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Well said Old Hand..well most of it anyway (not 100% sure about the first part).
Patience, perseverance & staying power will move you up the list from no. 5 to no. 1 as the men before you drop off to pursue their latest fancy. As long as she has some feelings for you then there is a chance if you are prepared to be patient & tolerant. Games will be played by both parties as they try to establish trust. She will keep as many men hanging as she can reasonably manage because she knows that falangs are fickle. You would be wise to do the same (but do it discreetly if you fear rejection). At the very least do not make this girl the complete focus of your life when in Thailand or at home.
Uncertainty is the name of the game in Thailand from both parties perspective. As humans we are not comfortable with this but the Thais seem to handle it much better than we do.
Good Luck.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:10 am on April 16, 2004
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Smegma
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Quote: from derman53 on 3:09 am on April 16, 2004
Too many cynics on this topic or are you all speaking from personnel experience?
Read my signature below. That is my view on the matter you ask.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:29 am on April 16, 2004
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Quote: from derman53 on 3:09 am on April 16, 2004
Too many cynics on this topic or are you all speaking from personnel experience?
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personal experience!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:36 am on April 16, 2004
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BIG BEEFA
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In one sense you are one of the luckiest guys around, lucky that your are a member of this forum and there a lot of other members out there that have had the same experience that you are having now and are telling you how it is in LOS.
Many guys haven't had anyone warn them of the dangers of falling in love with a BG and end up with very little finances and a broken heart, be very careful and take notice of the advice given thus far.
There are very very rare occasions where a guy does fall in love with a BG and the feelings are returned and they do end up getting married, I've also heard of stories of this happening and the newly weds go back to his home land and because of the BG lifestyle, they are in a habbit of sleeping around and this continues during their marriage.
Good luck
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:27 am on April 16, 2004
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LivinLOS
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I am with old hand on this... I dont know about the vast majority but certainly many many BG's will happily give up the life if you have something equally appealing to offer. I know that my girl gave up the life totally and took huge risks on me and in changing a life she had built for herself after only a short period of time together and we lived happily and monogamously for many years (would still be but she passed on)...
Of course if its a long distance relationship then almost certianly belive everything the guys here are telling you.. The chances of her not working or maintaining multiple part time relationships is very slim, but what do you expect ?? She only knows you a little and has no idea if it really is going to work, should she just drop all those irons in the fire and gamble on you returning and feeling the same ??
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:12 am on April 16, 2004
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Arcadius
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DSB
Agree completely with all of that. Play things long, play things cool, and all things become possible.
Clearing a path through the mutual mistrust (entirely justifiable on both sides) is certainly the biggest obstacle. This will usually take time - lots of it. In most cases, she'll judge you by actions not words - same way you'll judge her.
In the meantime... well, just enjoy her. And maybe a few others as well. Discreetly, as you say. And learn to turn a blind eye. She has her own bets to hedge.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:34 am on April 16, 2004
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