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I came to LOS for the first time in mid February and met a very nice TG who was doing TTM on the beach near Pattaya. I spent 4 nights with her(she was doing ttm in the day) and gave her 1000baht per night. I found her to be very nice and she spoke good english and we had a superb time.
We have kept in touch by e-mail and after her 4th e-mail she has asked for money, now I have been round the block enough to have expected this.
I will return to LOS later in the year and I have to decide whether to ditch my TG or keep in touch and see her later in the year, although I fancy going to Ko Samui.
Without doubt I am not the first farang this has happened to and I won't be the last, I just feel that it would be really hard just to dump her but at the end of the day we did only spend 4 nights together and she is sounding me out for £200. Perhaps the best way for all concerned is if I tell her finances are not too good at the moment and send her maybe 2/3000 baht and see what her reaction is.
Can any experienced members give any advice?
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:25 am on Mar. 24, 2003
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Packripper
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Well, the SWIFT code for Bangkok Bank is BKKB-TH-BK. Bangkok Bank utilizes 10 digit account numbers (XXX-XXX-XXXX).
IMO though, you'd be doing more good (your money would be more effectively spent/invested) if you just picked random 10 digit account #'s to make wire transfers to.
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Posted on: 12:53 pm on Mar. 24, 2003
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haam sup
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My advice is to make it clear that you can't/won't send her any money, but you would like to see her again when you are in town.
Sending her a few baht is, IMO, a bad idea, and sets a bad precedent in her mind. She will more than likely be happy to spend time with you for 1000 baht per night, and really has no justifiable reason to ask for sponsorship when you are away. She's just taking a flyer, and doesn't really expect you to give it up.
If there is something worth pursuing on a long-term basis, it will emerge after you have known each other a LOT longer than 4 days...then, your REAL problems begin 
haam sup
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:04 pm on Mar. 24, 2003
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chrisboy
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just four words: Don Fall In Love
well, u might wanna try sending some. provided u really like her and wanna see her again and again, will u?? remember, this $$ thing will never stop. be prepared!
regards,
chrisboy
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 1:06 pm on Mar. 24, 2003
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chrisboy
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just to add on....4 days and shes asking for $$!! i bet when u go back to see her, she'll tell u she wanna stop this "job", find a decent one (none available) and ask for sponsorship!!
HS is correct, lay the cards with her and if she don like the idea, dump her!!
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:10 pm on Mar. 24, 2003
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chrisboy
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BK, didnt see yr post in between mine.
hahaha........ thats a funny one!! 
or like those African money scams, no problem, send me some $$ first so i can use them to send u mine!!
hahaha..... and greedy people still fall for them!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:14 pm on Mar. 24, 2003
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Thin White Duke
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Tell her that you will send her the money, but that if you do, you'll have to kill yourself. The thought of your money and NOT you going to her would be to much to bear and cause tremendous suffering. Ask her what to do but be clear that if the money goes and you don't death is imminent.
Then, if you send the money, and she writes back.....do not respond.......ever, avoid her massage bench.........and strictly pay for play as you should have in the first place.
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Posted on: 5:43 pm on Mar. 24, 2003
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JackRabbit
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JackRabbit present...
Go as haam sup suggests if You want to be comfortable.
JackRabbit says: Do not react and change girl.
JR
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Posted on: 3:36 am on Mar. 25, 2003
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Gus
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Thanks for the great posts guys, you only confirm what my head says but my heart doesn't, really enjoyed haam sups post. I don't know why I even thought about it really, I must be getting soft in my old age!
I think I'll go to Ko Samui in November and insert John Thomas into a few orrifices down that way, Lamai sounds good to me although I know it's more quite than Cheweung. I must remember not to stay at Pavillion Resort.
keep up the great work with the forum!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:17 am on Mar. 25, 2003
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