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Quote: from caronte on 5:29 pm on Aug. 23, 2004
Talking about falling in love.....I think I felt "in love" or at least I am in the phase of considering shifting a relationship I've established with my fav BG from BG/client into gf/bf or similar....
Now it comes very useful the painful lesson I got the first time I felt for a TG: I've decided to start "sponsoring" a small amount per month in order to test her reactions and avoid handling my wallet everytime I meet her....when I told her about my ideas, she asked me if I wanted her to leave the scene, but I've decided to let her keep going on.....
She earns over 40k/month and I'm not ready or willing to replace such income, not for the amount, but for the meaning.....say I prefer to put our relationship in a way that I help her facing the monthly installments for the privilege of being the first on the list and ejoy her during daytime, everytime I'm in the mood.....sort of having a good share in a multiproperty!
21 years old cute...we'll see how it ends....
So its a bit like sponsoring a Race Team, you pay your money and for that privilege you get to visit the "pits" anytime you want?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:49 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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caronte
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Bingo OZ!
It's just like that: having the privilege to visit "the pit" anytime you want without having to face all the problems of owning a car!
I think this is one of the best approach to keep when setting a relationship with a TG/BG: there is mutual benefit and it's easy to get out anytime it gets too hot!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:02 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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Oz
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I think i'd probably crash & burn if I tried to drive one of these too fast!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:08 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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Dieter
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It must be wonderful to be in Love in a young Tg,Bg or Lb. I am realist, many men are many years older as this "sweet and lovely creaturs".... but so long we have our pleasure why not...Life must be fun and I am able for every joke.....but realist and have much experiences in my life...
see and hear many stories about falling in love..
Oh yes my story.............comes soon!!
bee...happy
D....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:55 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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jack attack
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S-Snap,
Best wishes.
Now let me throw the wrench into the works... I had a n experience like the one you describe of phone calls at 2 am after the bars close. I learned it was more to check on me than to demonstrate she is being "faithful". Unfortunately it also gave her the confidence of being able to continue to deceive me.
I hope all is on the up-n-up. But if not, take your time still. And do some of the things mentioned. If going to see the family, home etc. is not allowed, you will get a real warning sign. Those mysterious trips to Pataya or BKK are definitely a red flag.
Good luck.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:03 am on Aug. 24, 2004
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caronte,
40k a month? Damn that girl is working it. The best (hot bodys good english, great personality) girls I know working typical Beer bar can only pull a 40 k month a maybe 2 or 3 of times a year. The rest of the time 15 -20 K would be more like it. If she is a really hot go go dance she can do more. The problem with partial sponsership is girls will try to work to maximize the amount of moneyfrom all sources. If you are talking just getting priority seating then just paying her well when you see her will do it.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:37 pm on Aug. 24, 2004
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Jafa
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Quote: from canomad on 11:37 am on Aug. 25, 2004...
If you are talking just getting priority seating then just paying her well when you see her will do it.
That's the way [ah-ha ah-ha] I [like] do it.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:04 am on Aug. 25, 2004
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hayashi
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Advice needed I know most of you do not approve I have been seeing my tgf for 7 months she is a bar girl no suprise there we have just spent a month together she lives in Bkk her home is near Yala.When I am in Bkk I stay with her in her room,she took me to meet her mother and son we spend a week there she now wants me to commit myself to her she tried to get pregnant on this trip wants my baby she wants to buy land build a home and be in my arms forever.I have spent about 60 days with her over the last 7 months only paid her bar fine on the first 2 days of our relationship I know she has customers but a friend of mine who works in the same bar he is English says he has not seen a girl look so much in love with someone for a long time he has lived in Bkk for 5 years.Yes I love her everyone I meet in Bkk tells me she loves me would you take a chance give her the money to buy land build a home cost 600000 baht,a lot of you have had more experience with tgs send me your thoughts.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:12 am on Aug. 30, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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Quote: from hayashi on 8:12 am on Aug. 30, 2004
Advice needed... he has not seen a girl look so much in love with someone for a long time... Yes I love her...
Only one thing to do... move to Thailand and be with her. In 6-12 months, I think you will then know if you want more investment (emotional and financial) in the relationship.
I think if she loves you, it is counter-productive to give money when you are in Farangland. By sending her money, you may be giving her signs that YOU think the relationship is about money, and she will have less respect for you and will start think of the relationship in terms of money.
Just my opinion.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:37 am on Aug. 30, 2004
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Abrak
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Oh well for you romantics out there here are a couple of stories from todays press. The first, taken directly from a bkktonite link... could be called...
MY WIFE'S LOVER IS A POTENTIAL AXE MURDERER...
An elderly landlord had his forearm hacked off yesterday when he went to collect Bt240,000 in overdue rent at a restaurant, police said.
Kiattisak Ananpornchaikul, 65, lost his arm and suffered several facial cuts after he was attacked by the manager of a Bang Pu restaurant, identified as Tam, said Major Nattawat Boongpho of Bang Pu police station.
The landlord went to demand six months in back rent from restaurant owner Sunee Truce, 40, according to initial investigations. Kiattisak blocked the entrance with his truck before entering the restaurant, said the police.
A tussle broke out between Tam and Kiattisak, who pulled out a pistol and shot at Tam twice, but missed, according to the officer. Tam then allegedly grabbed a sickle and attacked Kiattisak, cutting his forearm off below the elbow. He then grabbed the pistol and fled the scene.
Employees at the restaurant told police that Sunee's business was slow, which forced her to fall behind on her rent. They blamed Kiattisak's newly built restaurant just next door for taking away customers.
Police suspect that Sunee had an affair with Tam, who had no record of employment at the restaurant, and that she kept it secret from her 62-year old English husband, Peter Truce. She was charged with covering up information
The second culled from another web site might well be called...
SHE WAS DEAF... BUT I AM DUMB....
Well, today I am one pissed-off farang. Let me tell you why. A few years ago, I took a holiday in Thailand. I fell in with an English family at our stopover in Germany and they said they were heading to a beach resort called Pattaya. They said I would enjoy it and I should tag along.
I soon realised that there was more fun to be had than on a day trip to Southend and, inevitably, I woke up late next day, hung over, with a Thai girl in my bed.
A quick learner, I rushed about the city like a loon for a day or two until I saw a little girl called Nat in a bar. Well, that was it. We spent the holiday together and the next holiday and the next and the next and the next etc. I cannot really remember how many holidays I have been on now but it’s a fair few years.
Not always great times. Nat could be moody and a drunk but, at the end of the day, she was my girl so I did not mind. Oh yes. I should add something significant. She had a long term English boyfriend before me and she is not actually Thai. She is from a neighbouring country. Most significantly, she is disabled. She is deaf.
Yes, you are reading this correctly. I went to Thailand and fell for a deaf foreign bar girl. In due course I asked her to stop working in the bar and she did. I provided her with an income, a comfortable apartment and presents.
A year ago, in August, I received a call from her best friend, Pui. It seems that Nat was shacked up with a farang in the apartment I pay for and was spending my money on him. I was a buffalo, she said, but a good man who did not deserve this.
She said he was always around and just timed his visits for dates I was in England. As proof, she gave me her own Hotmail details and, sure enough, there was an email from a Kevin to Pui. He asked her to change Nat’s password because he was on his way and wanted to make sure I did not find out anything.
I was pretty pissed off and phoned a mate who ran a bar, whose wife knew Nat. He confirmed it was all true and that there was a Thai boyfriend too.
When I stopped the money, it seems Nat went for Kevin with a razor and gave him the boot. Ho hum... I carried on being a buffalo.
In November, when I was there, Nat was not in the best of moods. We went to see her family and son. I kinda like them and her son is a good kid. As a farang, I built (paid for) a well and brought everyone presents.
Back in Pattaya, Nat was charm itself most of the time and became the engaging scamp I loved. However, there was also a darker side coming through. She was drinking and I mean really drinking. One night, she accused me (she can’t speak but we do Charades pretty good) of seeing the wife of my English mate, who she had fallen out with.
Within minutes, she had managed to grab a bottle of whiskey and downed it in one. She was now out of it, growling and wailing till she passed out. Coming to in my room, she decides we are finished, throws her mobile (for texting) down the loo and starts head-butting the marble floor. When this did not knock her out, she decided to take a jump off the balcony.
Great. A four foot one pissed naked ninja-girl trying to nock my head off to get to the balcony. The worst night of my life. Next morning, I felt sorry for her. Poor little deaf girl sold by her nasty family to Thailand. We carried on as usual. I tried to get her ears sorted and some decent papers.
Six months later, I was back. Nat had a black eye and bruises. She had been drinking and had fallen over. Her room had been jemmied and the local girls had beaten her up and robbed her. When we kissed, she coughed up blood. I took her to hospital. They said to leave her here and come back in a week.
She was out in three days but stuff was not right with us. We went to visit her family and son again and that was ok. I knew I had to do something because our relationship was not what I thought it should be. f_ck me… "relationship." I can’t believe I’m actually using that word but actually I do and did.
Pretty much everyone in the UK knows I date a Thai girl, even my mum (Though not what she did when we met. I maintained a fiction that she was a nanny). I even carry a little family photo of me, Nat, her sister and her son in my wallet.
So from April to now? I thought things were looking good. I said go to school. She tried. I said go to massage school. She did. I said leave Pattaya. She said ok, as long as you sort out where and make sure I am safe there.
To today…
When I first went to Pattaya, Nat had a best friend called Fon. Fon is an older woman, married to a German in his 70’s. Nowadays, she spends most of the year in Germany, coming back to Thailand for three months at a time. She loves staying out all night and drinking and singing karaoke. I have often spent time at her house, which Otto built, and, though she can be a pain in the arse trying to drag me to karaoke at all hours, she is ok. She and Nat understand each others signs perfectly and Fon stayed with Nat when she was in hospital.
So, today, Fon calls me and says sorry my girl is no good. She is pissed up all the time and shacked up with some farang (the one from before?) in her apartment. They are having "big boxing" and he hit her many times. Fon suggests I stop all funding until Nat reforms and she (Fon) will call me when my girl is a good girl again.
Déjà vu.
Can’t the cheap bastard afford a hotel?
What the f_ck is going on?
Do I believe Fon? I think the answer is yes. I can’t see why Fon would lie. I have no corroboration this time but, when Pui told me stuff before, she was proved right when my English mate corroborated it.
I have been dumped before but never by a deaf illegal immigrant hooker in Thailand who I support and whose family I support and who I genuinely like and feel for and hoped that one day we might make a life together. Yes, I know that I have no business taking up with such a girl and our life would hardly be conventional. Nevertheless, somehow I allowed myself to dream this.
Most galling of all is that I am crazed by Nat’s stupidity. As of yesterday, her life was good. It had prospects. Today, it looks slightly less rosy. It freaks me out that her future is screwed (literally) without me. She survived before but I wonder if she could do it again and, as she gets older, her prospects as a bar girl diminish, especially given that she is never gonna get whisked off to Farangland and given her nationality.
I could rationalise things better if I was an ugly creep with bad personal hygiene but I’m not. I’m not saying that I am Leonardo Di Caprio but I’m not a dog either. Her friends seem to like me enough to try to protect me from the worst of my stupidity.
Most people will say I have been a total and utter twat. My protestations that my girl was different have, it seemed, been proved false. My dream of a little house in the Shan hills laughable. Yet it did seem possible. It really did.
Where we go from here, I do not know. I know what I must do but am loath to do it. I might be a hard nosed bastard professionally but when the girly starts wailing or worse I can’t hack it.
Cant live with them.... cant live without them...
P.S. The comment that went with that last story I kinda liked... It was....
'Bar girls are strictly for recreational use only...'
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Posted on: 8:49 am on Aug. 30, 2004
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