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Phla Laa
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Help! She called and my heart is beating really fast now.... Damn Sweet mouth : (
Anybody can help me to get a good rebound?? Think that's the only way to get out fast from this..
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:46 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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Damn, dude... get your ass over to CM2 or the Hard Rock Cafe tonite, drink 2 Long Island Iced Teas and hook up with a fine freelancer. Stay with her for a couple of days and you'll have forgotten all about that other b_tch.
Oh, and get a new sim card.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:54 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
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CheshireCat
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Fella.......one thing about BKK is that there are honeys wherever you go. I'm sure after 10 minutes of some babe sat in your lap you'll forget the problems of the previous one.
Not the worst place to be a single fella 
Harry.is the Hard Rock decent for ladeez then? Never been there. Been to the Pattaya one a few times, stayed at the hotel.
CM2???? Enlighten me, am I missing the obvious?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:58 pm on Sep. 30, 2004
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jack attack
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Playing the street corner psychologist with this.... Phla Laa, IMO, you are not asking for help in how to get away from this girl. You are really asking about help in how to get back with her and keep her from P4P.
With what little provided in this thread and many guys having both good and bad experiences, you need to really listen to what is being said here and what is being said from her. She is back in P4P and going with other men. She is trying hard to give you that message. She wants to let you down easy because you have been nice but she wants a big paycheck. Daddy is the easy excuse. She is not pitting you against the family.
So do you want to be the ATM? If so, go for it and do not complain because that is what you are agreeing to.
If you do not want ATM status, change your phone number and don't see or talk to her ever again. Only time will mend you now. If you are a religious person, go and pray. If not, try meditation... it can ease anxiety and anxiousness. You don't need to jump any other girls for the time being but once you are over this one, I promise you will kick yourself for not doing so.
Happy Trails.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:11 am on Oct. 1, 2004
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cowboy
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I know may guys that have sponsered a girl. Something like 50/60 % work out okay. Girl use mony to sit around and watch soap operas (thai). the rest of the cases either girl doesn't stop working, or quits bar but still sees select customers. (i know of a couple of married bar girls that do that).
I don't know that the amount of sponsership affects girls loyalty. I have seen girls getting 8000 baht a month that were true and girls getting 50,000 baht a month that were still f_cking around. I and my friends stick to the theory that 15,000 baht a month is more than enough. That gives them 5/6 k to send home to take care of kids, and 10 k to live on.
But you pays your money and you takes your chances. I knew a mia noi that was taken care of for 5 years. He bought her a condo and gave her 50k a month. She still f_cked around on him. Finally she dumped his ass. Go figure. Guess she had saved enough money from the 50k a month.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:09 pm on Oct. 1, 2004
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HarryParatestes
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The problem is, unless you're there you never know what she may be doing. Either you trust her or you don't. Does what you don't know hurt you?
Let's say you call her at midnite and everything's cool, she's chillin at her crib watching movies on TV. Who knows what she does the minute you hang up? Maybe she heads straight for Nana disco or CM2 for some quick freelancing action.
My feeling is that it all comes down to the girl you've picked to sponsor. If she's poo ying jai dee, it might work. If she's poo ying mai dee, it doesn't matter how much money you throw at her -- you'll never get her to be a "good girl".
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:22 pm on Oct. 1, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Hermy So Bitter "It's a house built on sand"
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I call it a beach house and enjoy the rays
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:40 pm on Oct. 1, 2004
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French Goat
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My wife, whom I met near the beach of Pattaya, had then 4 sponsors simultaneously (including a very generous Japanese, an American, a German and an English citizen) who sent her some money regularly and I think that the total amount easily exceeded 100K baht a month.
She gave approximately 50 % of her earnings to her family (she built a house for her grandmother, paid an used pickup for her father, bought cows, TV and stereo equipments for her brothers, etc.).
She used to spend the rest of that money mostly with her friends (disco) and in the shops (clothes, shoes, CD, VCD karaoke...). Hopefully, she doesn't smoke, drink alcohol nor drug. She did not keep much for her. When she wanted to buy a new television (for example), she gave the former one to one of her friends!
Generally, the sponsoring money is not used for covering essential needs. Remember that with 1000 bahts you can buy 100 kg of lao rice. Thus, it doesn't much matter the amount of the sponsoring, it will not prevent the girl from meeting another "handsome man" (thai or farang), not because she lacks money, but simply because she wants to have some fun or is really horny.
I have f_cked more than a girl who already had an official sponsor. Generally, they do not want that their friends know, thus, they ask for a great discretion. So, money does not buy fidelity.
If you are really in love, you have to change your life and try to change hers. You have to be present (physically close to her) everyday and for a very long period of time to be certain about her feelings, her real motivation, and to start to learn who she really is (don't forget that most of those girls can be pretty good actresses!!!). Instead of sponsoring her, perhaps you can at least invite her in your country for two or three months and see what happens. Then, you can also spend some time (one or two weeks) without her in Thailand (Pattaya or Bangkok for example) after that period of time and see if you won't miss something if things get serious.
If you really do believe that she is a nice girl, then help her to leave her current environment and to obtain a better education. You can even marry her, but be careful: as soon as she is your wife, she won't be the same comprehensive and tolerant person than she was when you met her as a P4P lady! She may be able to change her lifestyle, but you must be ready to change yours too!!!
Now, to be realistic, success is very very very rare in that kind of relationship between a farang man and a thai lady. I am trying hard to live a happy life with my thai spouse here, in Thailand, and I can assure you that it is not easy everyday. But what I read previously does not incite me to be optimistic about your case.
So, if you want to end this relationship, just explain and say that to her, stop giving money and don't call her anymore. She will call, many times. Be firm. One day, she will stop calling for sure (even if you don't change your phone number).
Hope this helps a little bit...
French Goat
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PS: You don't have to feel guilty about the dad's story. If you never had met her daughter, they would have to deal with their money problems without your help. It seems to me that it is just convenient to make the farang feel guilty in order to obtain some easy cash quickly.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:23 am on Oct. 2, 2004
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RSlicker
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whatever you give them they will still become disatisfied,because their mates will be bugging them about what they may be missing.
its all a game to them, setting up the farang and getting the cash, once you part with the cash they may lose interest.
they like the buzz of different guys,screwing a different guy every week.
looking back on case histories the farang always loses in the end..so you may as well save your money,because in the end next time you come back it will all be different.
if you live in LOS you can keep control of your honey.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:46 pm on Oct. 5, 2004
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RSlicker
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one gal I shag attends computer school at VM area paid for by a French guy who thinks she is staying at home.
she is also being shagged by a teacher at the school the French guy is paying for. Teacher gets a free shag.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:51 pm on Oct. 5, 2004
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