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Hermanolobo
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Has anyone ever found they are seriously fond of two ladies at the same time? Perhaps almost three.
Keeping them apart is not the problem although juggling situations are !
It's the confusion that one can equally desire two ladies at the same time.
I am NOT talking about two in the bed but when one likes two ladies equally.....For me it is difficult and confusing !!
Help !!
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Too easy to Love , too difficult to Hate ???
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:00 am on July 9, 2003
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nokna
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been there,done that H.
lucky for me they all knew about the other girls and 'kind of' accepted the situation.
only caused 2 problems and in the latter days of my last trip.
but things sorted out in the end.
in fact took both of them out together one night and things worked out fine.
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Posted on: 4:35 am on July 9, 2003
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Arcadius
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Seriously fond? I suppose you mean 'love'?
I would say the answer is most certainly yes - at least it is in my case (ymmv). And no, there's no need to stop at two.
I'm not so sure about 'liking two ladies equally'. I find that one is usually tops at any given time. As for the others... well, it's bit hard to rank them. I mean you can love women in different ways can't you? Anyway, I find that on one night I might be in the mood for a particular regular, and on another night in the mood for a different one.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:43 am on July 9, 2003
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Hermanolobo
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Arcadius-
I suppose who pays the piper calls the tune ?
Why do I Butterfly ?
Because that is the only cure I have when I think about them working in bars and all that implies.
You made some excellent points to a previous poster about this !
Point being that it is a situation HE will have to deal with as that is the way of life here. Except it or try another country ??
HL
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:48 am on July 9, 2003
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Arcadius
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Well, I can't say I butterfly as therapy. Their working in bars "and all that implies" doesn't really bother me at all. I just don't think about it except to hope that these adorable women don't have to suffer too many pigs treating them like dirt - and when I'm with them, I'm quite oblivious to the fact that they're prostitutes. This doesn't bother me in theory, so I'm buggered if I'm going to let it bother me in practice. I just enjoy them for what they are and try to live in the moment - much as they do, I suspect.
No, in my case it's all far more basic. I fall in love with BGs for the simple reason that they touch me in some way and/or charm my socks off. Unfortunately, an inconveniently large number of them are very good at this, so they tend to accumulate.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 5:42 am on July 9, 2003
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Hermanolobo
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I know what you mean !
But I must stop wearing my heart on my sleave !!
They are very few girls I have actually forgotten even though the most recent linger the most.
I just wish I had come here when I first thought about it in 1976 rather than get bogged down with Europe till 1998 !
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Posted on: 6:49 am on July 9, 2003
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nokna
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i'm 
3 posts by Herman and i understood what he said....
i must be pissed....
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Posted on: 8:27 am on July 9, 2003
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AlterEgo
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I find that when I date several women, I eventually develope a caring, and then even more of a relationship with a woman, or sometimes more than one at a time. I do not know if it is love, but I do know that when it ends, I am quite emotionally upset, even if I am involved with other women at the same time. Typically, I care very much for the women that I am involved with. Again, it may be love... This is in the USA. As far as Thailand is concerned, as someone who has visited for several weeks at a time, several times, I have my favorites, and come back and visit with them on repeated visits to Thailand. Have not had the chance to fall in love... although I know I am in Lust....with several women at the same time.
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Posted on: 9:37 am on July 9, 2003
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bound4bangkok
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Hello all
MEN can be seriously fond of 2 types of automobles for example. Sometimes you might like to drive a big old pick up truck. Another day you have the need for speed so you rather have a Porsche or something. Both a pick up truck and a porche have the basic concept for there use get from point A to point b but there different in how they make you feel in between getting there. I Think TGs are interchangeable like this in about the same way. Since you are not going to loft one or the other to a higher levgel like marrage of comitted relationship there all interchangeable for what the basiclly give you while in Thailand. SEX COMPANIONSHIP ECT ECT . however one may provide you with a different sence of feeling when your with her you like at that time. the other makes you feel in another way . I hope I am clear in my meaning for this Don't want to cause a ruckus LOL LOL
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Posted on: 1:05 pm on July 9, 2003
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ChicagoGuy
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Quote: from Arcadius on 4:43 am on July 9, 2003
I'm not so sure about 'liking two ladies equally'. I find that one is usually tops at any given time... Anyway, I find that on one night I might be in the mood for a particular regular, and on another night in the mood for a different one.
I have to agree with this. I have had lots of good sex in BKK, however, there is a certain "way" of getting to me that one girl has found. She is so sweet and I am genuinely in tune with her. Another one from my last trip is on her way to getting to my heart as well. These two are quite different in personality.
The possessive part of me would be very upset that they are sleeping with other men when I am there. However, I force myself to forget about that. They will be my GFs when I come back, I will probably see them each a few times, but they will not occupy 100% of my time. Our time together is all about fun. They need to understand that they are a temporary GF, and I try to make that clear. Sometimes, I need to try harder (a lot harder).
I don't live in BKK, so it is a kind of a fantasy land for me. I tell myself that the life I live when in BKK is not real ... it helps me to keep things in perspective.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:13 pm on July 9, 2003
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