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Quote: from chilli on 2:43 am on May 15, 2005
surely stick is not alone in finding his gf / wife on internet these days 
even people within same country or city does this a lot now. why? coz its so much more efficient than running around in the real world looking for her!
While I would agree with your post, I would add this: I think there is a vast distinction between the intent of parties that use the Internet to meet others within their own country [and to a lesser extent race] vs. parties trolling globally for bait. A vast distinction.
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Posted on: 1:58 am on May 15, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Skip says:-
While I would agree with your post, I would add this: I think there is a vast distinction between the intent of parties that use the Internet to meet others within their own country [and to a lesser extent race] vs. parties trolling globally for bait. A vast distinction
I agree. When my marriage finished, I went on UK internet dating sites for a year whilst my divorce was going through. It hadn't even ocurred to me to look at girls in LOS until after I'd gone to Phuket the week after my clean break settlement had been concluded. Once I'd sampled the TGs, even though they were naturally the P4P variety, I knew that my next wife would be Thai.
The difference between the internet dating scene with UK farang girls and the TGs on the net, is stark. In the UK scene, I always had to make first contact with the girl. With TGs, they often made contact with me. With Farang girls, my optimum reasonable expectation would have been a girl with a minimum age of about 40, probably more likely 45 (I'm 55). In LOS, I could easily find a girl in her 20's if I wished. The number of single girls in their 30's without children or other baggage in LOS is much greater than on the net in UK.
Apart from the internet dating scene, how else would I find a girl in LOS as a prospective G/F, partner or wife? I could go there for 3 weeks holiday, bump into some lovely girl who is a bank clerk, hotel receptionist, tour company clerk, etc. They would mostly be respectable non P4P girls that I might come into contact with in the course of my holiday. Hard to meet the teachers, clerks, secretaries and other office workers, unless it's in a bar or cafe environment and then difficult to single out those who do not FL there.
On the dating site, although there are some that might have been involved in the P4P scene, the vast majority are just girls who wish to meet Farangs in the same way that Farangs there wish to meet decent Thai girls. The only real fly in the ointment comes when either the guy or the girl, or both, are writing to several others too. I have found that the best solution is to be totally honest with each other and that has paid dividends for me. I knew of my Fiancee's other contacts and she knew of mine. We were always open about it and we therefore had a basis of trust in our growing relationship that was a firm foundation.
If somebody is serious about meeting a girl for a long term relationship, then the dating scene is definitely a good way to go about it. If the guys are only there to try and find a short term sexual liaison, then that is a pity, as people's emotions are involved. Lots of the girls on the dating site mention that they have been lied to in the past by guys.
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Posted on: 5:05 am on May 15, 2005
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chilli
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sure you get vastly diferent results when you look east vs. looking in your own city or country for potential partner etc.
as mentioned the age range available & the fact TG actually contact you vs. us having to make the contact in our own countries is proof to that.
there'll often be the odd russian who wants to contact also though
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Posted on: 1:38 pm on May 15, 2005
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Chilli
Yes, there are masses of dating agencies for Russian girls to meet Western guys. But look up Russian dating scams in the search engine and you will see that there are nearly as many sites covering those too!
I tried the same test with looking for Thai dating scams and came up with zilch. Interesting, eh?
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Posted on: 2:19 am on May 16, 2005
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chilli
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oh really?
however I'm not in the marked for using any agencies of any kind to help me looking for dates.
as I said just by logging into icq the dates will come to you
oh and yes sorting the scammers from the genuine is rather easy with experience!
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Posted on: 6:42 am on May 16, 2005
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Quote: from chilli on 6:36 pm on May 16, 2005
oh and yes sorting the scammers from the genuine is rather easy with experience!
Not in this cut and paste age. We're trading in illusions on_both_sides of this game we play. Hell, I just dispensed with last nights Pilipina go-go girl here who I'm certain was being coached via SMS messaging. It was try this tact, okay then this tact. Oh damn! He knows too much so try this tact. "Oh, can you just wait a minute, sir?" LOL
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Posted on: 7:13 am on May 16, 2005
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Quote: from Khundavid on 11:29 am on May 8, 2005
Quote: from Hugh Jardon on 12:01 am on April 4, 2005
ThaiLoveLinks does have sites for both Thailand and the Phippines. Good hunting. Eminently possible to find a girl in that age range
SWEETSINGLES.COM
LEGIT. SITE u pay for intro, it's by don muarang a p...
goog luck
For real FR about dating with Sweet Singles - Read "Travels With Frank - Confessions" FR section. read the postings from Hermanolobo and Frank separately and they both make sense.
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Posted on: 3:52 am on May 17, 2005
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This thread is a great read. I think one perspective is for those of us who do NOT live in LOS, if you want a GF rather than P4P only, who to get maximum out of your holiday in LOS.
So we try to prepare in advance, Internet is one, Intro Agency is similar version. I have chatted on BKKchat for fun and exchanged pics with maybe 5 - ladies. They seem prepared to meet up when you go there, all in their 30ties. However I was allready down the road with an agency so I pursued there.
I think, with the Agencies, they do the screening for you, and they check things like the education the girls claim to have, the job etc.
This way, if you have a list of criterias fro what girl you're looking for, you can review wit against the girls Web pages.
Over internet chat, you have to figure out and maybe verify when you go to meet the girl.
But as a past time to while away the winter evening whilst wating for the next trip to LOS? - great past time
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Posted on: 4:01 am on May 17, 2005
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I just wanted to add my comments. I met a girl on the internet but not a chat line. I bought her address, etc. She and I emailed each other, exchanged pictures, etc. for 15 months. I found her to be excellent in English, intelligent, college grad, quite humourous and just the cutest thing you ever saw. She went to her girlfriend who is a professional photographer and had some very professional non-erotic pictures made for me. I was hooked. She agreed to meet me in Koh Samui. She met me at the airport with her mother, sister and daughter. Her daughter is also the cutest little girl you ever saw AND speaks English (learned in a Catholic school). We have been together twice - she has never asked for money. The first time we were together with did the horizontal mambo and it was fantastic. And it was quite a GFE. We have seen each other only twice and she is the most desirable sexy TG I have ever met. Good things can happen on the internet. And she is 29, I am 48.
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Posted on: 3:53 pm on May 29, 2005
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"Good things can happen on the internet" wrote Dhahran..
right on..
about four years ago, I was getting very tired of the P4P scene in Bkk..
I have a good life and spend about 4-5 months a year in Bkk.. I am semi retired and only work because I enjoy what I do..
I also have the problem of finding a gal of reasonable age and appearance here in the SF Bay ARea.. even tho we have many Asians, it is not easy to find one that is available... the last one I met (about ten years ago) was thru the Chinese paper as my last g/f wrote an ad for me and helped me place it.. worked well, but the relationship ended and I had been about two years kind of just saving myself for my trips to Bkk..
anyway, signed up for AFF.. three months.. cheap.. sent out about 60 messages to gals that looked like I would be interested.. appearance, college education, reasonable height/weight, etc..
Got about 20-30 serious responses.. met 10-12 of them and now as of about mid June we will be starting year five together...
She has come to the USA to visit three times and will continue to do this.. goal is two trips a year.. and I will continue to spend my 4-5 months in Bkk...
Years before, I did the same type of thing by "snail mail".. it was so much more difficult.. first you had to buy the catalog and then write the letters.. fortunately, I could use Word, but still you had to modify each one and then print, etc.. address.. mail.... WAIT for a long time.. then get back maybe one reply for every 10 you sent out as the girls can't afford to pay the postage and can't write very well, etc... I did meet several gals this way, but damn it was work.. and the one that I was very interested in found another (I think, never really did find out what happened to her)..
Is the internet better.. many times better.. if you are serious about having a g/f (not just a cheap f***) then it is the way to go.. you will never meet "good girls" in bars, on the street, etc.. maybe if you are very lucky you might meet one, but odds are very, very slim..
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Posted on: 4:50 pm on May 29, 2005
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