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One more point BSS, do not try to get some free mileage, like, she will pose as if she is not a whore, so she may or may not accept the money from you directly. You must pay her the FEES immediately with a request " To buy some small gift....or shopping "........Free f*** turned out to be very expensive eventually in the long run. Every women, all over the world, in this kind of business, knows the price tag of her Pussy.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:46 pm on Jan. 7, 2012
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Valetta
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bss you are in the best position to judge this young lady`s character.You have taken her out at least twice,as well as seeing her on many occasions at your hotel, since when you have regularly communicated with each other by Skype.
In your opening post to this thread you described her as a bright young Thai girl with a University degree,truly excellent English,and hot looks.
She holds a responsible,but not very well paid position,at the hotel you use on your regular business trips to Bangkok.
For several years she was married to (I assume) an Englishman who looked after her very well until his business failed during the recent GFC.It is reasonable to assume(as did Koolbreez in his post of the 5th instant) that her marriage failed because of the stresses associated with the failure of her husband`s business, of which his greatly reduced capacity to support her would only have been one.Again it is reasonable to assume that but for these stresses she would still be living with her husband in Britain.
To assist the family finances she took a menial job at MacDonalds.This to my way of thinking is greatly to her credit.
She has returned to Thailand where she presumably can expect some family support,and where her qualifications have secured a better job than she could have expected to find in Britain.
This history suggests that she enjoyed married life,and that when her divorce is finalised,it would be natural for her to marry again.However,having been married to a foreigner,and now 28,it is highly unlikely that she would be able to find a suitable Thai husband.Her best prospect would be to marry another wealthy foreigner such as you,bss.
Indeed she has made her intentions quite clear.She has said to you "I want to take it slowly...not divorced can be with you but not sleep together...not just f*** before we even know each other..."
With her looks and qualifications she is entitled to think that she must have a real chance of marrying a wealthy(but no doubt considerably older) foreigner.
However,you have no intention of marrying her.You see her merely as a change of pace from your usual Mango ladies and SC gogo girls.
You ask "What kind of game is she playing?" when it is obvious from the facts set out in your opening post that she wants a long term relationship with a real chance of marriage.Do not let your desire to f*** and forget this lady blind you to this reality.
You have had a lot of assistance from most of the other contributers to this thread (who have no real respect for women as individuals with their own legitimate ambitions and needs, and for whom any long term relationship is unthinkable ) in making out that this woman is a whore without any evidence other than a request that you get her a vibrator.All that establishes is that she likes to sexually stimulate herself,as do many women who are not whores.
In answer to your question did she like big dicks her "not a small" has lead the more imaginative of posters( who wont let the facts get in the way of a good story) to fantasise that she has a big dick fetish,and to forecast the instant breakup of any sexual relationship with you unless you deliver a porn star performance.
I would be very surprised if you will be able to f*** this lady without making a whole lot of promises you have no intention of keeping in which event she would be entirely justified in becoming very upset indeed(or "psycho" as the less empathetic contributers to this thread describe it).
If you have any consideration at all for this lady tell her the truth, namely that you find her very attractive,desperately want to f*** her,but do not want any sort of committed relationship,and with this proviso is there any way acceptable to her that you can get what you want.
No doubt everyone would be very interested to hear her reply if you have the decency to put the question.It would settle with certainty the issue of whether she is a whore or "good"girl.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 7:28 am on Jan. 10, 2012
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bakerstreetsherlock
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Valetta
A deeply thoughtful post which I appreciate - perhaps you have a psychology background? I think you outline the issues well: after a couple of further conversations with the HLF, I do believe that she thinks that she is a respectable and decent young woman, and to all extents and purposes that is probably true. However, I think it is also the case that she is a bit of a player, as suggested by a number of the guys who have posted here. Indeed if, as you suggest, she is looking for another wealthy farang husband then she will also be playing the games that women so often do when they want to "catch" their man.
Having said that I also can do without the potential psycho behaviour that would likely come if I f*** her and then walk away. So I plan to make it clear to her that she can have no expectations of me other than that I will treat her decently and generously when we see each other. The rest of the time...
Sherlock
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:59 am on Jan. 10, 2012
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DaffyDuck
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She sounds like good marriage material - of course she is a player, as she is looking for a husband, which requires playing the field. Discretely, as she is Thai.
Very smart analysis of the situation, and the girl, by Valetta. Kudos!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:59 am on Jan. 11, 2012
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Bimlee
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Very thoughtfully written, Valleta. Really good one....
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:24 am on Jan. 11, 2012
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magnum
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... BSS... while speculating on limited 2nd hand information and a lot of assumptions, Valetta's summary seems thoughtful enough, assuming she is a "nice girl".
... also speculating on similarly limited 2nd hand information and assumptions, many here summarize that she is schemeing for your bank account more than your virile, youthful body, full head of thick dark hair and enduring affections... for us who've lived and worked here for a decade+, this is but a matter of probabilities.
... could go either way... suggest that you assay which she is early in your trip, so not to waste valuable time here... and get it right... the consequences for each possibility are quite different, and the cost of failure quite high.
... if she is "good marriage material", as DD describes, I hope you let this one pass.
... to Thai women approaching shelf life expiry (age 30 years), securing security is a very serious business... if she is a "good girl", she will not be dating frivolously, and this is not the place for you to recapture your carefree high school dating years through deception.
... you f*** her up, and she might well be a psychotic she-devil who will ruin a long holiday (uh, she is unlikely to come after you alone... it is a Thai thing)... especially if you've so utterly deceived her that she announces you as "boyfriend" to friends and (God help you) family!
... if she is a gamer, then proceed with everything above board, no deceptive expectations, and all your defences armed and at DEFCON 5... the Thai 'Whorehouse to the World' welcome sign is out, as usual.
... but, don't get it wrong, BSS... don't do that... this is just the sort of serious business that will drive a Thai woman to be a manic psychotic with but one purpose in all her waking hours.
... you've probably read the anecdotes... living here, many of us see firsthand the frightening situations farang shitbirds create for themselves when they obsess over the wrong pussy... not good, BSS... don't go there... the cost of failure is just not worth having your whole holiday shit-canned by someone who becomes just as obsessed with getting at your ass, but in a far different way.
... based on the Thai odds, I give you better than a 50/50 chance you might well find yourself knocking the bottom out of a skilled player, if you play this right... if not, you will not want for excellent alternatives.
... let us know how it turns out.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:09 am on Jan. 11, 2012
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bakerstreetsherlock
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Magnum
I am touched by your concern for my well being and indeed for your compliments on my youthful good looks, kind heart and full head of hair. Two out of three ain't bad!
Just a couple of points to set the record straight. I am actually going on a business trip - a regular one - so I am not too concerned about losing a day or two testing the waters and seeing how things pan out. More interesting though was the last skype exchange late yesterday evening. As you'll see, I tried to do the decent thing...
BSS: It's important that you do not expect too much from me … I cannot promise anything to you.
HLF.: I totally understand that  no worry
BSS: Ok - that's good that you say that. But please tell something. What do YOU want?
HLF.: (highfive)
BSS: Huh?
HLF.: 1 week its not bad better than none
BSS: So you want to see me all the time next week?!!
HLF.: well if u want... if you dont want pls. do say so
BSS: We see how we do on Sunday … relax, enjoy and go with the flow
HLF.: and just relax
BSS: Precisely
HLF.: well, I pack a bit stuff when I go along ok … I mean when I go to see u … I’m a women I do need some underwear bit some bob u know
BSS: Sure - a girl must always have clean underwear (rofl)
HLF.: who know if u good I might stay overnite … everynite haha
BSS: And f*** me to death by the end of the week (worry)
HLF.: (devil) (angel)
HLF.: if u up for it … are u fit?
BSS: I went to the gym today …
Clearly this one is delicately poised between achieving the core objective and getting into some choppy waters. But I ask you - what's the worst that can happen?!!
Sherlock
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:08 am on Jan. 11, 2012
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bingo629
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Quote: from bakerstreetsherlock on 12:08 am on Jan. 12, 2012
But I ask you - what's the worst that can happen?!!
She could rock your world, turn you into a love sick teen, bankrupt you, then chop your nuts off.
But as long as you know that go for it. ) ) )
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:25 am on Jan. 11, 2012
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from bakerstreetsherlock on 12:08 am on Jan. 12, 2012
Clearly this one is delicately poised between achieving the core objective and getting into some choppy waters. But I ask you - what's the worst that can happen?!!
Sounds like she's up for it.. Just treat her nicely and respectfully and you should be fine.
By the way, it needs to be said, but invariably when guys refer to a Thai girl as having gone "psycho" on them, it was caused by the guy, and usually by the usual guy who just treats the girl as a disposable whore, when te girl only wanted to be treated nicely, or expected more.
Doesn't matter if it's a long-time expat or a fun-loving tourist. That kind of attitude comes from any of those demographics.
Don't be that guy. There's plenty jerks like that on the forum (Kenneth, NM, etc... Come to mind).
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:21 pm on Jan. 11, 2012
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dirty guru
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Quote: from magnum on 10:09 pm on Jan. 11, 2012
if she is a gamer, then proceed with everything above board, no deceptive expectations, and all your defences armed and at DEFCON 5... the Thai 'Whorehouse to the World' welcome sign is out, as usual.
Walks like a duck - talks like a duck?
You go figure-
(then have fun)
That quote best sums it up-
Ps decent girls don't ask men they don't even know well to get them a vibrator
(incase reality is blurred)
She wants $$$$$$$$- remember that when she whispers" darling yes harder-'
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:39 pm on Jan. 11, 2012
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