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LoneStar
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This is my first post to the Forum. However, I have spent quite a bit of time in LOS during the past year.
I created a problem for myself by taking a TG out of one of the more popular MP's and taking her to dinner and to my apartment (Centre Point). I have called her on several occasions and she has not hesitated to come over to my place before work and on days off.
QUESTION...How can I go back to the MP where she works with the intention of selecting another TG without causing her to lose face or feel that I am not treating her with respect? Do I tell her I want to "butterfly" or should I just keep my butt out of the MP?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:00 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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nikko
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Oy vay. This sounds familiar, right down to the same apartment. My advice, be up front, tell her you want to butterfly. If you stay out of the MP, it could be a double edged sword. You may avoid conflict short-term but if she gets attached (and I don't know, maybe she is fine with you butterflying) and that is not your intention it could just be a bigger problem down the road. If you want to butterfly and frequent the MP, better tell her sooner rather than later. But from your post maybe you are past that point? Not clear.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:10 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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nokna
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as Nikko says,all you can do is tell her.
you will soon find what her reaction is,some girls are fine with a man doing this,some not.
you don't say if you want to see her again?.
if you do want to see her,but still want to experience some of her friends,try and explain to her.
but when it comes down to it,you are the boss,you have the money and you can do what you like.
see her friends if you like but maybe return to her occasionally.
i am a huge butterfly and all my regulars know this,but also know i will return and see them now and then.
they may grin and bear it through gritted teeth,but they put up with me.
and it's not all money,many times i have not been expected to pay.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:28 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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LoneStar
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Thanks nikko. I do not want her to become "attached." She is a nice person and a skilled professional. But she has some traits which limit my interest in her. I would like to be able to call her "as needed." I do not view her as a potential GF.
I need to tell her I want to butterfly and be ready to accept her response.
LoneStar
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 9:31 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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oldhand
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Easy to see how we all get into so much
trouble, how the girls end up taking us
for a ride, my advice you can not have
your cake and eat it so forget about any
relationship other than sowing your
wild oats with this one and her work
mates in the MP. If she does not like it
tough, you'll not be the first and not the
last so snap out of it before it's to late.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 9:37 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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cmore
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Hey brother LS, as the guys have said if you intend to butterfly be upfront about it with her and let her know how you feel. However if you do intend to be with other women then with all the other places that have available ladies why put her through the ringer by getting involved with other ladies from her MP. Not only would this cause her to lose face but it could end up ruining friendships and you don't even want to know what else could happen. The term PLENTY OF FISH IN THE SEA must have been created in LOS. With so many other MP's, beer bars, gogo bars, pool bars, gentlemans clubs, etc. to choose from, why put her through those kinds of problems. She has to live there, you don't. Peace
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:49 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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Packripper
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Yeah, be up front about it. And work through the fishbowl from left to right, so you don't lose track. Also good to keep an MS Excel so you can keep a spread sheet on your "numbers."
;)
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:08 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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nokna
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bummer if one night they sit on the left,and then the next night decide to change and sit on the right.......lol
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:23 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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LoneStar
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Packripper....I like your attitude.
I have thought about keeping data on my Palm. I'll be OK as long as they don't switch numbers.
Cmore...You are suggesting that I not return to the MP where this TG works. Do you also feel that I should not tell her of my intent to butterfly. Surely she will figure it out for herself sooner or later.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:36 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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cmore
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No brother LS, as I said if you intend to butterfly then be upfront and tell her so. If you want to be with other ladies then it would probably be better for her if you went on the hunt at a different place. Save that particular MP for those times when you want to see her again. Why cause problems for her and risk those problems possibly coming back on you. Just a little advice from one of the bros. Peace
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:52 pm on Nov. 25, 2002
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