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I've gotten messages asking what women want, what makes them happy, what makes them tick, and what turns them on. I was asked to create a topic for this, so here it is. If you guys have any questions, ask me, and I'll give you my opinion. Please remember, though, that I do not claim to know every woman's mind. It's just one open-minded bi girl's opinion, and the only thing you can be certain of is that what I write in reply will most certainly be what *I* want, and possibly what other women want. No guarentees, but I'll be completely straight-forward and honest with you. Just so long as everyone knows, I've not had the best reputation for tact. I'm pretty blunt.
So, if you're sensitive, or you don't really wanna know, don't ask! 
Kisses!
The New Guy's Groovy Wife
(hey....where's my monument???)
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:50 pm on Sep. 16, 2002
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BigDUSA
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What type of foreplay do you like? How long do you like it to continue? More questions to come.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:44 pm on Sep. 16, 2002
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Ktmdude
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Great suggestion for a discussion thread.
What activities do you like to do (if any) prior to getting down to business e.g. dinner, dancing, disco, romantic walk along the beach etc??
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:17 am on Sep. 17, 2002
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JIMMY D
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Hi,
Do you think the girls at Eden are faking it when asked to do the lesbian stuff?
Have you tried them yet?
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 11:11 am on Sep. 17, 2002
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Lets see if the new guy's wife agrees with me. Ý
It is very simple. ÝIn a very general sense, woman first and foremost want you to prove that you are her PROTECTOR and PROVIDER, that is, if she is taking you seriously. ÝNo woman is going to take you seriously (bar a few far and between instances) if you are not capable of showing her that. ÝIn the dating game, knowing this is KEY. Ý(not that I am an expert) ÝThat means paying for the date and having your ducks in a row (knowing where you two are going, how you are getting there etc.). ÝNever get caught off guard just like in a job interview. ÝYou have to show her you are worthy. ÝDon't be a pushover. Challenge her on her opinions don't let her roll over you. ÝRemember no one respects anyone who kisses thier ass... ÝAlso you must remember that the female CHOOSES YOU. ÝYes you went up to her and got the number but she, maybe before you even saw HER, probably saw YOU. ÝYou must be PROACTIVE. ÝDon't be embarassed whether on the bus or on the train or WHEREVER. ÝShow some balls, believe me this is part of her respect for you. ÝShe is not going to throw her panties in your face with her number on it. Ý(bar a few hollywood hunk instances) ÝIn the club or mall you must first recognize the signals a woman sends. ÝThey are so subtle but you must learn to be adept at picking them up. ÝTrial and error is the only way to learn this, it then becomes second nature. ÝOnce you see those signals it is absolutely imperative you make your move right there and then or she will see you as a procrastinator and a weak person in fear of rejection. ÝJust like a horse who can smell fear when you mount it, it is the same for women... Ý
In bed... ÝYou have to be patient. ÝYou have to keep the mentality that you expect nothing from her and you are going to try to do everything for her. (in your mentality don't actually say this) ÝUNDERPROMISE AND OVERDELIVER!!! ÝNow in reality if she does nothing but lay there, you will probably rip up her number but if you are patient and CREATIVE then she will be coming back fom more and giving you more. ÝALWAYS BE CREATIVE. ÝI cannot stress this enough. ÝThings I still find stupid (flowers, candles) go MILES in a romance situation. ÝFeel like a little bitch? ÝFeel like a wimp for doing this? ÝThink of how good that stuff is going to feel when you are finally up in it??? ÝThat includes going down on her which if done correctly Ý(and the female likes this very few do not) will have her coming back for more.
My ramblings again. ÝHope I helped a little. ÝNew guy wife feel free to add/edit my ramblings...
In the end though fellas, no offense, ÝIF YOU HAD TO ASK THIS QUESTION THEN CHANCES ARE... ÝYOU WILL NEVER KNOW...
Mykal
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 1:43 pm on Sep. 17, 2002
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alibaba
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There is a quaint little story told in Greek mythology. A sage, Tiresias, disturbed two snakes engaged in their sexual activities and was cursed by them to become a woman for seven years. After seven years as a woman, he returned to his normal form. People asked him to tell them if a woman enjoyed sex more than a man. His answer was that women enjoyed sex seven times more than man. The reason, according to him, is that a woman gives her all to sex while for a man, it is merely a matter of a release. Perhaps this story can answer some obvious queries.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 11:53 pm on Sep. 17, 2002
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alibaba
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There is a quaint little story told in Greek mythology. A sage, Tiresias, disturbed two snakes engaged in their sexual activities and was cursed by them to become a woman for seven years. After seven years as a woman, he returned to his normal form. People asked him to tell them if a woman enjoyed sex more than a man. His answer was that women enjoyed sex seven times more than man. The reason, according to him, is that a woman gives her all to sex while for a man, it is merely a matter of a release. Perhaps this story can answer some obvious queries.
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Posted on: 12:07 am on Sep. 18, 2002
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Wow! I sure did open up a can o' worms, didn't I? Well, here goes, in order of posters....
BigD--> What kind of foreplay do I like? How long? Hmm, this is a tough one. I'll tell you what I like, and I'll tell you some girl-talk. I personally feel that foreplay begins at the start of each day. When I wake up, I expect a kiss (morning breath notwithstanding!) and a hug, though it doesn't have to be a *serious* kiss. Just a peck is fine. I like to lay in bed for 1/2 hour to an hour and play. Sometimes I like to gently wrestle, tickle-fights, or even pillow-fights. There are other times when I'm in the mood to curl up against my man and play wiht his chest hair (or her breasts, if it happens to be a woman). I like intelligent discussions, varying from odd quotes, to philosophy, to comparisons and contrasrs between differeing religions and what their social impact may or may not have upon any particulart country, whether or not they themselves practice that religion. It doesn't have to be as serious as all that, but the morning is a wonderful time to get lost in intellectual musings with your SO (significant other). I like to make breakfast together, one of us washing dishes and one of us cooking, often trading butt-gropes and giggles. I like sit-down dinners, and in general, sit-down meals. I hate eating on the go. While eating, discussion topics can vary, from the migratory habits of small geese (not really, but you get my point), to the weather. Meals that are cooked together and consumed together, with the TV off, sitting at an actual dining table, are special times that prepare me for the evening. When we watch ER and Law & Order in the evenings (sometimes CSI, too), I like it when my SO's hand rubs my back gently, or my neck, or gives me a hand massage. It's not a planned out thing, but just small loving touches throughout the day that make me much more pleased with the idea of sexual activity. One of my favorite things is when I'm checking my e-mail and my SO draws me a bubble bath, perfumed with lotus (my favorite scent). A few candles, lights off, and some incense (again, lotus scented) and my book are all that I need for an hour of pure bliss. During this time, he or she can do whatever they want to do while I pamper myself. When my SO does this, I always let him choose my lingerie for the evening and deposit it in the bathroom, for me to change into when I'm finished. Sometimes he'll come in and wash my back for me and gently rub my torso and chest. He likes to play with my nipples, and at these times, I like him liking to do this! I'd let him wash my hair, but the last time he did this, when it came time for the rinse, he dunked me!
In bed, I like a lot of kissing and rubbing everywhere. I like a firm touch, but be careful! Many women like it much gentler than I do. I like to talk with him while we do this. Often, he will go down on me. I like it best when he starts from the top of the labia and gently moves his tongue over the labia majora. He's usually softly rubbing with his fingers are this time. When my hips begin to arch slightly, he'll apply a little more pressure and move his tongue down about a centimeter from the top of the labia. Eventually, as I keep arching into him, he'll move deeper, into the labia minora, and gently play with the vaginal opening. It doesn't take long of this before I end up burying his face in me, and he can go for the clitoris, and begin delving his fingers within my vagina. However, while you are this deep within a woman, do not forget to lick or play with on occasion, the labia majora, as that is the starting point for all sexual pleasure. At some point, I will yank him up to me and slip him inside me. What positons we take from there, depend on both of us....
Another thing I *really* enjoy is a good, oily deep-tissue massage. Full-body, complete nudity. Often, if you sweep your hand over the sides of a woman's breasts as she's on her stomach, she'll tingle. Don't do it a lot, or you'll risk short-circuiting her. But if you do it a bit, she'll being to arch her back to give you closer access to her nipples, which by this point should be burning as if they were on fire. But don't go there directly. Keep teasing. She'll love you for it. Also, if you rub hard at the base of a woman's spine, at about the middle of her butt, there are some very tense muscles there. Not so much on a woman with a small chest, but take it from me, boys, the bigger a woman's chest, the more back problems she'll have. I had a 'B/C' with no problem, then latter puberty hit and I was a large 'F' and now I'm at a comfortable 'D'... I've had a lot of back problems because of breast size, and a 'D' is a happy medium between pain and beauty, for me. So, if she's got big 'uns then press hard at the base of her spine to relieve some of the tension. Eventually, when you're rubbing at her low spine, you can start sweeping your hands towards the end of her butt and down her things and calves. When you're on the up-stroke at her thighs, press upwards until your fingers meet the base of her ass. Do this a couple of times, and then begin to move your fingers a little further up and in to just barley tickle the outer lips with your fingers. Do this a bit and she'll start opening her legs to receive you. After she's opened her legs and had them open for a couple of minutes, you can pass your hands over the exposed lips very quickly and gently, as if you were still concentrating on rubbing her thighs. Once she really starts to spread her legs and arch for you, you can fully use your hand on her, rubbing the outer lips and eventually progeressing to the inner lips.
Don't worry that your woman won't do the arching. It's natural for a woman to do so, and if she holds herself back from her natural instincts, then she's got a lot more problems than what you can help. But remember, it's all instinct for a woman. Provided you go slowly, he instincts will take over. She may regret it in the morning, but then again, if you've proven to be so good, it's likely that she won't regret a thing, though she'll probably be very confused and need some time for herself to think things through.
TNG's Wife
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:34 am on Sep. 19, 2002
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Ktm--> What sort of activities do women like, prior to sex? Well, that really varies for every woman. There's no one answer on that. Whatever you do, it should be fun to her. Preferably nothing sedate. You want to get her blood pumping a bit, whether from exertion or adrenyline. For me, going out shooting works. I love to feel the raw power of a handgun or rifle. It's exhilarating to know that you hold something potentially deadly, but that you're responsible enough to use it. Of course, though, I was raised on guns and view them as something as natural to me as mother's milk. Other women may have different ideas. Some like amusement parks, other like swimming. Maybe you can take a girl out snorkeling, or diving. Boating is fun, so is tennis and football. If she's a Brit, she might like soccer. Basketball is good, too. Try going rollerblading, or riding a motorcycle. Go on a hike and explore someplace that isn't inhabited, where it's only the two of you and the animals. Go dancing, or take some informal merengue lessons together.
Getting blood pumping starts circulation wihtin the entire body, making one feel overall healthier. Feeling healthier means being up more for sex.
TNG's Wife
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:41 am on Sep. 19, 2002
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