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Wanderingsam
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PB,
When you say someone has proven themselves an idiot I respect our opinion. Postkat must be an idiot 'cause your the man!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:47 pm on July 11, 2006
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penbelly
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Atl, No you are correct. It is my opinion that ALL women (Thai or farang) have some type of sixth sense when it comes to men. It goes something like this: If you are single and are looking for sex and/or relationship they can sense it and you are ignored accordingly or at the very least they make it extremely difficult to hook up with them. However If you have a girlfriend/wife or even if you just seem like a happy,contented guy all of the sudden every chick is paying attention.
Several years ago I began noticing I was getting an enormous amount of attention from farang women at airports,etc when I was enroute to LOS  There is no way they could have known where I was going as I wasn't skipping around the terminal or anything but maybe I had a contented smirk on my face or something. I dunno. But,I have been awful rude a few times to farang women on planes enroute to LOS and also while in LOS. I wish they would buzz off. Sorry about the digression but I needed to vent.
REAL DEAL
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 5:53 pm on July 11, 2006
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Minder
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atl...
Yep..LOL...I know that feeling.
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=12&topic=1202&start=0
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Started by: Minder July 25, 2004 - 2:22am July 26, 004 - 9:36pm
It still happens, I don't think the Asian women want anything from me, they just sense or see the mostly unconscious friendly vibes in me as they approach and they respond to that. Enjoy.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:03 pm on July 11, 2006
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seajohn
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I would think that when you marry someone with such a radically different education and background and view-of-themselves in regards to their place in society, then of course there will be communication problems and widely disparate interests.
That being said, some people choose this option over the other option of remaining with their own kind and marrying a Western girl where you might have similar backgrounds and education and interests--but still have communication problems!
These problems have been covered before in other threads and simply haves to do with the stage of capitalism at this point in history. Western women are encouraged to demonstrate the qualities traditionally held as masculine. Results: a) an even more productive industry. b) competition between the sexes.
Reason "b" is why some fellows would rather have a more traditional, albeit foreign and probably relatively ignorant, wife from Asia. It can be rewarding in ways (not only sexual, which is very important to our psyche--don't let them tell you it's not! 555) which Western women no longer feel inclined to express. I sincerely wish them well and hope it turns out alright eventually.
Of course the bars are where lower class women make themselves available, so that's what the foreigner usually, not always, gets. Her poor manners or education may be veiled for the newbie behind her exoticism. Or she may display another kind of manners which are engaging. Whatever her background the would-be suitor should have a very good and realistic idea of what he wants from himself and a woman and a relationship with her before he leaps into such unknown territory and potentially wastes so much time and money and energy. He may have to adapt quite a bit. She may have to learn to adapt too, if she is capable. I suggest to anyone a long look in the mirror before stepping off on that enterprise.
Just my two cents.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 11:13 pm on July 11, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from quack quack on 11:42 am on July 12, 2006
Maybe, but try discussing Mozart, and / or Fellini with a TG in Thai.
Wow, it's amazing how some folks seem to believe that TGs are incapable of discussing anything more complex than som-tam or shagging... I feel that such opinions reflect less the issue with TGs, and represent more a communication problem of the people stating that.
Quote: from seajohn on 12:14 pm on July 12, 2006
I suggest to anyone a long look in the mirror before stepping off on that enterprise.
I think that's the smartest advice in this thread.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:47 pm on July 11, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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Quote: from quack quack on 12:02 pm on July 12, 2006
In an interview Nastase said that that he'd rather win
Wimbledon than have the approx 2,500 women that he slept with.
What you can have easily, is no longer a challenge. Men seek challenges.
Hence, those for whom sex is the #1 priority in life, illustrate pretty much how little else they appear to have going for themselves, methinks.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:49 pm on July 11, 2006
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LiamOZ
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Daffy,
I agree, once you get to know some of these girls over a long time, you realise that they do in fact have an appreciation of the abstract, as well as a their pragmatic approach to life in LOS
Often, shyness and language problems, and lack of formal education hide a fine intellect. Many are not the mindless mingers that some mongers portray.
I often visit LOS with friends, but disappear into a different world with my regular TBG and one or two of her friends, going to Thai venues and generally having a big time.
During this time I do not suffer from the lack of intelligent exchange, and come back better for it.
Back to one of the themes of this thread:
1. Ever since I have been coming to LOS I have had a flagrant disregard for most farang women. However, there has been a major increase in farang women flirting with me and presenting opportunities...go figure?
Do they want what appears aloof to them? Do they sense that I know what satisfies me....and they would need to rise to the occasion?
2. I really started to appreciate Asian women since coming to LOS. I think I appreciate Asian beauty and manners now, whereas I used to think 'they all look the same' and applied farang concept of manners. These days I believe I pay attention to Asian features, and I think more respectful of their backgrounds. I think as a result get much more favourable feedback from Asian girls in farangland......I like!
FWIW guys,
Liam
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:13 am on July 12, 2006
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Wagie
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SJ,
(I think) I understand what you mean or maybe want to say, but you sound dangerously like my father the day I told him I intended to marry my Asian sweetheart (non Thai)...
There are so many dimensions to a marriage or steady partnership, culture is only one of them. What my father saw as a "disadvantage" (cultural differences) is probably what's been the most fascinating to me... while I've certainly never had to deal with apparently thorny issue of whether men should pee standing or sitting so that the lady-of-the-house doesn't always have to lower the f...g toilet seat. (I chid you not, I've directly witnessed this specific argument of two of my friends with their beloved!!!)
Social-class and religious upbringing, social do's-dont's and taboos, colour and perfume preferences, hygiene, love/hate of Barry Manilow, love/hate of oral sex, dressing habits, snoring-or-not, (in) ability to compromise, inability to stand the smell of Ajax, whatever you can think of! There are just so many things/elements that make or break a relationship!
IMHO, if one spends more time considering cultural differences as potential source of future problems than ANY/ALL of the other factors, then that person undeservedly makes "it" a problem. I think THAT's what has to be found in the mirror.
Come on guys! No need to make this more complicated. You either love, or don't. You're either turned on, or not. You either like the idea of waking up with her bruised morning grin or not. Whether she's Thai, Italian, a sheep... or even American (God protect me!), just go for it! And I'll see you all at the pub tonight!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:15 am on July 12, 2006
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seajohn
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Good points, Wagie. A big problem could be invented by too much worry 555... A relationship is a complex enough already subject which no one should be unprepared for--but of course commitment is there or not, as you point out. Though commitment isn't a magic spell, it's something that needs be reflected upon and nourished with concern and care and perspective (wide perspective, not always just focused on culture, but on the real people involved).
Anyway, hope I didn't sound too "dangerously" like your father ! Yipes 555
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:40 am on July 12, 2006
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Mel Gibson
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A quick "survey" of work mates several years after my first divorce REVEALED,,, 95% of males married to Asians smiled,, 95% of men married to NON Asians did NOT smile.
I took the hint.
SMILES 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:48 am on July 12, 2006
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