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Hermanolobo
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Call me Mr Cynical but I do often wonder if the girls look at me as a long time walking ATM ?
Recently I have had the "I need you" "I want you"
And a certain amount of anger if I bar-fined another girl.
But, I was straight with them? Don't take it personally I am going with someone else tomorrow, I am not going to tell you a story - Like it or not you are getting the truth. Even though you call me 'Pakwaan'. I am not ready for another relationship. Too much baggage and pain from the past !
I sit there in quiet moments on my own thinking -
Does this girl really like me ??
I am never really sure and doubt if I ever will be.
It can be frustrating at times?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:17 am on May 23, 2003
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Turkish
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Dear manlobo
Who can be sure of any girls true feelings be it TG or Farang, somewhere we`ve all been burned and have pain and baggage from the past but as the saying goes ... better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.
And as you sit ther in your quiet moments thinking "Does this girl really like me?"
Spare a moment for all the bro`s not in LOS who would gove their right arm to be in your quanary.
None of us can answer the question 100%, sometimes we think we can,but really we can`t.
For the time being just enjoy the fact that you can ask yourself that question.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 11:29 am on May 23, 2003
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Arramsey
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Hermanolobo ,
From you numerous earlier posts I gather you are quite the intelligent person - so I cannot believe that the question you have posed is in a serious vein .
But I will take the bait and summarise the answer that has already been given a hundred times before in other Threads :-
By the very nature of her job a BG is supposed to make the customer feel good - and the greater he feels the greater her chance of earning more money . This is not to degrade BG's - it is their job and quite frankly if they had job evaluations most of them would get very high ratings . How many of us do our jobs with such involvement and such sincerity .
So , rather than thinking about whether she loves you or not - first ask yourself whether you love her or not . If you do not love her then keep it as a business relationship - her "I want you" , "I need you " , and anger when you BF other BG's is usually at this stage all part of what she will do to keep a customer .
If , however , you happen to really love her - then make a real & genuine comittment (with a capital C ) and I am willing to wager that 9 times out of 10 you will find a loving and devoted partner .
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:11 pm on May 23, 2003
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BigDUSA
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The age old question, does she or desn't she?
I'm not trying to be a smart ass, but who the hell knows? If we don't live in Thailand and we don't see her every day.......
The list can go on and on.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:28 pm on May 23, 2003
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Arcadius
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By the very nature of her job a BG is supposed to make the customer feel good
True, but I don't think it's quite as clinical as that. Quite often you see that the BGs (I'm talking only about the nice girls here) WANT to make the customer feel good. I mean where, but in LOS, can you imagine having to comfort a pro because you didn't finish? Ý
I suspect there's a lot of double-think at work with the BGs - the Thai tendency to go with appearances rather than underlying 'reality'. Very different from farang thinking.
I believe it would be quite impossible for anyone to act calculatedly as well as some of these girls do when they're playing your lover. You can be with her for days, and she NEVER puts a foot wrong. Not once do you catch her throwing you a sly look. Au contraire, you catch any number of spontaneous little signs of affection that she just couldn't have had time to fake consciously.
Of course you know - by now almost solely as an intellectual tenet - that this gorgeous kid half your age can't really be in love with you. But she's so utterly convincing, this just doesn't ring true. Result: pretty well total confusion.
I suspect that what happens is something like this. The BG decides that she's going to be your girlfriend for the next 6 days. She starts acting like that, and very soon the way she's presenting outwardly becomes a reality for her. Not the only reality, of course, but the one she's got switched on while she's with you. Once she's thrown that switch, it all comes naturally - she IS your girlfriend.
Of course, very soon after you disappear through the departure gate, she switches back to normal. Unlikely, in my view, that she gives you much thought at all after that. Then next week, she'll go and throw the switch for some other guy and be HIS girlfriend - and be just as convincing.
So my answer to Hermie's question is this: yes they can (and often do) fall in love with us, but not really.
But Turkish is right. We just don't know. This is all pure speculation. Ý
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:32 pm on May 23, 2003
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Smegma
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I would not limit this topic to BGs. I think it is something "Thai". Sometimes they just consciously "decide" that they are in love with you, start acting that way, and as Arcadius says, by doing so they make it happen.
Yes, they do fall in love. But they as well and as easily can sometimes fall out of love. At least they can do it easier than farangs can. Hey! We see this everyday? We are always seeing how it is easier for Thais to control their emotions and feelings with much more ease than farangs.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:44 pm on May 23, 2003
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eyeswideopen
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Hermanolobo - nice to see you are alive
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:37 pm on May 23, 2003
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haam sup
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Arramsey,
I don't think being intelligent makes you heartache-proof. ÝYour recap is stuff that Hermanolobo, I and countless others should know, and do, but still our emotional side can need reassurance.
I do think the question IS whether WE love THEM, not the other way round, though, as you pointed out. ÝWhat passes for mutual enjoyment, after you know each other, can convert QUICKLY into love, in the presence of the big 'C' (Committment). ÝAs you point out, there will never be a chance for 'the real deal' until this condition is met...
I don't know about the 90% number, but chances are good that if you put in the time and effort, and are not merely on holiday, you may end up with a good life-partner.
How long 'life' may be, is another matter 
haam sup
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:59 pm on May 23, 2003
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invaderzim
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yeh the do fall in love imagine if you were a big rich guy with great potential in your country girls would be fallin all over you
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:20 pm on May 23, 2003
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BigDUSA
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Quote: from invaderzim on 4:20 pm on May 24, 2003
yeh the do fall in love imagine if you were a big Ýrich guy with great potential in your country girls would be fallin all over you
I never was rich, I lost my hair when I was 29. I'm not a hansum man, sexy man. I worked for the US Postal Service as a truck driver and I never lacked a date with smart warm hearted women who liked me. Some guys have it all wrong on what a women want in a man.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 5:37 pm on May 23, 2003
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