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jack attack
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Phla Laa-
Ever get a new job and get a good bump in salary? After a few months, you have forgotten that you are now taking more home because you have adjusted your lifestyle 'upwards'.
IMO, the same is true with these girls. They made ZERO before the bar scene or MP. Then they start making, lets say, BT 50,000. This money has absolutely no restrictions. They can f*ck whoever they want (off the clock), party etc. and just do what they are told on the clock.
Buy a new phone? Up to them. Send money home? Up to them. Party their brains out? Up to them!
Now a good natured 'sponsor' comes along and it's no more day (or night) job. BUT the money has strings. Can't f*ck or party when, where, how, with whom, like before. At the same time their 'homies' can do the same as before and without the new rules.
So the girl is making the same amount (BT 50K) but now there are strings attached. Is it a good trade off? We think yes, because we rescue them from having to pork every Tom, Dick & Harry ( no offence T, D, & H - I am sure you were great in the sack!). But what if we are wrong? What if the new restrictions are not as good as the old ones? Well if we double the 'salary', they up the lifestyle but the restrictions are the same.
It isn't about the amount of money, it is about the woman. Tu's girl is sharp for understanding the need to consider the future. But not because she is afraid of Tu's beneficent ways changing. She has self motivation and ambition. She has pride and wants to accomplish and achieve a goal. Tu - you are fortunate - we should all be so lucky.
PhaLaa - if your girl doesn't have any of these characteristics, you are dead meat. It is all about spending every penny today and not worrying about tomorrow. That is the mentality of youth. No need to save for the rainy day - I like rain and I'm young so I won't die from Pneumonia!
IMHO, get off this trainwreck and find one like TU has. In fact TU, watch your back!! Just kidding.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:17 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
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Oz
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Well said Jack, I think that about as good a reason not to sponser a Girl as I have heard!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:26 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
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Abrak
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Phlaa Laa,
Is that a pic of your TG you are using as an avatar?
If it is you wont have to worry about her for very much longer....
(1) She will soon find out you are a member of BTF and kick your ass
(2) And you will quickly find who shagged her and who is shagging her now...
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:31 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
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Phla Laa
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Abrak, to your number 2), have you?  Probably that's what I want to find out, too hehe...
Jack - yah, appreciate that point of view too. And I completely agree, that it's up to the girl. As I said, all the calculations are just following one train of thoughts. If the girl continues to think about the "strings attached" to sponsorship then it's useless. If she expects a "raise" over f_cking T, D, H, because of the "strings" then it's flawed and definitely not going to work, as was my conclusion on last post.
And I suspect that "youth mentality" is what she has also on her now. What will happen with these kind of girls? She will just get old, realize it late that the good shelve life has expired, and move on try to get a sponsor or a good hubby then? In which case if she fails she will have to downgrade to less 'profitable' market and also downgrade her lifestyle too. Is it more typical, then, that a girl in her late 20's or 30's will likely to be more reasonable. If that is the case, I probably come at the wrong timing. I should wait until I'm 40 and she's 30 then probably it will make more sense to her.... (but again, probably that time, it won't make sense for me  )
I'm now thinking how to get my keys back from her... : (
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 12:29 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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formen
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Phla Laa,
Your story sounds very similar to mine when I was in the middle of sponsorship. If you're ready for her to hand over the keys, then you are good to go. If you want to continue with the relationship, then there are still ways to see her minus the sponsorship.
The one thing that I learned the most was that these girls will not leave you and breakup like in a traditional western relationship. Once there is a good source of money on the table and a kind guy behind it, they just stay put and dont look for another guy for sponsorship. Thats not to say if you give them alot that they wont look for a thai bf to takecare of or have sex/drug parties with other guys. In her mind, she found a good atm and she doesnt want to give it up.
To get her into a new way thinking, heres what you can do:
1. If you were to stop making contact with her, thats the best thing you can do. She probably wont call you either, but hope that you call her first and lose yourself back into the sponsorship. If your into sales, you learn to let the customer talk first when into negotiations. That makes the customer the loser and buyer at the same time. Same with your case, sO dont call! She will eventually call you when she starts worrying too much.
2. If you find out that she is doing something you dont like, I suggest a penalty clause in the sponsorship contract, and sleep with one of her friends. Guaranteed her friends are lined up to get 60k a month. (My sponsorship was around 200k, and I had about 5 of her friends asking me to be bf after I stopped seeing her.) She has told them all great things about you to make her friends jealuos and they will go with you to cause drama and be the winner. She doesnt want to be the loser, and she will be more attentive to you after you sleep with one of her friends. But even after you do this, dont call her much. She will think you are calling the friend and be consumed with that and nothingelse.
3. Encourage her to go back to work, if she threatens. She will not want to go back, because then she loses face and goes back down the ladder. You then can be in a customer relationship and when shes ready (anytime soon) she'll ask you to take her back and then you can do what Thaiup does. Its good to make her think that you dont care, so she will have to work to get your love back. Make her work for it! Otherwise, she will either be lazy, or if you give too much, just run around and have a party.
Its a chess game with sponsorship. Remember, she wants to maximize her fun and money received from you. Its you that needs to make her work for it, or she'll think you're too easy and have no respect from you. Most importantly, she will not leave you !
Cheers,
formen
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:27 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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Phla Laa
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Formen, what??? 200K sponsorship a month? Yuh... That's 5000 bucks man.... what kind of girl you can get with that kind of money every month given away?
Anyways, I haven't really decided but just realized it may be hard to get keys and carBKey back from her.. Thanks for the suggestions though, will ponder about those.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:35 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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formen
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Phla Laa,
That got me a formen model, former top seller Orbit dancer and actress (sexy movies in the beginning when I was at 200k, but now good girl movies after I implemented my new way of thinking).
Another thing, dont get mad at her for nothing. Im actually liking what Thaiup had as incentives. This focuses on the positives and gets her motivated. Playing hardball took alot out of me, but you would be amazed how much your tg will change if you do. Her friends said that I was the smartest guy in handingly her in the last 5 months. I still think their trying to loosen me up to give more...
You might not have to be as hard on yours as I was on mine. I dont know your tg, but mine was clearly the most stubborn, egotistical, cold hearted girl Ive met. Why the hell was I with her anyway?
Cheers,
formen
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:46 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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jack attack
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Phew... a BT 200,000 chess match. I'm too faint of heart for those kinda stakes. I am also not clever enough to keep up with the details.
200K or 50K don't buy control really and nor should it. The relationship has to be a two way street at some point... sooner rather than later.
A lot of really nice and kind hearted (great looking and great humping) ladie available to choose from.
IMO, Take the hit now and consider a move for the future.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:12 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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Smegma
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You can buy attention-time, but you cannot buy honest-love. Either it is there or it isn't (love). But time from a body to be next to you? Yes, that you can buy.
But she will behave like a grounded child left alone at home, that will switch on the tv when the parents are not home, and the moment they hear the car coming into the garage they will switch it off and pretend to be doing homework. She will kind off do the same when you are not looking. Afterall, P4P TGs are children most of them (in their mental attitude that is).
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:21 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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formen
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Smegma,
A classic Ferrari on the blocks. Ferris Buellar takes it for a spin while the dads away at work. Ironically, he wrecks the car and the dad is faced with reality.
BTW, you seem alittle down. The good doctor would suggest an energizer bunny toy to play with.
Cheers!
RJ
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:56 am on Sep. 8, 2004
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