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One thing in Thailand Fever I disagreed with was the statement it makes about telling your family if your TGF was formerly P4P. As an Amerikan, from a country that has Puritanical roots, I think that's exactly the wrong thing to do. Just because they are farangs doesn't mean being up front about everything is a good idea. If the lady wants to keep it a secret, up to her. I can imagine the conversation over dinner: "yeah, Mom, she shagged a couple hundred drunk, smelly farangs the year before we met, but other than that, she's like every girl you meet!" Gimme a break. Thais are smart enough to let sleeping dogs lie, works the same way from where I'm from.
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:47 pm on July 2, 2005
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dusterman
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^
I have to disagree.
You make your bed, so sleep in it.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:02 pm on July 2, 2005
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NINGNING
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Most people over here have a general opinion about Thai girls (I know its stupid stereotyping but its the way it is).
In addition it shouldn't be to difficult for them to tell what kind of thing she was doing before (not appearance but habitus, manner etc.).
But still no need to gossip it around.
IMHO the best place for your Thai cutie is Thailand.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:51 pm on July 2, 2005
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barrafish
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Balls/B.
I agree totally with you. It is up to the girl and you to tell anyone what she did for a living. Tell them she worked in a department store/sold clothes etc.
As for the comment by Ningning, and just how would people suspect what she did. Do you think she would say to the future husbands father, his brothers or mates, " ST 1000B, LT 2000B, You got condoms, We go short time hotel or yours ".
I have been with many TG's, (FL's, gogo girls, BG's and girls not in the P4P scene) and the P4P girls can quickly adapt to a completely different scenario whey they are with you. You would not think they were in the P4P scene.
Please tell us Ningning what habits/manner you think they have. I know some P4P's are a bit ratty especially when they are on the booze or whatever.
Just curious to see your comments to see if I will change my mind.
Barrafish.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:36 pm on July 2, 2005
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issanking
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i agree with ningning, best place for a tg is thailand,
the whole idea your in los is because you like it there, why take one girl very, very long time to your own country.
gorn gor gorn, past is past, telling your folks your wife who you love cherish and honour, used to be a 10 dollor whore (for want of a better word) not a agood idea.
got the book thailand fever, only read first paragraph, so can't comment.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:04 pm on July 2, 2005
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BigDUSA
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Back in your home country TG has the ability to make more money working in the local P4P business then you make in your day job. Here in Philly good looking BG can pull $500USD per day with no taxes taken out.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:50 pm on July 2, 2005
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NINGNING
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Of course I do not mean them showing tattooes or talking about short time experiences; I am sure they can behave properly and adequately at dinner, shopping etc.
The key lies under the obvious surface:
Habitus means the class-specifically acquired, unconscious however exact adaptation of the arrangements, behavior patterns, perception filters, styles of thinking and attitudes of a person. The entire acting of the individuals is determined by this Habitus: It produces action patterns and evaluations and represents a conversion of the social position of humans to a suitable life-style. It is shown that humans of similar social position fall back to similarly structured action patterns and evaluations.
"habitus, a concept defined by Pierre Bourdieu, is the total ideational (or, better yet, existential) environment of a person. This includes the person's beliefs and dispositions, and prefigures everything that that person may choose to do. A person's habitus cannot be fully known to the person, as it exists largely within the realm of the unconscious and includes things as visceral as body movements and postures, and it also includes the most basic aspects of thought and knowledge about the world..."
That means that there are not specific and clearly defined actions that mark someone as a former prostitute; but from the whole behaviour arrangements and the way someone acts etc. you *might get a clue* what business she was in before.
Sure, she could have only been an uneducated and poor - but honest - peasant girl from Isaan. But then her manners change as well when living the bargirl life.
What is considered to be "mannerly" is highly susceptible to change with social stratum, occasion, and others. The body of behaviors we call "manners" permits conclusions on ones formerly communal living and class affiliation.
Without any doubt there are exceptions to the rule. And certainly many will be able to adapt so pretty well you cannot tell the difference. I do not want to be missunderstood: I do not mean that this concept is 100% safe, obvious and applicable to every but every girl.
But then people are more likely to think "Was she a bargirl?" when confronted with a Thai lady - which goes in line with the general opinion many people have
and thus are more open to have a closer look on her habitus and manners (once again this is not my opinion - I only have to face these opinions day by day: the odds are against you).
When your own background is sort of an academic background then your people will have the ability to scrutinize (because they tend to have a wider range of "measuring sticks") the social origin (habitus, manners etc.) of your new companion.
I am sure that I will never want to get into that situation as I would lose 10 to 1. It will we easier for her and me to set up life in Thailand.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:27 am on July 3, 2005
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Bangkoksexydotcom
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I have not read this book but what you are saying is that Thai girls should support the fam???
That can not be more away from the truth. I think this guy got the wrong kind of girls all along. I never paid for anything thing with my GF we just got a new SUV from her parents and if we ever going out eating I never pay. In a real thai fam its the Father or son that should thake care of the fam not the daughter. Sure some fam that have the karoke, BG in there blood they send out there sisters and daughters as soon as they start develpoing breast. But once more this is not normal for a Thai but maybe for the Thai we farang meet and its very sad. About telling your mum that my GF is a hooker with number 7 on her breats no I do not think so.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:54 am on July 3, 2005
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dirty guru
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Verily I warn thee
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Think
again
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:22 am on July 3, 2005
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LocalYokul
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Quote: from Bangkoksexydotcom on 4:06 pm on July 3, 2005
some fam that have the karoke, BG in there blood they send out there sisters and daughters as soon as they start develpoing breast. But once more this is not normal for a Thai but maybe for the Thai we farang meet and its very sad
yes, these are the families that unfortunately the majority of board members are familiar with
in their families, it's all about money, and the quickest bread winner is the female, if she looks half decent (and sometimes not so decent)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:04 am on July 3, 2005
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