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Hugh Jardon
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NYMICK
......so I would think you could replace the word respect with politeness, courtesy and kindness and you'll wind up having a good time with the BG of your choice.
The nouns you used above, collectively define one meaning of the word "respect."
What you go on to say about your attitude towards an individual with knowledge of their background or history, defines the other meaning of the word.
I certainly agree with what you say about your respectful (first definition) treatment of the BG resulting in a good time with her. There are some however who consider that it complicates the transaction and subjects them to an unnecessary ordeal, but what do they know? Beware of ever giving any anecdotal evidence of this better treatment resulting in a GFE though, as some would misconstrue this as vanity on your part.
Blattsucker:-
If you wish to make use of quotes in your replies, this is done by IkonCode. Read it up here:-
http://www.23-skidoo.com/cgi-bin/ikonboard/misc.cgi?action=ikoncode
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:08 am on June 4, 2005
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Repeat Offender
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Hugh Jardon,
You wrote-
And nearly all women trade money for sex one way or another, not just Bargirls. It's just that some are called prostitutes and others are called wives and girlfriends.
As you appear have taken on the mantle of this thread's fustian lexicographer, I again ask you to clarify the meaning of the above quote, by quantifiying "nearly all" and defining "one way or another", otherwise members may come to the conclusion that you regard most women, wives and girlfriends as prostitutes.
RO
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 4:16 am on June 4, 2005
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Hugh Jardon
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Repeat Offender
Let people interpret it as they wish. I couldn't care a damn what people think, especially you.
Let's get some perspective on this, please. This is a pussy forum and nearly everything written here is an opinion. This thread is about respect and perhaps it would be a good start to respect the right of others to express their opinions here, even if one does not agree with them.
It obviously never occurred to you that I might have been trying to be deliberately controversial in some of these viewpoints to stimulate debate?
I realise that you might also be deliberately trying to bait me into responding, so that you can parade your own verbosity and pomposity, to demonstrate your prowess as a wordsmith. Unfortunately, this particular fish isn't rising to the bait. Sorry. 
P.S.
I'm glad that you took note of my assistance to Blattsucker on how to correctly present quotes. As you know, typing it as [quote/] doesn't work, does it?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:39 am on June 4, 2005
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NYMICK
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To Blatt
Of course it's not personal and I hope the other pluralists feel the same.  I was mainly reponding to the original post with all those respect quotes in it. It was only a matter of semantics for me and I wanted to throw my 2 cents in. Here's to you and the neverending saga. 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 8:49 am on June 4, 2005
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DaffyDuck
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RESPECT
Quote: from Hugh Jardon on 5:51 pm on June 4, 2005
I realise that you might also be deliberately trying to bait me into responding, so that you can parade your own verbosity and pomposity, to demonstrate your prowess as a wordsmith.
I have noticed that his use of 'big words' has increased after his lack of literacy was brought up -- of course his attempt at a countering demonstration would work so much better if weren't so damn contrived to start with (hint: natural wordflow works better, than contrivedly inserting big words - though your ability to use a dictionary and thesaurus is noted).
Unfortunately, this particular fish isn't rising to the bait. Sorry.
Sorry to point out the obvious, but your very response is a demonstration to the contrary.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:56 am on June 4, 2005
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Repeat Offender
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Mr HJ,
If I say of Mexicans, that they are lazy, I am likely to receive criticism from the PC community. On the other hand, if I say Mexicans are very friendly, I am unlikely to be contradicted, yet both are generalisations derived from the same anecdotal source i.e., me.
During several motorcycle trips, I have traveled frequently and extensively in the more remote areas of Mexico and Latin America, and have been shown all the hospitality that one could ever hope for, being taken into strangers' houses, invited to parties, weddings and such. In a very short time, one can gain a whole bunch of new, best friends.
So what is going on here ? Am I to assume that I am such a swell guy that the locals fall over themselves to entertain me?
Of course not. Being visibly hospitable is a Mexican custom.
Where this fits in with respect, is that I should realise that Mexicans value friendship just as much as any other society. Friendship is valuable resource that has a cost attached, and as such must be "earned", but not in a glib way, or simply to satisfy the ostensibly high-minded demands of another. Perhaps a better description than earned, would be that both parties must mutually agree to respect each other. Friendship only manifests itself after a period of testing and affirmation, otherwise both parties may lose. Isn't that how you gained your friends?
The defense of politeness is inadequate, as like the Mexican's overt hospitality, manners are social conventions that change according to circumstances. Most of those who post on this forum and travel to BKK, are affluent enough to be part of the general middle-class, and are therefore likely to be educated and have good manners. In other words, being polite and considerate is a common denominator, and nothing exceptional.
I do not know where you got the idea that I was advocating violence or abuse. It would have been polite of you to acknowledge that I did not. I am not into S&M, but if I were, who would you be to condemn me? Getting your jollies from GFE is no more laudable than any other reason. I would have to ask the BG whether she minded or not. Whether she was willing to tolerate it, in exchange for money.
Where vanity comes into play, is not recognising that you may well be fooled. Your bottom line suggests that you have made but 4 trips to LOS. Many, more experienced members, advise leaving the Thai illusion at the airport gate, but I would counsel not getting involved at all. Treat it for what it is, the unabashed trading of sex for money. No justification is necessary, especially if it is impossible to confirm.
I asked you why you expect of a BG what you cannot get from a Western prostitute. I think you know what I was asking, but your reply that they are the "creme de la creme" of whores, will still suffice. Western prostitutes are affluent enough to do what they like, and need not satisfy all of their clients' demands. BG's cannot afford this luxury.
BG's are experts. They have a vast, common pool of knowledge into Farang ways, and how to get what they want, and in private, decribe us a "neurotic". Do you think that after 4 visits, you are going to learn enough to counter this ? That's hubris.
Try this game. Put on your actor's hat, go up to a BG and be sympathetic, or as you put it, "do a Gladstone". Note the response. With another, be a "good time Charlie" and again, note the reponse. You will get what you want, in either case. I know, I've tried it.
This came about, because during my first visit, I saw a gaggle of young girls hanging and laughing at every utterance of a man who hade clearly seen better days. There was something wrong with that picture. That's not normal human behaviour. The answer is that they are dedicated and consummate actresses, and it is easy to prove the point.
Forget trying to justify whoring. It is a business, and I have no problem with that. No amount of analysis or semantics is going to soften it. The idea of using a BG as a prostitute, and then claiming any real respect is quite impossible. I refer you to Leek Steeb's post for a detailed analysis.
RO
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:33 am on June 4, 2005
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Repeat Offender
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I have noticed that his use of 'big words' has increased after his lack of literacy was brought up -- of course his attempt at a countering demonstration would work so much better if weren't so damn contrived to start with (hint: natural wordflow works better, than contrivedly inserting big words - though your ability to use a dictionary and thesaurus is noted).
Mr Duck,
Picking over the writings of others, inflating peccadillos, and quickly jumping to unsupported but self-satisfying conclusions, are the hallmarks of your purported profession. The most undisciplined of the disciplines.
I haven't used the expression "big words" since I was a child. Fustian is a nice word, rather onomatopoeic, and related to my description of HJ as "Victorian".
Your analysis is flawed.
As is generally the case, you choose to comment on the replies of others. Rarely, if ever, do you contribute an interesting or original idea.
I don't often have the time to edit my posts to my own satisfaction, let alone yours.
You are small, Mr Duck.
RO
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:34 pm on June 4, 2005
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Repeat Offender
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Ooops.... Loung Steeb.
RO
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:42 pm on June 4, 2005
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manowar
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You know, of the 3 parties pitting against each other here, I R.E.S.P.E.C.T. RO'S opinion/insight the most. Why ? He does not pretend to know everything and all things about TBG, Asians, Asian cultures, mindsets.........etc. He accepts them for what they are, some in harmony, many in stark contrast with Western cultures, religions, values...........etc. He takes this "game" with the BG as what it is, a game of hide and seek, look and find, real and illusion..........whatever. This "game" is really not too much different everywhere else in the world between males and females, whether you call it prostitution, marriage, girlfriend/boyfriend, customer/hookers......there are many variables to the same "game" that are being played out millions of times everyday on this planet. TBG is not mystical, is not alien, is not beyond reproach, is no saint, and is not very good actress. They just play on a different "stage" (LOS) with a different langugae, costume, cultural, religious bend to this one big universal play......which we shall curdely call " pussy hunting". Act I, anyone ?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:48 pm on June 4, 2005
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BigDUSA
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Pussy hunting, Act I, Scene I
When I'm in country, I run the same game I've run all over the world in pursuit of pussy. Few years ago, I'm up country standing in a small vil it's 1PM and looking to get laid. I start to laugh, I've spent a good portion of my adult life in the pursuit of pussy.
BG run their game on me and in turn I run mine on them. It works well for both of us. I have a good time and get laid for less and she gets to send money home.
Letters from Roman Legionaries from 300AD stationed in England talked about the local P4P BG and what good actresses they were. Not much has changed since then.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:17 pm on June 4, 2005
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