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Abrak
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I have been analyzing my behaviour over the last couple of years I have decided that I suffer from temporary girlfriend syndrome (TGFS). I suspect many of you guys have the same problem.
There are basically 2 symptoms.
(1) Every sexual encounter needs to have some girlfriend experience (GFE). So for me going to a MP and having a quick shag doesn’t really do it. The same can basically be said for picking up at p4p girl in NEP or Patpong – although I guess a chat and a drink can sometimes create that ‘she really likes me’ feel. The freelancers always give you a better ‘feeling’ especially as most never ask for a penny and you can always slip a couple of 1000s in their bags the next morning. However, nothing really beats those ‘good girls’ that are totally unrelated to the p4p business.
(2) The second symptom is that after you have been with the girl a while – maybe one night, maybe a couple of times, maybe even a month – she suddenly starts seeming less and less attractive. That cheeky grin now looks like a smirk… that cute tattoo now makes her look like a whore. Its not just the looks… her high pitched voice is beginning to sound like a whine. Her constant attention is not endearing… its irritating…
And so you move on…
The thing about TGFS is that there is no cure. You think there is – that a girl will come along that you wont get bored of… But it never happens….
So why am I telling you about this? I know you don’t give a toss.
But if you know about TGFS it helps and it helps for 2 reasons.
First, you will never end up sponsoring a girl because you know that the ‘gorgeous pouting star bird’ that you think you want forever will soon be consumed by your desire for fresh meat. Recognizing that you have a problem is half the cure… or something like that.
Second, I am convinced that many TGs – or BGs – or simply serial daters – suffer from a similar problem namely ‘temporary boyfriend syndrome’. When they tell you that they love you and never want anyone else they really believe it – at least for that moment in time. But after a while, boredom or whatever it is, sets in and the smell of fresh meat becomes too difficult to resist.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:13 am on Oct. 12, 2004
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LocalYokul
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TGFS = Too Good For School from the likes of us lowlifes down SouthEast way, 555 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Sensual Bangkok Women
Posted on: 9:21 am on Oct. 12, 2004
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formen
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Abrak,
I had the same feeling (TGFS) for years until I got hit with an arrow. BTW, keep it up and stay clear of the arrows.
Cheers!
formen
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Thai Girls : Meet Sexy Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:33 am on Oct. 12, 2004
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Singlolo
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Lovely...
Actually I even realized that as soon as I know I can get her in my bed she becomes less attractive.
Cheers,
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Sexy Bangkok Girls
Posted on: 10:15 am on Oct. 12, 2004
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compexec1
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So how long does it take for TGFS to hit? I'm still in the "I can't get enough time with my Fav TG stage". I sometimes wake up and just look at her sleeping next to me for 10-15 minutes at a time, sort of creepy I know...
Compy.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 10:54 am on Oct. 12, 2004
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silentbob1234
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They are cute when they're asleep aren't they. Just like sweet lil angels you just wanna kiss all over. 
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Bangkok Women : Meet Beautiful Thai Girls
Posted on: 12:27 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
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TwinkleToes
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Quote from Singlolo:
"Actually I even realized that as soon as you know you can get her in your bed she becomes less attractive."
Really? You must be having far too much sex.
Quote from Abrak:
"The thing about TGFS is that there is no cure. You think there is – that a girl will come along that you wont get bored of… But it never happens…."
Abrak, this is a very depressing outlook. What's the prognosis - a hedonistic lifestyle of debauchery and lust until disenchantment and finally decrepitude set in? Mind you, that's not so bad.
Can I offer a second opinion? You're one lucky bastard! An affluent single gentleman in the prime of his life living in Bangkok surrounded by an abundance of beautiful girls.
But maybe you're searching for answers: Is this as good as it gets? Is there not one of these exotic creatures that I can connect with on a higher level than my base chakra?
Remember those 'Magic Eye' books that were popular a few years ago? On each page there was an amorphous pattern of computer generated dots with no particular meaning. But if you held the page about 12 inches away from your face and allowed your eyes to drift into soft focus so your focal point was beyond the page, then a hidden image would gradually appear.
I think women are like Magic Eye books. When I look beyond the surface and the promise of sex I'm sometimes amazed at what I find. Hidden treasures beyond my expectations and connections that I thought could never exist. People see what they want to see. If they look for a piece of meat, then that's what they'll find.
Like you, I'm still wondering if I can find someone to save me from this terrible affliction. But the odds are getting much higher now that I'll actually notice her if she happens to come along.
And yes LY, I'm wearing those rose-tinted glasses again.
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 2:41 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
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manowar
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Quote: from Abrak on 5:28 am on Oct. 12, 2004
I have been analyzing my behaviour over the last couple of years I have decided that I suffer from temporary girlfriend syndrome (TGFS). I suspect many of you guys have the same problem.
There are basically 2 symptoms.
(1) Every sexual encounter needs to have some girlfriend experience (GFE). So for me going to a MP and having a quick shag doesn’t really do it. The same can basically be said for picking up at p4p girl in NEP or Patpong – although I guess a chat and a drink can sometimes create that ‘she really likes me’ feel. The freelancers always give you a better ‘feeling’ especially as most never ask for a penny and you can always slip a couple of 1000s in their bags the next morning. However, nothing really beats those ‘good girls’ that are totally unrelated to the p4p business.
(2) The second symptom is that after you have been with the girl a while – maybe one night, maybe a couple of times, maybe even a month – she suddenly starts seeming less and less attractive. That cheeky grin now looks like a smirk… that cute tattoo now makes her look like a whore. Its not just the looks… her high pitched voice is beginning to sound like a whine. Her constant attention is not endearing… its irritating…
And so you move on…
The thing about TGFS is that there is no cure. You think there is – that a girl will come along that you wont get bored of… But it never happens….
So why am I telling you about this? I know you don’t give a toss.
But if you know about TGFS it helps and it helps for 2 reasons.
First, you will never end up sponsoring a girl because you know that the ‘gorgeous pouting star bird’ that you think you want forever will soon be consumed by your desire for fresh meat. Recognizing that you have a problem is half the cure… or something like that.
Second, I am convinced that many TGs – or BGs – or simply serial daters – suffer from a similar problem namely ‘temporary boyfriend syndrome’. When they tell you that they love you and never want anyone else they really believe it – at least for that moment in time. But after a while, boredom or whatever it is, sets in and the smell of fresh meat becomes too difficult to resist.
Same problem here. As a matter of fact, I got kind of tired of the whole p4p scene after my 2nd week in BKK last May. I actually couldn't wait to get home even though I knew I would miss this place the minute I got home. As for "TGFS", I have found that when I want love, my desire for lust gets in the way and when I want lust, my desire for love gets in the way. Same patients out there ? Love or Lust ? can you have both ? 50%-50% ? 40%-60% ? what is your Love/Lust ratio ?
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Thai Girls : Meet Active Thai Girls
Posted on: 4:06 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
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French Goat
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Quote: from manowar on 4:21 am on Oct. 13, 2004
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Same patients out there ? Love or Lust ? can you have both ? 50%-50% ? 40%-60% ? what is your Love/Lust ratio ?
When I am not with my wife but with another TG:
Love: from 1 to 5%
Lust: from 95 to 99%
But with my wife, it is 100% on both!!!
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Thai Women : Meet Matured Thai Women
Posted on: 4:17 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
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Abrak
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Quote: from formen on 9:48 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
I had the same feeling (TGFS) for years until I got hit with an arrow. BTW, keep it up and stay clear of the arrows.
formen
Funnily enough I would quite like to be hit by these arrows.
But, who's complaining at least I am better off than Singlolo....
Quote: from Singlolo on 10:30 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
Actually I even realized that as soon as I know I can get her in my bed she becomes less attractive.
At least I have to shag them first before they start morphing...
Gee, the day I am in bed with Naomi Campbell - she spreads her legs - and I look up and see Serena Williams... now that would be depressing!!
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Bangkok Girls : Meet Attractive Thai Girls
Posted on: 9:22 pm on Oct. 12, 2004
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