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cbnt
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Just wondered something...
I have been calling (and getting called by) a Bargirl I met in Bangkok last time I was there...
The problem is I sort of find myself running out of stuff to say pretty quickly, so what do you guys talk about when you talk to them on the phone?
Cheers
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:40 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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cbnt
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Yeah I would prefer SMS too...but I used to SMS her but now I don't bother, since all I get back is something totally unrelated to what I say, or the text I sent with the names changed...
Aarrgh, it is agony... I don't want her to think I don't want to talk to her.
It's really hard too, if I want to say something. Like I wanted to tell her that she can call me if she wants, but she doesn't have to. It would be easy to explain exactly what that meant to a westerner, you know, "I want you to call and I like talking to you, but don't feel you have to" - but I can't get it across without it sounding wrong...
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 3:56 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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Phla Laa
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Hmm... Before the crap that leads to TU-style agreement on discussion now, I talk maximum about 10 mins on the phone, at that moment everyday for about a month or so.
First category, all the bullsh_t lovey dovey things. This will take approximately 1 minute. Oh, and she always ask what kind of food I eat 
Second, she would bullsh_t me all the way about what she did that day (she usually calls late evening, sam teum) - bullsh_t, coz she probably f_cks 4-5 men already but never admits. This probably take about 2 minutes. Naturally in response I also talk bs about when
Third, money and holiday. This one could take majority of the time. Somehow she always want me to take a leave when I'm in KT so that we can go somewhere. She'd told me about the place, what we could do, what she would do TO me 
When she bullsh_t me about sick pisao, sick dad, or sick mom, she'd tell me some stories, too.
Oh, and at times I would ask info about her friends, the other working girls and what they do with whom. Plenty of interesting stories - the funny thing is she told me about their scheme, which are not at all that different from the scheme she tried to use on me - just like she never tried to use them on me..... This can be long sometimes.
At one period she even talk about marriage, children, the etiquette when we visit her parents (seating arrangement, no blunt touching right in front of dad and mom, etc) and most importantly (for her) is how much dowry.... 
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:03 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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DSBones
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If you don't speak Thai and their english is limited to basic BG speak then there is not a lot you can do.
Very few non-educated TG's are interested in your work and or general lifestyle discussions.
I think you have to learn "Charlie Chang" Thai speak and practise talking to 3 month old babies and family pets. At a more serious level, depending on how well you know them, you should just talk about things that interest them. It helps to check out the Bangkok Post online for a little bit of current Bangkok happenings. get to listen to a few Thai pop songs online..find out which bands she likes & listen to them. Ask about sh_t that you have no interest in but she may know about such as cheap jewelry, shopping etc.
I am sure if you put your mind to it you can imagine lots of bland, mundane things to discuss related to girls & fashion. What do 14-16yr old girls talk about in the west? Start from there.
You do not have to speak Thai to maintain a 5 min conversation on the phone - you just need to learn some stock flirting phrases and some vocab.
I think there is a section on this board that covers such issues.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 4:08 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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cbnt
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Thanks...
Hmm, the TG I know doesn't really talk about lovey duvey or sexual stuff....think that means she's not interested? We did only spend like 2 days together though and only a couple of hours each day... she asks if I miss her and sais she misses me, but that's about it.
She usually asks me what I did too, but atm it's basically bugger all since I'm just waiting to go back to University in a week bored off my arse, so that's a real conversation topic :|.. I ask her what she does and it's always "Stay in Apartment, look at Thai movie and then go working"... :S
There was an exciting bit last night though where she told me she had hurt her eye ecause someone blew smoke in it..so that was a nice change.
She asks when I come back to Bangkok a few times and I say I don't know, because I don't - I tell her as soon as I can (which will probably be april 2005 : ( - I hate this).
Last night when she called me it was about 1.30am Bangkok time we had a pretty good talk then, until some guy started talking sh_t down the phone, I couldn't tell if he was farang or not but that's a bit f_cking annoying if she is calling me.
I'm just a bit lost, since I want to talk to her and I miss her so much, but I don't know how I am going to keep this up for 6 months....
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:12 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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ThaidUp
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Phla Laa...Man why is it everytime I read about your accountings with your TGF the red alerts start flashing! Abandon ship! or you will be adjusting side chairs on the Titanic.
Fortunately, I am into various music including new stuff so we usually talk alot about that she calls me Mr. Music man. She is a techno geek so we traded porno pics from her phone to my phone via Bluetooth and last but not least discussions on how to get more threesomes happening.
What else is there to talk about?
Last night she says she does not want to talk about any future plans such as marriage, babies etc and only wants to have good times that invovle sex, drinking, concerts, movies and discos, plus she does not like to go shopping.
After hearing this I had to recheck to see if she actually had a pussy beneath her jeans or a dick, thankfully it was a pussy.
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:21 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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compexec1
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Well it helps if you know something about her friends, coworkers and family. Then you can ask questions about her day to day life, ie what other regular customers has she seen, did they treat her well? Are her brothers, sisters, parents OK? Is the Mamasan at the bars still getting drunk to much, did that other BG ever pay her back, etc.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:23 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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Phla Laa
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Why do I get the same feeling as you, TU, when I think about her? 
Yah, that's another thing I forgot to mention - she likes to sing so when she feels good she sings on the phone.. and sometimes listen to music together... sigh... that was when times are happier than now...
Oh, ya, and pisao's working, too, so she sometimes told me about pisao's lukhaa... and what faen pisao does when he's got a jealous bout - always give me mixed feeling since he seems quite a nice chap - Thai chap that is, a real bf who lives with pisao - not farang bf.
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:44 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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MaximusNaughtinus
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Finit prefers sms, cos he cannot stand to look at their ugly mugs, he is also good at writing.
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:57 am on Sep. 13, 2004
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cbnt
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How do you deal with all the misunderstandings?
She called me today, and said could I call her back (this was about 9am UK time), I did because I can afford it and she says she has not much money in her phone (don't know if this is true or not but nm) - so we talked for a bit and she said she would call me when she finished work.
So about 8.45 UK time the phone rings (my house phone) and I do the call back number 1471 since I couldn't get to the phone in time. I got some message about "The number isn't available to return the call" which has only happened to me when it's international. So I called her and asked if she had called me, she said yes - but I soon realised she hadn't and she thought I was getting on her case about it "Why you angry?" "What the hell?" "I sorry I not call you" etc - and I'm on the other end of the phone thinking "Oh ffs" and trying to explain how I only called because I thought she had called me and NOT because I was angry she hadn't called yet...
So later she called me back and I managed to actually get it through that I had called her because there was no number and I thought it was her "Great" I thought - then she starts saying "I think maybe you have other girl?" AAARRGGHHH. (I don't btw)
Does my f_cking head in sometimes.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 3:31 pm on Sep. 14, 2004
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