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Phla Laa
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I'm such a loser.... I'm totally heartbroken now and can't even shag other BG properly (is there a "proper" way anyway?) now that she goes back to work.
Was here the whole week now and only get to see her one day that last without a quarrel. Time to move on. But damn, didn't I wish she take the good choice.......
Crap crap crap....
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:37 pm on Sep. 29, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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I guess 60K THB/month wasn't "reasonable" then, chai mai?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:57 pm on Sep. 29, 2004
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Phla Laa,
Stop thinkin' and start drinkin'!!! You should be celbrating your independence day. The train wreck occurred and you walked away with you wallet and your balls intact.
Loser - NO WAY! Winner of the BG lottery!!! You bet.
Buy that bottle of tequila and start down the road to the next GFE - this time with a better one. The tequila will enable you to shag others 'properly'... if not, at least it makes them horny as hell.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:52 am on Sep. 30, 2004
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Phla Laa
I just want to agree with what others have said. I went through something similar to you so I know how you feel. It's not easy to move on I know but you must and will. It's her loss. Think what she has missed out on. The only person who matters is YOU.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 3:05 am on Sep. 30, 2004
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Smegma
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Quote: from Phla Laa on 10:52 am on Sep. 30, 2004
.... now that she goes back to work.
Lets not cry over spilled milk. Move on. Get another girl. And be a good sport and reminds us where is it that she works. 
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:17 am on Sep. 30, 2004
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Phla Laa
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Thanks for the words of encouragement, well needed and well appreciated...
I couldn't go through with formen model (sleep with a friend) and decided to discuss it in "mature" way (big mistake)....
A week after a long discussion about getting her to school again, supporting her through, the dad called and wanted satang... damn that man. I even get the phone from her and rebuked the dad until he hung up. She cried and told me she needs to go to work. I said she had choices, and she doesn't have to go to work for what the dad ask (big mistake again.... family against me? The winner is always family, right?). When things turned to worse, I said ok, for this time, I will support it (It's song sen!!!). She said, still crying, that I shouldn't, because it will get her to feel that she's using me for money. If she goes back to work, she said, she would not ask me for any money anymore for dad. But she would still love me and stay with me and take care of our place and myself, she will work only when large amount of money needs to be sent to daddy. It's better, she said, because I won't see her as milking me for money and I will know that she loves me without asking for money. f_cking sh_t, I thought. Infuriated, I told her to go away if she wants to work.... She went away, saying that she should consider the dad's need eventhough she's jeb jai and she knows that I am, too. That night, she called me and told me she went with customer...
So she went, but I got to sleep for only an hour, imagining her with the punter (might be one of you huh??) that night. Totally crushed. Tried to pick up gals but as I said before, didn't work.
Time will heal. But I think I'm still in love and in a very dangerous way, part of my mind try to convince myself to accept her back..... Lambaak jai isn't it??
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:23 am on Sep. 30, 2004
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Quote: from ThaidUp on 5:17 pm on Sep. 7, 2004
Actually, my current TGF was very unique in that she was dying to get out of the business. Univeristy 6 days a week up at 6:00 AM school 8>9 then off at 5:00 PM then homework. Now how do you fit work in a bar, drinking, and getting customers in that schedule, not easily.
A good post. The description I read about Thai Bar girls / Soapie girls etc. are really stereotypes. There is a extreme variety here that we often forget.
One girl I dated on my last Bangkok visit (my first) claimed she attended an English course from 10-14 every day (excluding Saturday and Sunday; she had these slurring S'es I loved so much, so I asked her often: Do you go to school every day?).
I doubted it at bit at first as I suspected it being an excuse to get back to her Thai boyfriend or something. I found out later she told me the truth. I suspect this girl wants even more of this - but these 4 hours a day is all she can afford to spend on education. And that is of course a sad thing.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:00 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
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Smegma
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Quote: from Phla Laa on 11:38 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
She said, still crying, that I shouldn't, because it will get her to feel that she's using me for money. If she goes back to work, she said, she would not ask me for any money anymore for dad. But she would still love me and stay with me and take care of our place and myself, she will work only when large amount of money needs to be sent to daddy. It's better, she said, because I won't see her as milking me for money and I will know that she loves me without asking for money.
She is good! This girl has potential. She should get a job in sales!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:06 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Quote: from Smegma on 12:21 am on Oct. 1, 2004
She should get a job in sales!
She's already got one.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:08 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
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