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sirtitus
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Hello again.
You guys reading the "Thail Girls - The Reality" will be familiar with my experience in LOS. You'll also know that I'm new to this and ask a lot of questions. Here's some more.
When I go back to LOS in June, I'm going to take "my" BG to Phuket for a couple of weeks (a nice vacation for the both of us). Flying, not driving. Anyway, I was wondering about the financial dynamics of this.
I'm reasonably sure that I'll have to barfine her from Midnite Bar for the whole 14 days. 14 x 500 baht = 7000 baht. The flight to Phuket and back and accomidations while there is also on me.
But what about her? Since this'll be a 2 week TGF experience and not a simple LT, what's the standard for working out money between myself and her? Is there a standard or is it simply something we have to work out ourselves? Do I pay by day or in a lump sum?
Another question: Is the money that she asks for the two weeks indicitive of how she really feels towards me?
That is, if she wants a regular LT price x 14 days, then that means I'm only money to her? Or if she wants nothing other than me treating her while we're in Phuket, then what does that mean?
Sorry for my naivity, guys. This is virgin territory for me.
Cheers.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:01 pm on Jan. 31, 2004
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ringthebells
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That is, if she wants a regular LT price x 14 days, then that means I'm only money to her?
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yes!!
however, ask her what she expects... if she says the famous three words (not "I love you"), give her 5'000 baht upfront, and the rest when you finished your vacation.
damn, I need a vacation, too.
rtb
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 10:35 pm on Jan. 31, 2004
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NaughtiusMaximus
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Dpends on the magic 3 words, my missus says the magic 3 words to me when she is about to come.
If your bg gf wants the whole 14 day lt rate, ditch her and find one in Phuket, cheaper and possibly nicer, you also have the advantage of changing friends every night or so. If she wants just a little, then go for it, she may hit you up for presents in Phuket though which will eventually equal a lt rate. But then again she may want nothing, with the long term view of a plane ticket and visa to Amelica and a divorce settlement within 2 years and returning to Los with enough cash to buy the village back home.
By the way, have a good trip.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:51 pm on Jan. 31, 2004
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ringthebells
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somebody is reading my mind, or my posts... it could be even less then 2 years.
rtb
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:59 pm on Jan. 31, 2004
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Abrak
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I wouldnt equate the money part too closely with any feelings she may or may not have for you. You will certainly get a substantial discount for 14 days. She will almost certainly try to maintain the GF/BF scenario. You can give her Bt5000 'spending money' for the trip, you will almost certainly buy her some 'presents' during the trip and a bonus Bt5000 at the end should cover it. My guess is that assuming a certain level of generosity, she will not even mention money.
However, just cos she acts like your gf for the trip, it would be very wrong to think that you have a real gf/bf relationship. It is far more likely that by the end of the trip you are the one seeing stars and believing you are madly in love, offering her Bt20,000 a month and telling her to stop work at the bar!! You may think I am joking but I am not.
My best guess is that she will make this a good gf/bf experience for you. Dont read too much into it either way - she is just working and you are having a good shagging holiday.
My advice is - dont use your brain too much and just enjoy a f***ing good holiday.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:05 pm on Jan. 31, 2004
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ColoradoGuy
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You didn't ask us if we think a guy who has been to Thailand one time, and seen a girl for only a week should take her to Phuket for 14 days, so we will not answer that question 
If you really want to go through with this, I think that you should ask her how much she would be happy with, do not take "up to you" for an answer. Press her. Whatever she says, it means nothing about how much she likes you. You are her customer, not her boyfriend (no matter how much you want to believe otherwise).
Now if you told her you were going to pay her nothing except her barfine for 14 days (and her expenses) and she still wanted to go (believing you when you said you would not give her any more money), then I would say there is a possibility that she really likes you. 
At the risk of going against my first paragraph above, have you considered going for a few days to Koh Samed instead? Search the "Elsewhere in Thailand" thread for Koh Samed, and you will find two of my FRs. It is a better experience for getting to know a girl, far less expensive to get there, far closer, and I think it is a better beach! If you really like her and want to continue with her, you can continue down to coast toward Koh Chang. Save Phuket for when you want to screw lots of different BGs. Just my opinion.
Baby steps, baby steps...
sirtitus, if you were my close friend, I would be very worried about you.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:48 pm on Jan. 31, 2004
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JHolmesJr
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Sir Titus,
Sometimes it's fun to go boldly where no man, or men, have ever been. Just because no one here has done what you propose does not mean it is an unsound idea right off the bat. Time will tell if you were a genius or a madman.
On the face of it, you and this girl know each other and have grown comfortable with each other. You've had some good times and let's face it, she would have bolted if you (or your money?) didn't interest her.
Or maybe she's worked out the obvious: that it's better to have a guaranteed customer for 14 days than leave it to the luck of the draw.
You're coughing up the airfare, the barfine, the food, hotel, she just got to lie back and hopefuly have a few orgasms.
This is music to any go-go girl's ears, I'd imagine.
One thing though: I think if you so much as mention money beforehand, it will f_ck up the mood even before you start.
If she doesn't bring it up (in which case you will instantly know the score), don't commit to anything.
If she didn't ask you for a specific amount upfront, surely she meant up to you, right? (wink, wink)
And...what if she starts getting on your nerves after 4 days and you want her to leave?
I will not comment on how much you should pay her but a 1,000 B a day over and above everything else sounds pretty high. She'll be glad if she can get that much out of you.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:18 am on Feb. 1, 2004
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Oz
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From what i've heard you should get a discount on the Barfine, perhaps 25% or more. They bars dont work on the fact that the Girls are Barfined every day, they usually have a minimum they have to go a month!
Have a good time, enjoy the experiance, it will be interesting to hear your FR!
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:24 am on Feb. 1, 2004
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ringthebells
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how is that, bargaining for your future (ex) wife. what a way to start a relationship...
have not seen any marriage material in midnite lately, I wonder who she is?? hopefully not mamasans fat little helper.
but I have to admit the curtains over their shaved pussies had me going for a while, waddya think, oldspice, vancouver jay??
I refrain from asking S05, as he seemed to be good to go. he was so plastered, they would have managed to freshen up sukhumvit a bit.
but, rockys advice is quite a good one. I personally find koh samet pretty good to test the waters, so to speak.
rtb
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 12:35 am on Feb. 1, 2004
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dirty guru
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Ok gurus turn. (firstly I have to comment that respect needs to be given for the last 3 assessments)..but I differ. Here are my reasons. Mainly one ITEM....she cried. The case is set along the lines, your new to Thailand. Abrak, actually may prove, along with colorando guy to be the best advice on offer here. But I will back myself on this case. which is your a newbie and in a small time frame, fell for a go go girl, that hung out cried, and bar fined herself, when the $$ ran out. Even did the airport!.........offer no money at all, and be you. Be committed approach her though it was real (as well it could be)....one thing in your favour (if true ) is she cant e-mail without help!....Dg
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:40 am on Feb. 1, 2004
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