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forsa
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I have a gik who over the past few years has been supported by a filthy rich farang. Although I’ve heard it before, she tells me that they’re fighting again and the money train is finally going to stop. I’m curious as to what she’s entitled to legally. This guy smartened up the past year and started putting things in his company’s name instead of hers – like the blinged-out island house they built last year. But they have 3 cars and (I think) a condo in Pattaya in her name.
She’s not stupid and has been preparing for this day… she built a small house last year without him knowing, but really has not much cash saved up. She does have lots of stuff though, but not assets you would call extremely liquid… how easy is it to convert Luis Vuitton bags and Gucci shoes into baht? 
Before you start flaming me for helping her screw over a fellow brother, consider that my relationship with her is mostly just sexual (but she has become a good friend over the 2 years I’ve known her) and I have no intention of promoting her to girlfriend status. I’ll let her take care of her own business… she claims she wants to make a legitimate life for herself now by starting a business etc. (I know, I know, easier said than done for a TG who hasn’t had a real job for years and spends her days shopping and getting primped). She is super hot and could easily snag another sponsor or two, but claims to not want that… we’ll wait and see I guess.
I’m wondering what her position is and if Thailand has common-law type laws etc.. This guy doesn’t live in Thailand but comes down every 2 weeks or so. He has several businesses there. I kinda feel bad for him but yet not really… if you were throwing cash at someone who keeps telling you she doesn’t love you, knows she’s screwing around with guys like me - wouldn’t you think twice? He might be Donald Trump compared to most of us, but how stupid can a successful businessman with millions of $ really be? Maybe this was just one of his poorer or frivolous investments.
So anyways, any ideas as to what he’s entitled to and what she is? And how easy do you think it will be for her to walk away with some of this stuff? I’m thinking he’s got the money to throw behind some good lawyers, but then again might just as well cut his losses and trade her in on a newer, younger model and walk away. I’m back in LOS next month and will be looking for one myself – they’re still arriving daily in BKK from Issan right?
Forsa.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:41 pm on Dec. 29, 2006
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LocalYokul
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so you believe her when she says that she's telling mr. rich guy that she doesn't love him ?
and I am sure little miss GIK can find plenty of places to fence her Fendi bags
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:52 pm on Dec. 29, 2006
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Mel Gibson
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ebay, hope she has reciepts to proove their originals.
Both would probably be better off settling out of court, she has little to no claim if they where never married and he has the problem that Thai courts seem to err on the Thai persons side.
Personally I think she should be happy to walk away with just the purses etc,, after all she has been supported for little in return.
Mel.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:21 pm on Dec. 29, 2006
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ThaidUp
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I would give you advice, but I am looking forward to seeing the girl in her Gucci shoes doating a LV bag selling Sum Tum at the local food stall.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 7:59 pm on Dec. 29, 2006
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Edge
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Hey, I've got a friend looking for a condo in Pattaya.
I am suprised that a businessman did not put this in his name.
If the guy finds a sharp Thai lawyer he can do a lot of claiming back, more so if he can prove that she was screwing you and others!!
Bet TPE knows more.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:27 am on Dec. 30, 2006
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Lofty
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She's screwing around, whether she loves him or not and he is keeping her in a very good lifestyle.
To my mind she should not be entitled to anything.
As a sponser you know you are not buying love, but you should at least be buying exclusitivity. If she wants to fu*k around with others then she should go.
I suppose if you feel a guy is stupid enough to be taken advantage of then he deserves it.
Not me, maybe he loves her and the arguments are about her screwing around. If we are in love then we do stupid things.
He should make sure she gets as little as possible, but maybe thats just me being vindictive. But like I said if I am paying I expect to be the only guy F*cking her.
Hey how can you tell I had a bad experiance. LOL still as soon as I knew the money stopped. As we did as did the house I had started to build. Godd job all that was built was the foundations.
Som Nom fu*king Nah!!!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:06 am on Dec. 30, 2006
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atl
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Forsa wrote:
But they have 3 cars and (I think) a condo in Pattaya in her name.
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Hi....happy new year....I really dont have any advice for you except maybe sell the pattaya condo yesterday...before he has time to think about it.....
my query is this...why the f*** would you need 3 cars in bangkok??????????
atl
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thinking about it...I would be willing to bet (even if the condo is in her name) that he has all the paperwork pertaining to the condo "the book"etc and will not pass it over "just like that"
...if she does have the documents in her possession she should get rid of it...I mean if she had thoughts of living there surely he will have some goons harass the shit of her....
I still cant get my question above out of my head....if this dude is a sponsor not living in Thailand permanatly with an extended family why would you need 3 cars????
if the answer is "because he can" then I really dont feel too sorry for the dude 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:08 am on Dec. 30, 2006
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Ballsburstin
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Funny thing is TPE's book on the subject underscores the fact that even the mi-so and hi-so ladies are not immune to screwing around, and seem to be as hedonistic as any of the BG's we see.
For my part, I have never assumed that in the 5 years I've been sponsoring (that word isn't really appropriate anymore, considering what we've been through together), that my TGF was going to be sexually exclusive to me. She's pretty independently minded, as far as TG's go, though quite demure. And I don't want to be the pot callin' the kettle black, with all the shenanigans and st's I've enjoyed since we've been together. But I do have a hard and fast rule: we are both home for dinner, so to speak, and I don't do longtimes, period. Otherwise, what's the point? Gik's are fine, mia noys and samee noys aren't.
If I'm not around for an extended period, it wouldn't surprise me if she cultivated a gik or two, after all, she's not an old spinster, and does still turn a few heads at the ripe old age of 28. I don't own her, I just live with her. Should we part company, she'll get everything: the washing machine, microwave, TV, stereo system, etc., etc. I don't need it, and she does not have the financial means to buy all that crap again. It would be petty of me to take it.
Granted, the person about who this thread was started is in a different cash category, but if he has the amount of money suggested, it does sorta scale up, doesn't it? I stopped looking for exclusivity when I landed in LOS, and started enjoying life. Life is short and you're dead for a long, long time. I'll be dead soon enough, and don't want to clutter my remaining years with unnecessary drama.
YMMV
- Balls
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:39 am on Dec. 30, 2006
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DaffyDuck
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If the guy (or any sponsor) expects exclusivity from his girl, then he's a total fool, and deserves to be taken to the cleaners.
Why would he put the condo in her name, when condos can be in the farang name without too much fuss? If it's in her name, he wanted her to have it anyway. If she doesn't have the papers, I'm sure they are not too difficult to get - just claim they were stolen as part of a recent break-in, or something.
I'm sure the likes of TPE can help her out, if she needs to
Balls has the spot-on right attitude. Any other sponsor who essentially considers the girl to be his 'property' (and most likely treats her the same way) deserves what he gets -- especially considering that a lot of guys on here who are concerned about their own girls' infididelity, seem to have no issues with some action on the side for themselves...
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Posted on: 12:58 pm on Dec. 30, 2006
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forsa
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Some interesting opinions here… I agree in theory that the sponsor shouldn’t have to leave her anything, but she is my friend and I would like to see her get at least enough to get herself settled into some sort of business.
This story is really pretty complicated and I obviously can’t write about all details, but I’ll try to answer questions without revealing any identities here. Mr. Donald Trump the sponsor is married with children in farangland “he don’t love wife, don’t live with her but don’t get divorced for kids” – read into that as you please.
He comes to Thailand a couple of times a month because he has businesses there. TG doesn’t live in BKK and only one of the cars was in BKK. Now all three cars are where she lives and she uses them all for different purposes – a compact, a SUV and a luxury car. They had a house in BKK which they sold last year and she got half the money which she used to build a house (without sponsor knowing) which she now rents out. Not sure why the condo in Pattaya was purchased, but it has never been used and sits vacant with no furniture – why he put it in her name I don’t know (I wanted to use it, but with no furniture it didn’t pan out). They have a condo in BKK now but I don’t know whose name it’s under (probably his). The main, almost palatial, residence (not in BKK) is where she lives mostly.
She not only doesn’t love him, she loathes him. Tolerates him for the lifestyle and because he takes care of her family well. From what she tells me I think he truly loves her though which might be blinding him. She f*cks only me and another guy. There was one more, but she’s weaned him off. This is not your typical TG… she’s well-traveled, great conversational English, knows what wines go with what, etc. She’s got the good and bad traits of both farang girls and TG’s. Unfortunately jealousy is one of her TG traits that causes a bit of drama between us ;- ( Somebody send her a proper definition of “gik” please! (she introduces me to some of her friends as her gik and to others as her best friend. How affectionate we are around them depends on their connection with Mr. Trump).
I really don’t know if she has the paperwork for any of the assets in her name or how much of a fight Mr. Trump is going to put up. Maybe I’ll put her in touch with TPE for advice if some mediation is required. As for the things that were given to her as gifts, I think definitely she should be entitled to those. I gave my ex-TGF a phone. It’s not like I wanted it back after we broke up. And some of those gifts, like her fake boobs, will be hard for mr sponsor to reclaim
Sponsorship is talked about lots on this forum, but not at this level. My ex-TGF’s sister has a mega-rich sponsor too. He’s building a massive house in Pattaya with pool etc. all the while she “butterflies” with some of her customers from back in the day (witnessed this firsthand when we would go out as a group). At least both of these girls are super smoking hot stunners, so at least I see that these rich guys have high standards But
I guess no matter how rich you are or how much baht the TG’s get monthly, it’s a bad idea. If you can’t physically be located with the girl, don’t bother or just treat it as a donation.
Forsa.
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Posted on: 8:49 pm on Dec. 30, 2006
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