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sirtitus
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Here's the deal:
I've been with Angel since Jan. She's stopped working bar in June when I moved to BKK and moved in with her.
Things have been very good between us.
Last night, she tells me that she's worried that I'm not happy and that I'm getting bored with her. She gave me permission to butterfly. She even said that I could take a girl back to our apartment and she'd join in.
Naturally, this would be a fantasy come true and I'm eager to proceed.
However, Thais don't always mean what they said and there are often hidden meanings in what they said and do. Basically, I'm wondering what you guys think about this.
Could she be being straight up with me and honestly wants me to be happy by spicing up our sex life?
Or is there another reason why she's brought this up? What's she after? Honestly, I don't believe her in her reasons.... especially after she's said a hundred times that she'll kill me if I butterfly on her... and she's the jealous type as well.
SirTitus
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Posted on: 11:29 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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dirty guru
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She has another.....thats a standard thing, remote is she wants you to butterfly. But really the "'look down on me thing""...is a mantra we have all heard. John from whereever is back in town soon, (a) its a test. (b) cleaner leave quoting test routine....... (c) your lucky.
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Posted on: 11:43 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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koolbreez
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Quote: from sirtitus on 11:23 am on Nov. 18, 2004
Here's the deal:
I've been with Angel since Jan. She's stopped working bar in June when I moved to BKK and moved in with her.
Things have been very good between us.
Last night, she tells me that she's worried that I'm not happy and that I'm getting bored with her. She gave me permission to butterfly. She even said that I could take a girl back to our apartment and she'd join in.
SirTitus
IMHO she's feeling insecure. To prove to herself that you are bored with her, she set up a test that you can't resist if you are bored. Who knows what could happen if you went for it. Just my thoughts.
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Posted on: 11:47 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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thaiaficionado
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sirtitus,
She may have cheated on you and is now feeling guilty about it.
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Posted on: 11:49 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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dirty guru
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I tend to think its a set up. "'bring one home"' indicates she wants out quick.....or test, or excuse......I would f*** her stupid for a week buy flowers, and then keep her under wrapps, refuse offer, and talk about til death do us part.
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Posted on: 11:51 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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BigDUSA
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I go along with the test argument. If you care for the women and she cares for you and you butterfly in front of her, you will break her heart.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:51 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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dirty guru
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Get real man. It works the other way round.......big punter back in town, outta here.....cheap charlie Vs punter, need a quick clean exit.....sure it was a test.....Believe me unless you have screened the june emails...its just time my friend.... ^ months later. ""oh f*** what do I do?"" Heres gurus odds... 2/1 she wants rid of you.... 7/2 a test........
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Posted on: 11:55 pm on Nov. 17, 2004
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Abrak
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Sirtitus,
It is possible she means it, it is likely a test.
Obviously your safest option is to go the 'I would never dream of doing something like that route'
However, there is a neat trick around this...
Say to her that you think this could be fun but that you want her to choose a girl that she might have fun with.
That way if it was merely a test she wont choose anyone and you can seem whiter than white by not mentioning it again. Alternatively, if she does bring someone back home, you can have fun and next time you can say 'its my turn to choose'.
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Posted on: 12:00 am on Nov. 18, 2004
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Teacher
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I think she is feeling insecure and this is a test. I agree with Abrak. Let her pick the girl for you.
Teach
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Posted on: 12:11 am on Nov. 18, 2004
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