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BigDUSA
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The truth shall set you free/or get you in up to your neck in a pile of BG shit.
I knew there would be problems when I received a IM from a BG boyfriend. He wanted me to tell him the "truth" about me f_cking his BG. I take it he didn't like the "truth" as I get a email from another BG telling me I caused her and the other BG big problems.
The two BG work different bars and I bar fined both of them, just for fun, no sex. We go out and have a good time and when we are about to go our seperate ways. The BG with the boyfriend tells me, I want you to come to my bar and see me. Next day I go and I ASK her if she would like me to barfine her and that I want to take her back to my hotel and make love with her. She says, no problem, I want to go with you. She stays with me for a week or so.
The other BG when I had first meet her, I told her I would not lie to her and I didn't want her to lie to me. She liked the idea but she didn't understand that if I told her the truth, I wouldn't lie to someone else if they asked me a question nor would I go out of my way to volunteer info. We had talked many times and I had barfined her for fun and sometimes sex. I've kept in contact with her by email.
The BG was telling her boyfriend that she worked bar but she didn't go with customer, boyfriend was paying for her to go to school to learn english (she was going). I don't know if he was sending her any other money. Boyfriend told her he is comming back to LOS and is staying 6 month's and want's her to stay with him.
Here the rub, BG are told many lies by farang and in turn the BG lie also. If a girl wait's on a guy to come back and he doesn't show, she's out alot of money. Remember these girls are here to feed their kids/family and they need a steady income.
I told the "truth" and I'm in deep shit with the girls because they get caught up in their lies and sometimes it comes back to slap them in the face.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:11 pm on May 14, 2003
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PhantomV
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Dear BigDUSA,
just some words from a young guy(me).
a) it's not making love to a BG!! it's sex for money! business transaction! that's it! point!
b) why do think and care?? those BG's don't give a shit about you bro'!!! just don't care! go out there and hunt! the world is yours!
cheers!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 12:44 pm on May 14, 2003
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BigDUSA
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It not all business all the time and many of the girls when they get to know you after you have come back to LOS a few times are not cold hearted bitches. I will agree that a fair # are cold hearted bitches but I see thru these women quickly and move on.
I have regular girls (30+ in age) that I see each trip and over time you do build a relationship/friendship with them. With me it's more fun to make love to women I care about and that she cares for me. I'm not talking about love (except one women), just a little care and affection. This is my style, your mileage may vary.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:06 pm on May 14, 2003
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PopSecret
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Here's what I don't get, BigD. ÝIf you visit often enough to setup so many connections with BG's, then why not try to branch out into the realm of regular girls? ÝI have nothing against BG's and I love their attention, but if I really and truly wanted a relationship I think I'd focus on the regular girls. ÝOr maybe that's not what you want?
- I ask this because it will no doubt be a new dilemma facing my next trip. Should I just jump back into the instant gratification of bars, clubs, and parlors that unfortunately ends along with my trip, or should I spend my time trying to find a regular girl who's companionship could last far longer?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:39 pm on May 14, 2003
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peterpan
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I think that was good posting Pop.
its nice to hunt then all of a sudden ,Its nice to come home and have some one snuggle up to, and dont have to leave the money on the table in the morning.
As you say to each is own
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:41 pm on May 14, 2003
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BigDUSA
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As a short time vacationer and I don't speak Thai it's almost impossible to meet and connect with a regular Thai women. Many Thai women don't want to be seen with a farang as other Thais will think they are a whore. If I did meet one it would take a long time to wine, dine and romance her. If I lived in LOS I would go the regular girl route. I enjoy the thrill of the chase.
You can waste alot of valueable vacation time looking for the damm near impossable. That's why I stick with BG.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:14 pm on May 14, 2003
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LadyAnne
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Bros 
Try to find 1 regualr TG for you..I was told 1 story by my farang friend.He comes to Thailand 6-7 tims a year for business and ev'rytime he paid money to have sex for BG,escort girls,even when he asked someone to dinner,all the time money and money for them.Once he have met 1 regular TG ,they talked as friends,go out to have lunch and dinner ,the end with bed and the feelings was better than he had sex and pay money later.
I try to tell you guys with this story but so sorry for my English lol..
Now he keeps in touch with this girl and will never be interested to meet anyother girls anymore..
But do you think this is the end of story?
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:58 pm on May 14, 2003
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Ballsburstin
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Figure I'd pollute BidgD's thread with this true story (not trying to f*ck your thread, this is related, sorta) ;)
Talked to my TGF last night. She has a Thai g/f (from up north, but different town) who is about 27 or 28 y.o. and who worked at her go-go bar about 3 years ago. Her g/f met a farang and they hit if off. So he told her to stop working, and started sponsoring her at 5000 baht a month. Not much in BKK, given her previous income stream, but she started working in a factory to make up the difference. Her factory pay was 7000 or 8000 baht per month, so her total income about 12k or 13k baht. She was sending some of this home to mom.
Well, she decides after about a year of this that she will go home, upcountry, and she did. Her farang b/f still sent her the 5K per month, but she didn't work up there, nor (from what I can tell) go to school. Well, that was enough to live on, but having seen BKK, it's a case of the ol' "you can't go home again." So she stays upcountry for a year or so (timeline a little fuzzy here) and realizes she can eat, shit, and sleep but not much else on that income.
So, unbeknownst to her b/f, she returned to BKK this year and started working at the same go-go club. Well (this is where it starts to sound a bit like BigD's lady's problem), a friend of her farang b/f happens into the bar and, uh oh, there she is. She doesn't see him, but he reports back to his buddy what's going on.
Naturally, her b/f's pissed, he feels he's been lied to. This is where my TGF comes in. She heads down to the "internet chop" and helps her craft a concilliatory email trying to explain that she really loves him, but she needs more cash, and why she's doing what she's doing. Net out: he called her after he read the email, and, last I heard, it's the pretty much over.
Coupla things popped out at me when I asked my TGF some details about this:
1) 5000 baht is really considered too little by the TG's to stop working ( "he not pay her same you pay me" ).
2) Her b/f didn't really have a plan for getting her out of the scene permanently, as he didn't have her do any schooling, etc. She only has 6 years of formal education, so her work options are limited, and the bars are easy money. According to my TGF, work in the go-go bar was "sometime sanuuk, sometime mai sanuuk" so not a strong incentive to leave the scene unless there is a clear alternative.
3) My TGF used to work at a factory when she was 16. She said it was "sanuuk" because she enjoyed the social scene there -- this despite the 11 hour, 6 day work weeks.
4) He's not in Thailand, and can't see her very often. He also appears to be sending as much as he can afford, given his job, etc. He loves her, and her working at the bar causes him emotional heartache. He feels betrayed, angry, and heartbroken.
5) She really loves him (my TGF was sincere about this), and really does want to be with him. She sees the bar as a job (she isn't scamming other farangs concurrently for cash) and doesn't see the conflict, because she's not emotionally involved with any of her customers. But her b/f is in the USA, and she is in Thailand, patiently waiting (and working) until he gets there. In her mind, she is being sincere because she is saving her emotional side for her b/f, and she enlisted my TGF's help in trying to send an email to explain this.
I find this story interesting, because it gives a perspective from the TG point of view. My TGF doesn't bullshit me (most of the time) and she was really trying to help this lady salvage the relationship. But their world view is so foreign to this farang's hopes and wishes, that there is no chance for that relationship. 
- Balls
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 10:02 pm on May 14, 2003
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BigDUSA
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bb,
I agree the girls look at what they do as work and nothing more. Sometimes they have a good time, sometimes they don't. We are customer's as I've said before as you get to know them by comming back to see them trip after trip sometimes you can become there boyfriend/lover. I've moved into that position with one girl. She gets upset when I butterfly but when I ask her about all the men she goes with. That's only work, I don't care about them only care about you. Interesting.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:24 pm on May 14, 2003
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