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madfrog
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Hello
Being a total newbie to Los i have a question that most of you might find silly...
I would be in BKK during all the month of september for my work and some personal researchs, but at some point i would very likely "misbehave" with the BG's(yeah...i m not a monk so one month with no sex is something i cant survive 555 even ùy regular girlfriend know this anyway so she is prepared for this ,only thing she told me is to "act safely").
My question to all the experimented brother is as follow:
Assuming that most of you do have a girlfriend/wife at home,how did you speak about this to BG's??(i assume the question do pop rather quick in the conversation...)
I know the question by itself look pure crapp about a P4P business, but from my own limited experience (in Austria)some of those girls can get hooked to a man rather fast and i dont want to hurt anyone (in fact i would more likely stick to MP's than lying to get some good sex from a girl...i m not the kind of guy that like to see a women crying).
So i trully wonder how the "experienced one's" are managing this? Pretending to be alone? Refer at girlfriend as "mrs balls&chains"? Or being totally honnest and say that you only need some compagny for the night and that you DO have a lover at home?
Thanks by advance for the replyes of the "wise one's"
Madfrog
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:02 pm on June 29, 2003
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Montydog
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Madfrog,
You have your GF permision to misbehave, she's not stupid and know's what go's on in LOS.
So If I were you I'd stick to the pro side of the street,
i.e MP's, Eden, Bar girl's as you are safer emotionaly with this sort of short term GF.
After all you don't pay them to stay the night with you. You pay them to go away in the morning.
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Posted on: 1:38 pm on June 29, 2003
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bkkz
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The truth works most of the time. Tell her that you have a wife/GF. And do not repeat them. That will prevent, or reduce the occurance of any attachment. Treat them well, and they will actually recommend you to their friends! 
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Posted on: 1:38 pm on June 29, 2003
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3cazzi
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Oh yes madfrog, I understand your point.
Even during (humid) rain season in BKK, if I don't have sex for a week in a row, I am afraid my dick gets dry... and fall !!!
But not being a "wise one", I don't see why you should talk of your GF/wife with BGs.
It only reminds me of some time ago in Istambul: the girl I met in a disco bar asked me if I had a GF at home.
We ended up drunk in my hotel room where I immediately found out she enjoyed sex in the rough way.
She took me by surprise and when I just started to enjoy her use of nails and bites, she grabbed my neck and bite it very hard.
I had to stop her and asked: <Why did you hurt me so badly? Do you enjoy it?>
She answered that wanted to leave a sign on me because: <it would be funny to see your GF's face when she realise what you did during your trip in Turkey!>.
We had a laugh while I finally said that nobody was waiting for me at home.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:05 pm on June 29, 2003
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Tsonoqua
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madfrog:
At the risk of repeating good advice, honesty is the best policy. I wear my wedding ring at all times, and it has prompted several bar girls to ask me if I'm married. I say yes. That's either the end of that part of the conversation, and we move on to negotiations about the price of a short/long time, or they offer to be my minor wife.
I don't see your telling a TG that you have a relationship as a deal breaker. If you know why you're there, you don't have to elaborate on your positive response.
BK's advice to butterfly is also excellent, and gives you great memories upon your return.
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Posted on: 9:10 pm on June 29, 2003
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Arcadius
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madfrog
Assuming your GF is a farang, it's most unlikely to worry the BGs at all, so you can be upfront about it. Problems only arise (occasionally) when your wife/GF is Thai.
My own solution is to say nothing, just put a finger to my mouth. That seems to work fine - the BGs then know, but not absolutely for sure, and this seems to allow them to dismiss the whole issue. They just accept that what they don't know won't hurt them.
This also works for routine questions re butterflying.
So there's no real need to lie to them - but lying probably matters more to you than to the BGs (or Thais in general). Lies which save face are a good thing. Truth which causes loss of face or creates 'unnecessary' difficulties is a bad thing.
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Posted on: 9:57 pm on June 29, 2003
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pinga
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Quote: from madfrog on 1:02 am on June 30, 2003
My question to all the experimented brother is as follow:
Assuming that most of you do have a girlfriend/wife at home,how did you speak about this to BG's??(i assume the question do pop rather quick in the conversation...)
PINGA: IMHO just be honest. She will understand and probably soon after you will get the "butterfly" award. Never mind. Most of the customers who are going to the MPs, B-bars, G-clubs, GG-bars are either married/engaged or have THE girlfriend somewhere back home. The TGs usually assume this guess as a fact, so I agree that it is ok to be up front. By doing this, there is very little chance to get into the "loss of face" shit later on.
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Posted on: 10:18 pm on June 29, 2003
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JHolmesJr
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Madfrog, why let the truth get in the way of a rollicking good time.
I have a neat little trick to help make the inevitable '5 questions' more fun. When Im with the girls I like to spin a new yarn about myself every time. So one day I'm married with 3 wives, the next day Im from the Italian skydiving time, I've also been a japanese sword collector, an irish football player and a retired jockey.
Never a dull moment, I can assure you!
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Posted on: 10:28 pm on June 29, 2003
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Arramsey
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Madfrog ,
You say that you do not want to ever make a girl cry .
Then I strongly suggest that you follow BK's advice to the letter .
BGs in Thailand are a very resilient lot - they do look for that long term relationship which they think will better their lot in every way and so if they like us and if we show even slightly that this is more than a one-nighter then they are likely to get attached to us .
However if you are absolutely straight forward with them they accept the reality and if they like you they will still give you the time of your life with no strings attached .
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 11:08 pm on June 29, 2003
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CalEden
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madfrog, BK and Arramsey gave you excellent advice. Honesty! My TGF also allows me to play. She only asked me to promise her I would use a condom. Which is a fair requirement. When asked I tell them I have a TGF. I mostly go to MP's.
My TGF has even gone to the MP with me to negotiate/interpret and on occasion waited on the couch by the fishbowl while I did the deed.
With GG's & FL's by telling them about the GF sends the message that this is ST only. Just be up front and kind the girls usually understand, after all they are just trying to make a living.
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Posted on: 12:21 am on June 30, 2003
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