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ThaidUp
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OK having seen what happens to a lot of guys here and what happens in most relationships as they age, I needed to come up with a solution to prevent this problem from reoccurring.
First the problems or should I say Ploblems:
1.Most TG’s tend to get lazy after in a relationship ages where sex becomes less and less important and is replaced by other activities by them such as watching Thai soap operas, shopping, dancing and partying with friends, etc.. Sex becomes a lower priority for them.
2. As most TG’s how much money they want per week and you get the standard “Up to answer”, but if provide a certain amount that is below their expectations they will let you know that it is really not up to you.
3.Many girls feel uncomfortable asking for money and want to be “Geng Jai” this creates an unnecessary tension that detracts from the relationship.
4.The TG is put into a powerless situation, One, she is dependent on you to provide her means, but does not have any control on how much she will be getting monetarily.
5.Many TG’s all of a sudden turn into Miss Good TG when she is taken out of the bar. So previous Bi-sexual performer on the stage, now has trouble showing her body in full light.
6.Since you are now the steady “boyfriend”, you will get asked to support multiple family emergencies.
OK that is a list of some of the problems, now what is a good solution?
Well, I came up with the The Sponsorship Spreadsheet and I DO mean “SPREAD between the sheets”
The spreadsheet consists of various sexual activities with quantities per month, rate, minimum quantities and a maximum monthly budget cap. To make sure everything was understood I put links to photos properly illustrating each activity.
At times I thought this idea was insane, but then again at times I thought it was genius. I am reminded again and again never underestimate the power of the baht.
OK so last week I meet up with the TGF and she proceeds to tell me that she really needs to go back working in the bar to pay for some family plobloems that she does not want to burden me with. A perfect into for my business plan.
So I show her everything I prepared on my spreadsheet and she is dissecting this plan like an IPO prospectus. Bottom Line….SOLD
I even put in Bonus performance clauses like after she successfully completes 10 BBBJ CIM she will get those braces that she’s been wanting. Mind you this girl has never done this act before to completion.
Having bought into the plan she begins the task and she is one step closer to braces and me a happy camper. That kiss was a deal sealer
Now if you look at the beauty of this plan:
1.It gets rid of the lazy factor. As the saying goes “No Money, No Honey” also applies in reverse “No Honey, No Money”
2.The amount of money she makes is up to her, up to the monthly cap, thus putting her in control and not having to plead or be uncertain on the outcome. This takes care of items #2,3 & 4 above.
3.All monthly activities must be done to minimum quantities or be replaced with another suitable provider, in other words another TG. This eliminates #5 above.
4.Now family ploblems are not your ploblem, she knows what to do to earn the money.
5.It instills a sense of work ethic and a new level of reward system.
OK I know a lot of you are going to say, this takes the passion or love out of the relationship, but anytime you are expected to P4P it kind of does the same thing. You can go on and believe this fantasy, but don’t post your lovelorn stories here when you choose this path. Actually, I think it is more beneficial and removes the money transaction out of the way. I do not directly pay my TG at the end of the night, but wire the weeks activities directly into her account. No more talking about money and ploblems just fun and games.
Sex meets business 101
I personally cannot believe the turn around of stress level in my TGF and how happy she is. I think the uncertainly of what the future holds weighs heavy upon the shoulders of these girls. Take this away and you can create a sexual dynamo.
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:58 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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Frank La Rue
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5555555555!,
Brilliant and funny - I shall keep this one up my sleve for FrankieGirl and her mother!
It does not solve, however the issue of remote sponsoring, which some guys get themselves into and I would advice against.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 1:34 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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ASIAN MAN
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i know nothing about sponsoring a girl or plan to but...
- what is the #1 reason ppl sponsor girls ?
- what are the benefits ?
- does she come running when you call her ?
- what is the sponsorship process ?
i can go on.....i just freakin don't get it 
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 1:37 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Talking from experience I would be against remote sponsoring unless it was for a short time. Too many things to go bad.
#1 reason is to not have every Tom, Dick and Harry banging on your girl. This reduces the chance of catching any STD's as well as you both can get tested.
In my personal case, my TGF is very skinney (35 kgs) so she cannot take a pounding every night. Additionally, she cannot drink much, but the way to make good money in bars is to drink with the customers, thus she would be throwing up most nights. After a couple visits to hospital, doctors told her to change her lifestyle or else serious harm would be forthcoming.
The process is up to the girl. Does she really want to leave the bar scene or simply have a customer maybe one of many that is sending her money. Again, living remote it is hard to verify what is actually happening.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 2:30 am on Aug. 23, 2004
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Murf
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Do you have a lot of time on your hands ThaidUp?
I think in theory it sounds good, but it will be interesting
to see what happens in practice...
How long have you been doing it for now?
And what IS your monthly cap rate btw?
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 2:51 pm on Aug. 23, 2004
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scobie
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My hat is raised in deference to a brilliant scheme by Mr Thaidup. Brother, I salute you.
But I'd be interested in what your monthly cap is also and how you value the various activities.
Can you share that information?
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 7:15 pm on Aug. 23, 2004
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Mark Pressure
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I once worked with a married (white) couple here in the states that had an even worse arrangement. They made the same money but she gave it all to him and he would give her an allowance. She could bet up to $100 a week on football games, if she won she made money, if she lost she stayed even. He then told me he payed her for various sexual acts..... sex, blowjob etc.... talk about control!!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 8:20 pm on Aug. 23, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Ok shot my load earlier thus locked out from posting, now reloaded here are some answers:
I will let you know that my maximum cap is 50K THB. Now when working in the bar my TGF could make 20K to 40K. I doubt she will hit the cap, but let's see what happens.
Now you may think this figure is high, but compared to the Hi-so clubs like Orbit & Carribbean, this is just a starting level. This girl could easily work on these places, so I could myself lucky to find a gem in NEP. Plus she has a great attitude and is fun to be with.
I won't devulge the single act pricing as I do not want to incur the wrath of why you pay so much you are ruining the market. First, off I am Jai Dee. Second off, I am the market since she is off the market. Third, off this girl is a stunner so she is used to punters just BF ing her and doing the same-old same-old without much effort on her part.
In fact, I blame most punters from spoiling these girls. They take a girl who has a great body, but average in bed and heap loads of praise on them until they believe themselves that they are great in bed. When I asked my TGF to grade herself in bed she gave herself an grade A based upon all previous praise. Well I had to explain that she has a grade A body, but was a C at best. Now she is bound and determined to make grade A in bed.
Another factor in my pricing is the wear and tear factor. She is very small and tight. One time I ripped the skin on my dick f_cking her another time she ripped the condom right off of my dick. This is one of the reasons she wants to leave the bar scene, she physically cannot take a rooting every day and needs a break.
Murf, the plan was launched last Thursday and I will use this thread to keep all interested readers abreast of things. Both of us are very busy. Me with work, she with school, so meetings are limited to at most Friday and Sat. nights.
Last Friday's meeting turned ugly when little sister was brought along, but was in a foul mood. Sunday little sis was sent packing back home. My TGF had plans of a threesome with little sis, but it takes 3 to Tango.
All I can say, so far so good. There was always a sense of tension about her financial needs, now that I put this in black and white there are no more disscusions about this. It is a non issue and now she happy and just planning away on what she plans to do during our next meeting.
So far it is a Win-Win situation, but these things can turn on a dime so let's see what happens. Whatever does, I can assure you it won't be boring. Like I said before a night in Thailand can be either terribly bad or terribly good, never boring.
Asian Man: Another good reason for sponsorship is:
http://bkkx.com/cgi-bin/forum/topic.cgi?forum=28&topic=229&start=0
We are both getting tested and we have both reduced our mongering ways except with each other and select others who have been tested. Another good reason for variety within instead of variety of girls, but this is just me and I do not make any judgements for others in their pursuit of happiness.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:44 am on Aug. 24, 2004
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Hermanolobo
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This is interesting but I do forsee one major problem?
You are thinking like a Westerner (Farang) and not like a Thai!
How the Thais think? I'll quote George Bernard Shaw from an old newsreel. "Well I haven't the faintest idea!"
I can see only one solution.
Always have a stock of reserve Thai females !
Don't shove them in the girl's face so she doesn't lose face. But vaguely let her know that if she not up to it there are plenty more around.
This 'Competition' I believe is the only solution ??
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 3:14 am on Aug. 24, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Well Herman already took that into account. I explained to her these are the things I like to do on a monthly basis. This is my monthly budget. You can get as much of the monthly budget as you feel confortable in doing, but it is up to you. If want to be taught anything I have the patience to teach you, but anything that you are unconfortable with is "No problem" "Up to you" I will just find another TG who like doing such things.
Did she understand?
Well she wanted to take it up the ass right then and now, the only problem was not enough time so I had to decline and postpone to another day.
Think like a Thai..Well never underestimate the power of the baht. There is nothing worse for a TG to see money fleeing from her own pocket into another girls pocket. Breaking down taboo's has been more fun than I thought. Now I could hardly wait until the weekend.
This is definitely more fun than having an Eden girl who does everything on the menu. Breaking through new frontiers.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:27 am on Aug. 24, 2004
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