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I am sorry if this has already been discussed, I searched but couldn't find an existing topic on this subject. If it exists, please close this one off. Thanks.
Anyway, to the questions...
As many of you know, I was smitten with this Pattaya Stunner I spent day and night with for 5 days.
To make a long story short, I have mixed feelings about her.
This is what I mean...
1. I feel like I am in love with her, although logically I know that this happens to most men when they have prolonged sexual relationship with women (its apparently biological.) But I still can't get her out of my mind. Also, I +vely know that we don't and can't have a shared future.
2. I feel extremely guilty for apparently no reason. Sometimes I feel like it is my fault that she is in the P4P business. Although, I know very well that neither did I "force" her into it, nor did I betray her and this was the only way she could survive. I gave her a "lot" of money(triple of the so called going rates), tremendous respect, helped her out by even helping her move apartments. Also, there are so many more disadvantaged people on this planet (men and women), and I don't feel this way about them... did anyone experience this feeling and how did you get rid of it?
3. I almost feel angry that she goes with other men. I mean, HELLO, that's how I met her... why can't I shake these feelings off, even though when I think about it rationally, none of the feelings make any sense.
So please, if anyone has experienced these feelings, please let me know as to how you got rid of them?
Or is it just my naive age?
Thanks.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:11 pm on June 26, 2003
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califdann
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Aryan6.... Join the club. I think many of us have been caught up in the same "trap". Use your big head for thinking this one through, not your little head.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 6:29 pm on June 26, 2003
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griffin
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perfectly normal feelings for LOS and scene newbies! don't worry nearly everybody with a heart and soul left felt like this for those wonderful human beings at some stages in his life!
believe me even now after several years in LOS i quite often trap myself with these sort of feelings and still most of the time give in to them! this is one of the many temptations of LOS and surely proves that you are still alive and not a hardened monster!
enjoy and suffer on it as long as it lasts!
P.S. and who said that you do not have a chance together, may be i am still to naive but i strongly believe as long as there is mutual sincere love every constellation can work!
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 6:30 pm on June 26, 2003
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cmore
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Quote: from griffin on 5:30 pm on June 27, 2003
P.S. and who said that you do not have a chance together, may be i am still to naive but i strongly believe as long as there is mutual sincere love every constellation can work! Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý Ý
Well said bro and if that makes you naive then add me to the list as well. Peace
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 6:50 pm on June 26, 2003
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Thanks guys, but the thing is I don't think it will work because I don't have money now, and by the time I get a job, I have to take care of my parents' finances, my retirement savings, student loans, car for work etc. etc. and then I wont have much left over and I think the next time I can even think of visiting LOS is not before 5 years! So you see, it is kind of a silly trap I'm in.
Thanks you guys, atleast now I know I am not the only one and still a human, that infact makes me feel a little better.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 6:59 pm on June 26, 2003
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Whisper
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Aryan6,
While I have never been in your exact position before I feel I understand it and sympathise with it.
1. Love is an extremely strong word to use in your case, especially after having known someone for only 5 days. I'm sure you were attracted to her, quite fond of her and liked her very much but to truly love someone you both need to feel the same way about each other. I'm also sure she made you feel very special but that is the charming nature of Thai women.
2. I think your feelings of guilt are really due to you subconsciously wishing she did not have to do what she does for a living and lead a more 'normal' life. In an indirect way you are contributing to that and that's probably why you feel bad about it (not that you are doing anything wrong). The reason you don't feel quilty about the other disadvantaged people is that you have no emotional connection with them.
3. The feelings of anger, I think, are more directed at yourself for not being able to have this girl all for yourself. Like a way of cursing your bad luck.
As for getting rid of these feelings, I think you need to understand and be more aware that ultimately you are merely a customer and even though you feel a strong bond emotionally after having been intimate with her she is, after all, simply doing her job. I'm not advising you to think of her now as a piece of meat but to realise that this is her way of life and just to be happy that you have both come out of the experience as winners.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:04 pm on June 26, 2003
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ccvvbb
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Q: Do you talk to your wife during sex?
A: Yes, if there is a phone handy.
...and only if your dick is in some ones mouth so your wife cannot hear her talking.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:08 pm on June 26, 2003
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cmore
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Quote: from ccvvbb on 6:08 pm on June 27, 2003
Q: Do you talk to your wife during sex?
A: Yes, if there is a phone handy.
...and only if your dick is in some ones mouth so your wife cannot hear her talking.
I fail to understand the need for this thread f_ck bro. Brother Aryan is genuinely looking for answers here  . Peace
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:20 pm on June 26, 2003
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ccvvbb
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........and he is getting his answers!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 7:22 pm on June 26, 2003
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ASIAN MAN
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I think what you're feeling is quite normal, specially if this was your first trip. I've had similar feelings after spending only few hours with a girl 
( califdann ) hit it right on the head  it's not always easy but try to thing with the big head.
Above are some good advises, let it subside...time will tell...hang in there...you'll be alright...we are living proof 
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:52 pm on June 26, 2003
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