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I want to have "big sanuk" with my Thai girls, and for me that means that they have a great time too. I know all about the money and lets assume they will get what will be more than fair. What other ways can I culturally connect with these women to make the experience mutualy rewarding. Do they like anything special, such as massages, certain gifts, the right words, etc.
I know this line of conversation will have some of you real whore mongers cringing, but surely there must be a way to show some basic respect and make the best of a paid-for-sex situation for both parties involved.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:34 pm on Feb. 23, 2002
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Kris
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I'm with you on this, loverboy10. I am all for showing respect to these girls. And there is nothing like a gift to make them feel special. I usually carry small gifts from India and these go a long way in making them feel special. And it definitely comes back to you....you get that little bit extra from them that makes the experience more pleasurable for you.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:38 pm on Feb. 23, 2002
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Peter
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loverboy10, you write straight out of my heart! I really think you target at exactly the most important point of all: Mutual and real pleasure, that goes along with respect and harmony. And there we are. In my eyes, it is respect what we owe our THAI-girlfriends, respecting their needs, worries, likings, taboos, culture. Would that be an answer?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:03 am on Feb. 24, 2002
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PussyLover
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I agree with you guys about showing respect for the girl's needs, worries, likings, taboos and culture. Just because Thail girls are in the sex industry as a job, it does not mean they leave their human needs back at home! I am planning a trip to LOS in May and would appreciate suggestions of little trinket type gifts I could bring from home (US) for my Thai Girlfriends to show appreciation and break the ice. Any suggestions would be helpful.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:52 am on Feb. 24, 2002
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Dave
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well guys
You are discussing just what can make the Thai sex scene different and so much better than anywhere else.
So many of the girls are not hard nosed hookers, and often very nieve in all ways including sexually, that showing them true respect often gives a very enjoyable experience.
At first I always went for the best looking girl that my eyes set on. But not anymore. I spend time to choose somone I feel comfortable with and hopefully is OK with me.
This adds up to a good time for both. But now we get to the dangerous part. The risk of emotional involvement. Need to be very careful here.
Dave
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 8:58 am on Feb. 24, 2002
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PussyLover
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Thanks Dave. Even though I have been involved in the scene when I lived in Nevada (which from everything I read is very different than Thailand), I made some big mistakes by getting emotionally involved. I know I am prone to doing it again so I am trying to ready myself in advance....but when I get there I am sure it will be very hard!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:06 am on Feb. 24, 2002
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Dave
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Hi Pusseylover
seubeu clearly gives good advise which says treat them like women not whores and you can have some fun.
But he arrives at the same conclusion.
the fact that you are aware of the danger probably means you will be OK. You could follow the rule of a colleague of mine which is " never never never see the same girl again" That maybe extreme but he has become involved too many times.
He settles for good nights and leaves it there
Dave
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Posted on: 12:22 pm on Feb. 24, 2002
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Peter
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Well, yes - folks.
To fall in love is so easy with girls and women so charming, so caring (if you made a prope choice), so devoted (not just to their "job"). I did not so much mind falling in love as far as I myself are concerned: (un)fortunately after a couple of days some thousands of miles distance again - so nothing to worry. But I always felt sad for the girls, who at least made me believe they would have likes to see me stay on or coome home with me to my country. At the end: Not a very big problem if you do not lose your mind and send your boss the quit.
Then I would like to say special thanks to seubeu!
Am absolutely delighted to learn that by sort of instinct my respective ideas have been in the proper line of thinking. Go shopping clothes, Gold after a week in Pattaya (for both of them), dining and wining seafood and Chablis. But everything else (picnics, tours, bring expensive lingery, etc.) I will surely keep in mind for the next visit!
seubeu, as an expert, one more question: What are the rules for inviting a friend to take along, for dinner and the night, a friend or two of hers? I always found it a little bit difficult to make sure and find out, what would be acceptabel. That is, equal my interest of enjoying yet more company (and of course in that sense to my taste) and her interest: Please a friend by giving a good opportunity to make money and enjoy other incentives, but also not being pushed away from her position as main friend. You understand? This can be extremely tricky, I feel.
Would appreciate to read some most worthwhile comments from your side on this aspect.
Thank you !
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:25 pm on Feb. 24, 2002
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PussyLover
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seubeu...thanks for some great ideas for daytime activities. I am also looking for some specific ideas about what to do at night after we just meeting. The eating out, dancing and/or movie idea is great. Do you have any specific ideas of what kind of things to get that say "Made in USA" which the girl can give to her family? Also how do you think something like Tootsie Roll lollipops would be a good idea to help break the ice with the girls while at their work establishment (while choosing which one to ask out) and before paying a bar fine?
Dave...I like the advice of your friend about never never never seeing the same girl twice. A good night or two is exactly what I am looking for so I think that will become one of my golden rules.
Also...anyone have a suggestion of how much money I should plan to spend a day not including hotel. I am going for 14 days in May and trying to get an idea of how much to budget.
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Posted on: 4:29 pm on Feb. 24, 2002
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