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NicFrenchy

Quote: from quack quack on 11:34 am on Feb. 27, 2010

Better stick to Camfrog bro NicFrenchy, there you’ll find people of your intellectual equivalent.


Thank you, I take this as a Compliment :D
And yes, it is beyond my capabilities (which is why I no longer post reviews), you are such a good judge of character, nice one, I am impressed.

Anyone know what happened to the OP? hopefully he did not get bored of the chit chat and will come back for the end of the story.



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Posted on: 1:17 am on Feb. 27, 2010
saitnyen
NicFrenchy asked: "Anyone know what happened to the OP?"

That would be me and I posted an update just a day before you asked.

Actually I was a bit disappointed with the back biting going on so I disappeared for awhile.

I haven't been back in Thailand for awhile so I have not yet tested my resolve on this matter. Not sure I actually have a resolve to be tested yet.

Stay tuned... I will update once decided.


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Posted on: 1:13 am on Mar. 7, 2010
magnum

Quote: from saitnyen on 2:13 pm on Mar. 7, 2010




... saitnyen, do NOT allow yourself to be victimized... don't you do it!... if she gets to you, it isn't because you are generous, or jai dee, or any of those noble qualities... it would be because you are naive and weak.

... this is a bar gurl who puts men's dicks in her mouth to get their money... that she allegedly uses it to go to school is great... good for her, if it is true... but... keep in mind how she is trained to make money.

... if she prevails over you in your very next encounter, you are done... accept that she got you and pay the higher prices forever after (and prepare to fund more special needs), or bag her and find yourself some new pussy.

... this is a business relationship... the high, HIGH probability is that she is sucking lots and lots of other dicks here... do not deceive yourself into believing there is any devotion to you from a bar gurl.

... get control of it, my man, or move on... plenty from which to choose.

... we remain interested in how it all works out... rooting for you, my man.



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Posted on: 2:13 am on Mar. 7, 2010
Ballsburstin
saitnyen,

the 2K baht wouldn't be so bad, if you felt you were getting your time and money's worth. You seemed a bit dismayed that she helps to define the "short" in short time. The advice in this thread makes sense, just hold the line at 2K and if that bugs you, move on.

I had a regular in BKK whom I always dropped 2K short time on. I'd met her a little MP on SUK and we ended up seeing each other outside of there for ST's. In reality the ST's were a couple of hours, as I'd grab a cheap hotel room and we'd hang there until we were done, often 2 hours or so. We regarded each other as buddies, to some extent, and often did a cup of coffee at Starbucks or noodles at a rotken before the dirty deed.

If you think about it, with today's prices, 1500 ST, 600 baht barfine, lady drinks, st hotel, etc. you are already over the 2K even if you go to a regular beer bar like Big Dogs. So 2K without the bf and the other "overhead" charges starts to be competitive. It wasn't in the past, when the norm for STs was considerably cheaper.

I finally left LOS and brought my Thai wife to Amerika, but not before spending a last, and somewhat sad, evening with this lady. I looked her up when in BKK at the end of last year but she was in Germany with her new boyfriend. She apologized and said she had to make a decision as she was getting older, and because I left, I was not an option for her retirement anymore, lol. I told her I was really happy for her (I was) and apologies were definitely not needed. She did, however, mention she would be back in LOS in 2010 for a while, and, btw, wouldn't mind dropping by to see me, lol...

Point is, pay the money and enjoy the fantasy, or the companionship, or whatever it is that you mutually connect on, and walk when it stops working for you. Things often have a way of working our for both parties.

- Balls


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Posted on: 3:20 pm on Mar. 7, 2010
China Sailor

Quote: from Ballsburstin on 5:20 am on Mar. 8, 2010
...Point is, pay the money and enjoy the fantasy, or the companionship, or whatever it is that you mutually connect on, and walk when it stops working for you. Things often have a way of working our for both parties.


Spot on Balls ...



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Posted on: 9:25 pm on Mar. 7, 2010
MickTheKick
Yep, I second, spot on Balls... that's exactly the right way to look at it... And it's not that hard, is it?!? Took me about a year to reach that state of wisdom... ...and what is a one year learning curve if you make LOS a part of your life... piece o' cake...


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Posted on: 2:43 am on Mar. 8, 2010
bkkz
Amazing! All this discussion because of 500 B! saitnyen, see here again, and give her 2,000 B and if she insists on 2,500 B then it's your call if you want to see her again or accept her new rate.


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Posted on: 4:28 am on Mar. 8, 2010
Quim
It's not the 500 BK, it's the principle. The question is who get's to set the price in this kind of situation.

If I take a girl LT on a spoken or unspoken "up to you" price, and pay her 2,000, then I feel obligated to pay her 2,000 the next time too, or inform her upfront that I am going to pay her less this time.

On the other hand, if I pay her 1,500 the first time, and 2,000 the next time, I feel I can pay her 1,500 the third time without having to bring it up. The first time sets the floor, unless you expressly re-set it verbally.

If a girl tries to reset the price on me, for special reasons, or not, I may go along with it once or even twice, but I do not consider the floor to have been reset. If she insists, well, then it has been, and I will have to decide if I like the new deal or not. Up to me.

And I can always politely tell her that I am not interested at a new price point. Then it is up to her.

If you do give in, you might want to make sure that she understands that while you are willing to go along with this price hike, you are not necessarily going to agree to index her fee to the monthly TG inflationary rate, or else you might just find yourself in the Ukraine one day....


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Posted on: 5:08 am on Mar. 8, 2010
bkkz
Actually, it can work either way, you could set the price if you like, and then see how the girl reacts. Say, give her 1K for ST and sometimes, they won't make a fuss, but see if she'll go out with you again the next time.


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Posted on: 5:15 am on Mar. 8, 2010
Quim
I remember several years ago taking a girl LT from Soi 33; she was pretty new (and so was I). She had just had a boob job recently and her English had been polished by her long-time American boyfriend.

I gave her 1,500 in the morning after she had dressed and was getting ready to leave. She seemed perplexed and actually called a friend to discuss the matter. When she got off the phone she told me her friend had confirmed that the going rate for LT was 2,000. I responded that we hadn't talked money the night before, so technically it was "up to me" I felt. But I gave her another 500 baht.

Now she seemed to feel bad about having pressured me to raise my price point, because she lingered on my sofa as I was watching the news. Then she came over and started giving me a BBBJ while I continued to watch the news and drink my coffee. I remember she was wearing a white blouse that I managed to drip some cum on. When she was done, I mean, when I was done, she left.

I see her every now and then in BKK, but I have never taken her again. Despite the fact that she made up for it, that little bit of negotiating in the morning soured me on a second go round.

And BK, you're right, if you set the floor too low, she likely will not go out with you again, rather than try to renegotiate the price. I always try to pay what I feel is the going rate based on where I found her, how many rounds, attitude, etc. If they feel I missed the mark, well, then I probably did, and no need to return.


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Posted on: 5:32 am on Mar. 8, 2010
     

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