal and company reputations and consequences for relations.
Aspects of Buddhist thought and Thai mentality lend themselves to a freer attitude to life generally that most people in the West manage to engender.
But to go around thinking that any girl can be bought by a farang wallet is naive in the extreme.
To think that girls here are more receptive to being propositioned by a farang wallet merely because they are Thai Buddhists doesn't paint an accurate picture.
What speaks volumes to most is not the appeal of the thichness your wallet. It is the roar of years of poverty in their ears that they want to silence.
The so-called affluent in society, whether they are truly Hi-so or enjoy the newly acquired status of being rich or at least well-off, means that they have distanced themselves comfortably from that deafening roar that has filled the land for centuries.
Would your country be any different ?
Would the ladies and girls of your country, earning one tenth of their present salaries and with as little educational and employment prospects that Thai ladies have here, be any different when confronted with foreigners who would be prepared to give them the equivalent of a half or a third of their monthly salary for a couple of hours in the hay ? I think not.
And amogst the Thai working girls, there is an enormous variety of backgrounds. A lot of girls in Nana and Soi Cowboy have nothing, sleep in a room with seven other girls somewhere or above the bar,manage to visit their familie once a year if that.
There are one or two who drive to work in expensive cars, legacies of past marriages to falang gone wrong.
In the Go-Go's and massage parlours, not all are uneducated. I've even met freelancers who have university degrees. But who needs to work for a pittance, with no prospects and are required to put out on demand by management or lose their job..and for no additional remuneration ? If you're going to get shafted in a situation, it might as well have an upside to it.
I think most guys still see this society through Western eyes and somehow place the structures of what they know from back home on what they see here. It is not applicable. You cannot compare. In comparison, things are either in reverse or completely on their head. Applyying a western social model and points of reference to situations here is nonsense. It is the difference between chalk and cheese.
To consider the term "Good Girl' experiences, in any strata of this society, is to consider the quality of good feeling and genuine heartfelt response, whether you have met her in a five star hotel or in the gutter, irrespective of how many men she has known ( in the biblical sense.).
And conversely, her measurement of your worth as a human being will also be made regardless of whether you meet her in a five star hotel or in the gutter and also irrespective of how many girls you have known in the same sense.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:50 am on Jan. 2, 2008
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